WHY DO GUYS JUGGLE WOMEN? (this is your chance guys, to get honest)

[akthung]

men and women are two sides of the same coin.

again, almost everyone is into juggling.

May tanong ako, bakit mo nililigawan yung girl kung hindi mo naman pala nakikita yung future, or kung ano man yung qualifications mo para maging serious ka sa kanya?


ganun di naman ang babae, "bakit ka nagpapaligaw sa maraming lalake" or "bakit ka nagmumultiple dates?"

for both parties - collect and select seems to be the reality. if you're not ready to select then i guess you'll tend to collect and play with them. barbie dolls and gi joes.

they don't call it a number's game for nothing.

kaya nga hindi ako naniniwala sa ligaw

ako din minsan parang napapaagree din ako sa kaing personal na pananaw. why? dami din naghihiwalay eh. so ano ang purpose di ba? (aside from other reasons) lalo na sa first world countries, divorce rate is 50%, kasama na po dito yung mga hindi nabibilang sa statistics. they may say 30 or 40 percent pero kamasa na mga hindi nakikita at nabibilang it is pegged at 50%

ika nga ng isang dating guru, i've written this somewhere a long time ago, ang dami daming books, courses, magazines, gurus, blah blah about dating and relationships but they have never ever made a dent in improving the divorce rates.

so minsan talaga mapapaisip ka na ano ba talaga ang ligaw? ano ba talaga ang love at first sight? etc etc.

muni muni

[Chinito]

For me dating is a ticket for both sexes, a guy having an opportunity to let his intentions be recognize and for girls to have an opportunity to choose whom she'll likes most before landing into a more serious chapter. but more often than not, we tend to confuse ourselves that dating is some kind of event where both parties should comply into exclusivity. kaya nga maraming babae na bitter, kala nila pag dinate sila e napili na agad sila..too soon girls, not until proposal... but the truth is dating is a game where both sexes is aiming to catch the real one exact for their standards before moving on to the next level. Then there's this courtship. when into courtship, a girl should expect exclusivity, consistency & sincerity. a guy's job is to be determined, patient and sincere while girls job is to be observant and ensure herself that she won't be lured into a chaotic situation.
Now, back to the topic on why men juggles a lot. "IMHO". most men are in the game!, you are in the game. we are all in the same game of a single-hood... we will be out of the game once we found the one we LOVE. don't confuse yourself please. love is really different from "like, want and need". Love needs compassion and needs to be intimate. But for sure, Likes,wants & needs can end up into love. so we better work on it. And if you gonna ask how can you get that guy/girl of your dreams? well, you need to be good at this game, choose your target, the one of your standard and let them fall for you..Kung paano gagawin yon', it's another topic. ...

Girls. Pls. don't be too emoticons on these certain facts about juggling. It is perfectly fine. as long as you are single/unattached. there's is nothing wrong with it.
you too can juggle to your heart's content and someday you'll end up being ousted in the game if you get lucky. high hopes! and enjoy ride before stepping into another challenging chapter of your life.

[Girltalker2]

For me dating is a ticket for both sexes, a guy having an opportunity to let his intentions be recognize and for girls to have an opportunity to choose whom she'll likes most before landing into a more serious chapter. but more often than not, we tend to confuse ourselves that dating is some kind of event where both parties should comply into exclusivity. kaya nga maraming babae na bitter, kala nila pag dinate sila e napili na agad sila..too soon girls, not until proposal... but the truth is dating is a game where both sexes is aiming to catch the real one exact for their standards before moving on to the next level.

I agree.  Girls should not assume sila na ang love of his life if he asks you out.  He asked you out just because he is just interested to get to know you, not necessarily love ka na niya.  Kaya moral lesson dyan do not fall for the guy who just happens to ask you out or text you then suddenly magc complain ka na nawawala.

But a caveat to this is that importante ang communication. Importante na malinaw both parties ano ang ginagawa nila. Baka kasi sa traditional Pinoy dating ay nag a assume ng exclusivity kaso hindi naman dapat ganun. Kaya important for both parties to talk.

However, minsan nagkakataon kasi na nag usap na "tayo na", then the guy still dates other girls nang patago tago - this is the juggling part na sinasabi ni TS, hindi ba?

Girls. Pls. don't be too emoticons on these certain facts about juggling. It is perfectly fine. as long as you are single/unattached. there's is nothing wrong with it.

Again, for me it's fine if the guy is not professing love, or 'I am so into you' thing pero hindi naman. O di kaya I will call you pero hindi naman.  Just don't say things you don't mean at pinaka importante sa lahat, BE HONEST or DO NOT SAY THINGS YOU KNOW THAT ARE NOT TRUE.

[sacred cow]

I believe that a guy who is satisfied and happy with his current relationship would think 100x more about having another affair.

tingin ko eto lang naman talaga 'yon e, if the guy honestly believes sa sarili niya that he didn't settle on his partner, then he won't have reasons to cheat.

[kaiz]

^eh bakit yung iba super pretty, sexy and super inlove pa yung partners, kumbaga naka jackpot na pero nag cheat pa din?

[sacred cow]

^eh bakit yung iba super pretty, sexy and super inlove pa yung partners, kumbaga naka jackpot na pero nag cheat pa din?

simply means the guy doesn't love the girl enough as people think he does so as not to give in to temptation

[Reassesiren]

Based on my experience like ko yung guy nagdadate kami gang sa mainlove na ko tas bigla sya nawala d na nagparamdam nasaktan ako kasi umasa ako na magiging kami friend ko sya sa fb deadma lang.after 1year ngmessage sya at ngaask ulit ng date d na ko pumayag kc nkamove on na ko sknya saka magaabroad na din kasi ako after 6months nagulat ako ng nagmessage sa sa fb at sinundan sya ko sa singapore para magwork ayun naging friends kmi halos every off ko sya nakakasama ko kwenento nya skin na gusto nya talaga ako nun pero may mga bagay na dapat p daw syang unahin like career.. Sinabi nya skin madmi din sya naidate na babae. Ginagawa nya yun kasi hindi pa sya handa sa relasyon, eneenjoy nya lang daw yung pagiging single nya. Ayun manhid na ko lahat ng sinasabi nya na mahal na nya ako para sa akin bola lang natatawa n lang ako pagnagdadrama sya.

Nsaktan ako nun kasi ako naman dinate lang umasa agad purket type ko na minahal agad agad.hahaha
Ngkabaliktad kami ngayon sya na nghahabol skin.hahahaha!!!

[Girltalker2]

^eh bakit yung iba super pretty, sexy and super inlove pa yung partners, kumbaga naka jackpot na pero nag cheat pa din?

^^ it can also mean that the character of the guy is totally flawed.  if he thought he loves his partner na, he shouldn't cheat na. 

iyan ang challenge sa bawat babae, is to look for a man with great character.  yung hindi lampa na walang disposition, walang character du duwag duwag pag nahuli, mga nangangaliwa o sinungaling. 

Nsaktan ako nun kasi ako naman dinate lang umasa agad purket type ko na minahal agad agad.hahaha
Ngkabaliktad kami ngayon sya na nghahabol skin.hahahaha!!!

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