he who love me less

[tamera_lorraine]

@lesters_gal

hi sis youre welcome update mo na lang kami...

ikaw pa rin naman ang mkakapagdecide if ano ang makakabuti para sayo..

Good Luck! ^_^

Kaya mo yan Go girl!

[baliwsayo]

Don't worry too much, magsasawa ka din. Hangga't di ka pa sawa, eh di wag mo na lang isipin. Importante eh masaya ka dapat sa mga ginagawa mo. Wag ka mag-effort kung di ka naman masaya. Ganyan yata most guys.. pag kampanteng mahal natin eh kampante ng talaga. Tayo naman girls mga dramatista.. mahilig mag-over analyze tapos mapapraning. Lol! 

[lesters_gal]

^hahha.very true sis. Super paranoid lang. Yun nga din sabi ko sa pinsan ko, aantayin ko nalang na mapagod at mag sawa ako, i know darating din yung time na yun at ako na mismo ang lalayo sa kanya.

[sarah29]

Sorry, but I think he's just not that into you. Pag mahal ka ng tao, makikita mo yan clear as day. Kahit gano pa kaiba yung way of loving nila, alam mo pa din sa sarili mo kung mahal ka nya talaga. Kung yung mga tipong 2 weeks hinde kayo nagkita, and you still have to beg for more time from him, then there's something wrong. Oo tama, dapat pag mahal mo hinde mo binibilang, pero tao lang tayo at there  is no such thing as a one-sided relationship. Kaya nga relationship, eh. Kung ikaw lang nagmamahal at kumikilos, then baket pa tinawag na relationship yan?

I think you really need to work on yourself. Dapat hinde okay sayo na tina-trato ka ng ganyan. Baket sya magbabago kung nakikita nya na payag na payag ka sa situation na ganyan? I promise you sis, hanggat hinahabol mo sya, tatakbo at tatakbo yan away from you, walang magbabago. Re-evualuate mo sarili mo and make changes sa mga kaya mong baguhin. Nagwwork kaba? If so, you need to find yourself some good set of friends. Find a hobby.. go do something that will keep you busy. Better yet, start going to the gym, or do some make over. Hinde para sa bf mo, kundi para sayo. Just do something to keep you busy and to make yourself better.. physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Eventually, mapapagod ka din, at marerealize mo na you don't deserve this kind of treatment.

[simang]

Hi TS, I quote Sabrina Alexis (from A New Mode):

"In a good, strong, healthy relationship, you feel loved and secure. You don't question whether your man is using you and if the things he says are genuine. You just feel at ease."

Yes mahal mo, yes willing ka magsacrifice, yes di ka pa pagod. Pero yung totoo, would you want to be with this guy for the rest of your life? (I'm asking you this kase I'm guessing you are in a relationship because you see him as a potential life partner). Look at yourself 5 or 10 years from now, andun ba sya? If yes, masaya ka ba?

You're saying that your problem is that you can't leave -- alam mong may mali pero lagi kang bumabalik. Bakit? Maybe because feeling mo you're not going to find another, that no one's going to love you better. Really? You think ganyang klaseng love na ang best na destined for you? Ganyang klaseng love na ang pinaka deserve mo? Because if you truly believe that you're worth more, nothing can stop you from leaving -- not even the strongest emotion (which I think in here is not your love for him, but your pity for yourself na takot na magisa).

Or maybe iniisip mo he'll change. That somewhere out there he still will give you the love that you want. Sorry to burst your bubble, but no woman can change a man. A man will change if he wants to, for the woman he loves, but if you impose that change on him, talo ka doon. Sabi nga nila diba, a man marries a woman hoping she won't change; a woman marries a man hoping he will change. That's why most marriages don't work, sad to say.

[sarah29]

A man will change if he wants to, for the woman he loves, but if you impose that change on him, talo ka doon.

That's a good one sis.

[narz83]

i finally got the courage to call it off few days after i posted this thread. thank u, mga sis for the enlightening words it means a lot. i cut all the lines of contact we had. ignored his calls and texts after we spoke, but that was it, after a couple of weeks, he didn't pursue.
i am into a rebound relationship now. and i have no regrets. never better. he knows everything. he is even the one who asked me to give it a try. anyways, the time, the effort and the attention i give into this new guy is kinda worthwhile.
again, thank you, sisses