Wedding Pamahiins

[iceheaven31]

sharing my "something"s:
--old: engagement ring
--new: wedding gown
--borrowed: earrings from mudra
--blue: panty 

[gemwin21]

^^parang something borrowed lang din sya sis eilin0823.?

[Mr.Punch]

Yung nanay ko merong pamahiin na dapat yung date daw ng kasal is "habang pataas pa ang buwan" - which, upon explaining, meant that the wedding should occur anytime between a new moon and a full moon (pataas), and not between a full moon and a new moon (pababa).  Nakuha daw niya sa tatay niya yun.

Anybody else know about this particular superstition?

[escobarina420]

This is very interesting.

[mrsA]

kelan ko lang nalaman na may pamahiin na after the wedding, bawal bumalik sa bahay ng parents si bride for at least a week 

naisip ko pano ang mga couples na sa bahay naman talaga ni parents titira after. hehe. oh well. dami talaga pamahiin

[damsel.in.distress]

Ang daming pamahiin. dagdag stress. haha!

ang susundin lang namin ay yung:
*something old, new, borrowed, blue
*bawal magkita the day before the wedding day.
*bawal ang sukob.

the rest, keber na. 

[iriskers]

Ang hirap talaga pag sumusunod sa pamahiin [textspeak!] mga relatives mo. Yung gown ko kasi ang bilis magawa, first week of jan 2015 pa naman ang wedding ko, yung gown ko, medyo gawa na siya pero wala pang beads, since overseas si hubby ayoko na ma stress kaya ok na din na mabilis ang pag  gawa nila..,  sinabi ko kasi na december ang wedding, sa divisoria ko pinagawa. kaya lang ayaw saken ipasukat nang mga tito and tita ko, plus yung mommy ko ayaw din, pano kaya yun?

[nhetsky23]

hi mga sis, ask ko lang, yung mga pamahiin ba na "something.." both bride and groom ba dapat?

[z0z]

I have a question as well, is there a pamahiin about bride not allowed to wear pearls on the wedding day?

[Chili1113]

Sis I heard about this. Pearls come from water daw kasi, and signifies tears daw. I dont believe in it, but just to be sure I am avoiding pearls. I wonder though if fake pearls on the wedding gown in the beading count?

[jheajen]

any bride here na hindi na sinunod na di magkita before they marry...kasi naman 6pm pa yung wedding time namin..and ofcourse we need magkita before that para ok pa yung scene for the picture taking..kaya magkikita kame ni h2b before we go to the church..ok lang naman yun..no choice din naman..and wala naman masama mangyayari kasi yun na yung date talaga ng wedding..and nasa isang preparation area lang kame..

[maukris]

^fiance and i agreed not to see each other a day before (after the last confession) not because of pamahiin, para may excitement din sa part namin...same with not showing yung mga isusuot namin.

How old mga sis yung something old? 

[jheajen]

^fiance and i agreed not to see each other a day before (after the last confession) not because of pamahiin, para may excitement din sa part namin...same with not showing yung mga isusuot namin.

How old mga sis yung something old? 

sis wala kasi kame choice..6pm pa kasi magstart yung ceremony so madilim na sa tagaytay so hindi na masyado maliwang sa picture..maganda parin may liwanag talaga.so we need to meet for picture taking muna..sayang nga kasi wala na talaga kame naabutan na 3pm kasi nagpalit kame ng date then peak pa december so ubos na talaga slot..

something old sis any thing na nagamit na..example is yung engagement ring mo..its considered old.

[maukris]

^thanks sis.
During photoshoot baka pwede na ang suot mo iba during the wedding talaga para may ilook forward pa kayo.

[sparklingjewel]

Honestly, my fiance and I are waaay too logical to follow any sort of pamahiin. He's probably going to ask me to show him scientific or logical proof of it before he follows. Haha! I also think it's mor eof the elders who are forcing young modern couples to follow these. On the practical side though, for me if di naman talaga kaya or it would be such an extra hassle, I'd definitely just ignore it.

Sis jheajen, given your situation, I really dont think there's any way to avoid it, other than that your walk down the aisle will be less exciting since you've seen each other already.

[iriskers]

hello sis

my question lang ako i got married this month then my husband's brother who happens to be a gay is planning to get married here in US with his bf. their planning to gt married in february. counted ba yun as sukob? I meant their gays, pero siyempre kakasal pa din sila though judge ang magkakasal sa kanila dito sa USA.

help me sis.

[whatswithjuly]

we didn't follow any pamahiin.
i have no something blue, borrowed and old. i was too stressed para isipin ko pa yan. 

[iloveshimmer]

Mga sis, we better not believe in superstitions. It only signifies our lack of faith in the One true God. Ilalagay natin tiwala natin sa mga gamit, araw, buwan? Pagtiwalaan natin yung lumikha ng langit at lupa, mga hayop, at mga tao. And just pray to Him na maging strong ang relationship at makaiwas sa temptations.

[shygirlme]

Hindi kami sumunod ss mga pamahiin. Something old something new bawal isukat gown etc. Walang ganon. Super ok ng wedding namin!

[Maxim04]

Sis iloveshimmer korek sis! Wala sa pamahiin yan, nasa pagsasama. hehe.

Sis iriskers, yes considered sukob. If you dont believe naman with that, ok lang rin! Pupunta pa rin naman sila dba? I have a friend her brother died in June, they got married Sept the same year, The wedding is scheduled na and death is sudden naman. These things are inevitable naman talaga. Unless you want the wedding to be rescheduled the next year after babang luksa whatsoever pa.

Sis z0z, , the pearl kasi is formed inside a kabibe. So literally eh luha siya ng kabibe. If you wear pearl daw on your wedding day, you will bring tears to your husband and your marriage..

Sis mrsA, that means naman daw eh babalik ang babae sa bahay pagdating ng panahon, kumbaga eh, magiging pangit ang marriage kaya uuwi si babae sa magulang niya.

Bro Mr.Punch, ive heard this too. Parang mga mangingisda, they expect lessharvest pag walang buwan kasi the fish dont follow the moon. Means the wealth dont follow the light. So if they go fishing pag may buwan, mas madami at nalapit pa ang mga pusit. So mas madaming huli. Same goes sa kasal daw. Moon signifies water attraction, like high tide pag papalaki ang buwan diba, so our emotions are iba kapag papalaki ang buwan. Mas intense daw. (Ewan lang sa mga gurls na may buwanang dalaw sa full moon!! Ahahah) So recommended na kapag new moon - maglipat ng bahay, magchange ng work, magstart ng business, magpakasal, kasi it signifies new beginning.. 

Bottomline is, nasa sa inyo pa rin naman ang mga bagay bagay sa kasal. Sumunod or not sa pamahiin, ikakasal ka sa taong gusto mo makasama habang buhay. You should make things work out. Not based on the moon phase, not on the pearls, or the blue accessories.. hehe.