I'm Haunted with my Boyfriend's Sexual past

[iamABreal]

well, yung sa akin naman sis, super nakakaloka yan at first. mabobother ka talaga kahit pilitin mong dedmahin, pero in the long run, lalo na kung wala namang issue or ok naman relationship ninyo ni BF, magiging ok din ka din, maiisip mo man yan, hindi ka na ganon mabobother or masasaktan. matatawa ka na lang

[Angelite]

Don't think about it anymore. He is with you now and that is what matters.

[10tequilashots]

The past is the past. We all have a past and we are the sum of all our choices. Likewise, the past and all the lessons it came with has also defined your boyfriend and has led him to his future - You (since you said he's the one). The beauty of being human is in our resilience and our ability to move forward. Don't let something that can no longer be changed ruin what is now good  and still evolving.

[SaffiyahEnglish]

Minsan kasi the more na nagtatanong tayo at nagiging super inquisitive sa past ng SO naten the more na may malalaman tayong hindi okay saten. Syempre nagkaumpisahan na ng tanungan na,"Virgrin ka pa ba?" "Ahh hindi na." "Sino first time mo?" Sunud-sunod na mga tanong na yan. Like my suitor open siya about sa sex life niya at sinabe niya saken na first time niya ex niya (the girl before me) tapos gumawa pa ng kwento may naka-sexcapade daw siya na friend sa inuman naka 4 rounds daw sila at ang galing daw nung girl. Nung una I didn't mind pero dumating yung time na medyo binig deal ko yun haha. After ng deed namen umamin siya na joke lang daw yun (hayyyy nako mga lalake naman talaga [textspeak!]) ayaw daw kasi niya mapahiya saken ganyan ganyan. Pero totoo nga yung sinasabe nung iba dito na kapag mahal mo talaga yung tao accept mo siya pati na rin yung past niya. Package yun.