Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)

[VainDoll]

^ true. I dont mind.

Hay nako! Di ko na alam gagawin ko kay burn out bf. As much as I want not to talk about his work siya din nagoopen lagi. parang yun na lang napaguusapan namin. Maybe, I need to do something. Haaay

[simang]

^if he rants about it, just listen.

[snowhite_12]

Big deal ba sa inyo guys if ilan na boyfriend ang dumaan sa isang girl na like niyo?

[sacred cow]

^ big deal ba sa'yo ilan na girls nakasex ng guy na type mo? if yes, ganun din naiisip ng guys if no ganun din naiisip ng guys na no ang sagot

[zeroone]

Big deal ba sa inyo guys if ilan na boyfriend ang dumaan sa isang girl na like niyo?

personally, i don't mind but she needs to be honest about it and come out clean. however, whether the guy will accept the answer or not, is a different story. you can't take away the fact that sexperiences will be discussed and most men are off if they're not the "first".

most men can live with it since it's in the past. some can't handle that.

[sacred cow]

personally, if marami nang naging bf ang babae say 5 or more. tapos let's say sobrang bata niya pa, I would wonder why walang tumatagal or kung ano issues niya kaya hindi siya matagalan nung mga lalake. kung siya naman ang nakikipagbreak lage..iisipin ko rin kung may poor taste/judgment ba siya in men. I would also be wary if marami nang baggage yung girl from previous relationships tapos magfefeeling  na porke nakarami nang naging bf, e alam na lahat regarding relationships, as if it's something to be proud of..jeez

[slickchick]

^ bro, can you quantify yung "sobrang bata niya pa" (girl)? bigla ako napaisip.. my brother's gf is only 19 (my bro is 22). the girlfriend have had 3 or 4 bf's already.. pang-4th or pang-5th na nya yung brother ko.. mas marami pa syang naging bf as compared to my brother's gf count (pang-3rd pa lang sya ng brother ko).

[sacred cow]

yeah, siguro below 20 would fall under sobrang bata to have been involved in so many relationships. isipin mo, kung 19,sya tapos nakalima na siya. anong age kaya sya nagstart? has she ever been single for a long time or kapag nakikipagbreak may kapalit na agad? has she allowed herself to grow while growing up by interacting with lots of people or 'di ba niya kaya ng walang bf, kaya kung sinong nanlalandi sakanya, jinojowa na kaagad. mga ganung things

[sacred cow]

haha ofcourse depende pa rin talaga sa tao, may iba mabenta lang talaga kaya laging may bf..baka nga din nagbbf na lang nung bata pa para tigilan na ng maraming manliligaw. still, it would raise some red flag especially if the profile of the girl is medyo malandi. the other extreme of course is the masyadong choosy type nung bata tapos nahihirapan na may magkagusto nung late 20's na

[snowhite_12]

ganun ba yun mga bro? sex experienced kaagad? if marami na naging boyfriends...

[sacred cow]

^ bakit may masama ba kung i-assume na sex experienced na yung babae kung marami nang naging bf? not that I see anything wrong with it, I would just find it hard to believe if a girl had let's say 5-10 ex boyfriends tapos sasabihin niyang inosente pa siya.

[sacred cow]

^ don't we all

[MrGentleMan]

^ bakit may masama ba kung i-assume na sex experienced na yung babae kung marami nang naging bf? not that I see anything wrong with it, I would just find it hard to believe if a girl had let's say 5-10 ex boyfriends tapos sasabihin niyang inosente pa siya.

well i agree.. hindi naman sa virginity nasusukat ang pagmamahal, why deny kung may experience ka na o wala.. as a guy, I'd appreciate it if the girl were more honest sa mga naging experience nia, maybe its just me but i don't care if the girl is a virgin or not, kung maraming experience or konti lang, ang importante, honesty..

[sacred cow]

^ kelangan na kasi talaga mabago yung 'slut-shaming' culture dito sa bansa natin. napaka unfair naman kasi na kapag lalake ang nakarami, bida siya pero kapag babae pokpok. Ang masama pa, babae sa kapwa babae ang napaka judgmental tapos kadalasan malalaman mo isa din pala sila, nagpapaka hipokrito lang

[zeroone]

^ kelangan na kasi talaga mabago yung 'slut-shaming' culture dito sa bansa natin. napaka unfair naman kasi na kapag lalake ang nakarami, bida siya pero kapag babae pokpok. Ang masama pa, babae sa kapwa babae ang napaka judgmental tapos kadalasan malalaman mo isa din pala sila, nagpapaka hipokrito lang

iba naging dating sakin ng "babae sa kapwa babae" mo bro. uso din kasi ngaun talaga yan. LOL. at challenging ang ganyan mga tobits with looks.

[sacred cow]

^ I like the way you think bro..hahaha

[eleine26]

guys,

kapag ba ang isang guy hinde nagdelete ng chat history niya with other girls. in short, nahuli mo na nakipag flirt pala sa iba. does it mean ba wala lang sa kanya yun? I mean okay lang makita ng gf niya kasi wala lang yun? pag tinanong sasabihin na wala lang. tapos na. stuff like that.

[zeroone]

guys,

kapag ba ang isang guy hinde nagdelete ng chat history niya with other girls. in short, nahuli mo na nakipag flirt pala sa iba. does it mean ba wala lang sa kanya yun? I mean okay lang makita ng gf niya kasi wala lang yun? pag tinanong sasabihin na wala lang. tapos na. stuff like that.

that definitely doesn't mean anything, it's probably just a routine. lol
but still, it could lead to something.

[jtansanco]

^ First rejection, I'll try again. Second rejection, I'll try again but indirectly.. Third rejection, sige-one-last-effort-I've-got-nothing-to-lose-anymore... Forth rejection, who are you? Haha

[zeroone]

kapag niyaya nyo magdate ang isang babae tapos tinanggihan kayo, papansinin nyo pa rin ba siya o hindi na?

of course papansinin pa din. it isn't supposed to be easy anyway. madaming nagkakatuluyan dahil sa persistence ni guy.