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Re: Help..How to revive yung gana sa sex
« Reply #20 on: May 18, 2014, 11:34:39 pm »
this is just a suggestion only, okay. why dont you guys discreetly try it with a somebody else. kase, isa sa reasons ng kawalang gana sa sex eh alam na alam mo na yung move ng ka partner mo such that nagsasawa ka na ng puro ganun na lang. kung hindi man puro ganun, alam na alam mo na yung routine o kaya naman yung kayang ibigay sayo ng partner mo. kaya wala ka ng gana kase memorize mo na. with somebody else, syempre nandun yung kaba mo na gagawin mo yun not with your partner that makes it a little exciting. di ba sabi nga, "kung ano yung bawala, yun ang masarap". besides that, hindi mo alam kung ano gagawin sayo ng bago mong kapartner at baka may bagong kiliti sayo sa ma discover nya. in that way mapalabas nya yung hilig at gana mo sa sex. of course kailangan bukod sa discreet ito alam mo rin kung kelan ka hihinto dito. otherwise, kung hindi ka naniniwala sa sinasabi ko, baka naman you fell out of love na sa ka partner mo. yun lang naman yun kaya nawala gana mo sa pakikipag sex sa kanya. hindi dahil sa pagod ka lang o stressed sa work.

All I can say is OMG. I'll try every possible way to revive the appetite but not this. No offense meant. This is cheating na po kasi.

Anyway mga sis, ako I haven't given birth yet pero nawawalan na ko ng gana. Kasi naman it's partly my partner's fault din. Lagi nangangalabit kahit ayaw ko tapos pag andun na nauuna sya palagi. Sigh. 3 years na kami sa 1st year pang ako ganado. I think this is also because of hormonal imbalance. I gained weight kasi tapos sometimes 5months di ako dinadatnan. I'm not sure pero I want to consult an OB na din kaso di ba nakakahiya na itanong bakit wala akong gana? :(

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Re: Help..How to revive yung gana sa sex
« Reply #21 on: May 19, 2014, 06:33:33 am »
^better have yourself checked na with your OB, irreg din period ko sobra although wala naman ako nagiging problem in terms of getting aroused and pagkagana sa sex. But, malay mo, possible na yun ang cause in your case mo. Normally naman they'd check for natural lubrication, baka your dry or something kaya wala ka gana.
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Re: Help..How to revive yung gana sa sex
« Reply #22 on: May 19, 2014, 09:31:55 am »
^will do sis. There are times nga na dry ako. Idk di na ko ma-arouse sa foreplay ni hubby. Minsan kasi nasasaktan ako ewan ko din kasi tingin may problema kay partner. Alam mo yung laging nakatouch? Kaya pag gagawin na namin di na ko ma-arouse eh.

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Re: Help..How to revive yung gana sa sex
« Reply #23 on: December 01, 2014, 02:46:37 pm »
Variety is the spice of life.

Not necessarily variety in partners ha, but variety in the way you do things (or should I say, the way you DO EACH OTHER ;D)
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Re: Help..How to revive yung gana sa sex
« Reply #24 on: December 01, 2014, 06:07:12 pm »
Wala naman effect sa libido ko maski nagpi-pills ako so mag-try ng ibang brand ng pills baka di lang hiyang.

Try nyo ibang ambience like mag-motel kayo ulit. So, date muna kayo, inuman.. then check in.. just like the old times.. balitaan mo kami.
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Re: Help..How to revive yung gana sa sex
« Reply #25 on: July 02, 2015, 05:06:51 pm »
My husband is Still hot, but when I think of him in a sexual way, I dont feel aroused. :(

We are LDR, we used to have naughty chats online but now we just talk about our kid and our plans. When he mentions sex when he comes home, I silently cringe. I feel bad that I don't see him as a sexual partner anymore. I am not in love with another person nor I want to be with anyone else. But I just don't feel sexual towards him anymore. But when I fantasize about exlovers, Just to see if I still get turned on, I feel aroused. But when I think of my husband, it feels meh. We used to have hot passionate sex life but now, I dont feel sexual towards him anymore. It has been two years since I gave birth and yet it seems that I have lost my libido (towards him) for good. Hay wag naman sana.

He is coming home in a few months and I dont want to feel like this anymore. Help!

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Re: Help..How to revive yung gana sa sex
« Reply #26 on: July 02, 2015, 06:40:34 pm »
Same situation with me. halos 2-3x nalang kame ni hubby. Wala na din akong gana simula nagka anak kame and that was 5 yrs ago. :(

Sabi nga ni hubby, nasasanay na sya ke Maria. kasi ewan ko ba, minsan wala ako sa mood, minsan pagod, ayoko din mag pretend. minsan naman when I plan na mag aya, bigla na lang ayaw ko na, matutulog na lang ako. :(
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Re: Help..How to revive yung gana sa sex
« Reply #27 on: July 03, 2015, 02:56:55 am »
haha mejo relate ako dito.. when husband and I were just bf/gf it was really passionate sobra. then after I gave birth ayun nawalan din ako ng gana dahil gumamit ako ng pills.  after I gave birth sobrang takot akong mabuntis ulit dahil nahirapan ako sa pregnancy ko.  we used condoms din before, may nakakaaliw din palang gamitin hahaha tapos may nagsabi na di daw 100% sure yun so nag pills ako and dun na ko nawalan na gana. kaya ayun most of the time di na din enjoy.
Mas ok kung may thrill,, lets say visit your inlaws then let your baby stay with the grand parents sa pagtulog then takas kayo ni hubby sa kalagitnaan ng gabi then check in.. mga simpleng bagay na may thrill

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Re: Help..How to revive yung gana sa sex
« Reply #28 on: July 03, 2015, 08:30:38 am »
ganun ata once na nanganak na nababawasan na yung gana sa sex. si hubby kasi mainit pa sa sex halos araw araw gusto never ko pa naman syang tinanggihan pero ang gusto nya ako naman yung unang mag aya may time naman na nauuna ako kaya lang most of the times sya talaga.

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Re: Help..How to revive yung gana sa sex
« Reply #29 on: October 24, 2015, 08:12:39 pm »
Hay naku I feel bad talaga. My husband was touching my armpit and he said wow hon, kalbo ang kilikili mo ah. And I said pati down there kalbo na din. And he said whoah? Yuuuuuck! Sabay sabi ng joke lang. Pero I was already offended. :( yoko na tuloy makipag do sa kanya until di pa tumutubo pubes ko hayyyy. Kakasad naman.

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Re: Help..How to revive yung gana sa sex
« Reply #30 on: November 07, 2015, 11:26:13 am »
Ako naman baligtad. Laging ako nagaaya. We've been living in for more than 1 year tapos almost 2 years na kami. Recently nga, I've been researching online for any supplements para makaround two naman si boyfie at para mag increase llibido nya. Eversince naman kasi sinabi nya sakin na hanggang isa lang talaga sya. Wala naman syang problem sa erection pero after nya magcum, wala na syang arousal. Eh ako kasi may mga time na after nya labasan saka palang ako sobrang gaganahan so hindi kami sabay tapos ayaw na rin naman nya. Bitin tuloy ako. Tapos lagi talagang ako yung magaaya. Naooffend na nga ko kase minsan ayaw nya. hindi naman ako pangit. Hindi rin naman ako mataba. Sorry sa medyo vulgar na words haha. I'm a very sexual person kase pero not the type na kahit hindi boyfriend eh ganun ganun lang. Nafufrustrate na kase ako. Mahal na mahal ko sya at gusto ko sana sya na makakatuluyan ko. But sex is very important to me. Naisip ko na almost half ng buhay ng babae yung pwede syang makipagsex na wala pang hassle. To spend that amount of time sa isang tao na hindi ka naman masyado nasasatisfy di ba? But i really love him sobra. I talked to him na ilang beses. Sinasabi ko na naooffend talaga ako kase ako na nga nagiinitiate lage tapos tatanggihan nya pa ko. Tinanong ko kung may gusto na ba syang iba o ano bang problema nya. Nagsosorry sya kase ganun raw talaga sya, tapos pagod sa work. Na he will make up to me. Nagiinitiate lang sya kapag emotional nako. Syempre maarouse pa ba ako kapag nafrustrate at umiyak na talaga ako. Last time nga sabi ko na sa kanya, maghahanap nalang ako ng iba. Na huwag syang magtaka kung may gusto na ako sa iba. At hindi ako natatakot na palitan sya. Sobrang frustrated nako at disappointed talaga. Syempre sorry na naman sya. Same old lang. Iniisip ko na nga na magmove out na lang ako. Balik nalang ako sa parents ko. Baka sakaling mamiss namin ang isat isa. I don't want to lose him pero everytime na naffrustrate ako, nagmamasturbate nalang ako thinking of other people. Tuloy kapag kami na magsesex parang hindi nako maarouse ng hindi ako nagiisip ng ibang tao. I was thinking of buying him supplements ng hindi sya maooffend. I don't know what to do. Sorry sa long post. I'm just super frustrated lang kase. Nagmamanifest na minsan sa actions at words ka lalo toward sa kanya. Ayoko naman sana na moody ako sa kanya dahil lang doon pero I'm a woman in my prime. Sana may makapagshare ng insights. Ok lang kung ijudge ako or kung anuman. Thanks.
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Re: Help..How to revive yung gana sa sex
« Reply #31 on: November 07, 2015, 01:30:59 pm »
Same.sentiment  ng friend  ko. Mula daw ng nanganak siya hindi na siya masyado ganado sa s÷# unlike before  na ilam beses a day. Medyo pagod daw siya  kase nga alaga pa ng anak.


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Re: Help..How to revive yung gana sa sex
« Reply #32 on: November 09, 2015, 12:11:20 am »
Haay pano ka naman gaganahan eh walang ka roma romansa man lang. Gusto pag nangalabit sya eh basta ka na lang hihilata tas ok na. Kaya naku manigas sya.. Isa ako sa mga babae na kelangan nilalambing muna at binobola man lang bago ganahan hehe. He doesn't make me feel beautiful anymore or sexy or even desirable.. So ako naman lalong nawawalan ng gana hehe. Ewan ko ba, ganon siguro talaga pag matagal na kayo. Haay life

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Re: Help..How to revive yung gana sa sex
« Reply #33 on: December 01, 2015, 05:35:54 am »
First kemes namin kalma lang.. Sabi ni hubby nuon wala daw kasi siya hilig mashado..
I dunno baka nakasanayan lang ng ganon ka generic ang keme in the past.

Nagyaya ako magcheckin sa hotel... Hindi motel hehe para isang buong araw.
Sabi ko, for us to be happier.. Kailangan masaya ang sex life..
So doon kami nagkakilala better in bed.
I told him i like this and i like that...
I am not a squirter pero ang orgasm ko muscle spasm.. Naaddict siya makita ako ganon. Goal na nya yun palagi. Pag hindi ako nagganun... Di yun titigil hanggang di ako nagspasm. Kasi it cannot be faked kaya alam niya na di ako nasatisfy. Sabi niya naging adventurous daw siya sakin.. (Chos!)

Dumating time na tinanggihan niya ako... Then nawalan siya talaga ng gana.. I tried everything ayaw talaga niya he pushed me away literal. Kasi yun pala.. Sobrang galit na namin sa isat isa...
Nagbreak kami at inayos ang sarili namin... Nung ok na.... Back to hardcore na ulit...

Minsan kailangan [textspeak!] ng space.. Para bumalik ang gana..

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Re: Help..How to revive yung gana sa sex
« Reply #34 on: December 01, 2015, 08:21:55 am »
paminsan minsan try nyo rin mag-role playing, it adds spice to the do  ;)

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Re: Help..How to revive yung gana sa sex
« Reply #35 on: December 02, 2015, 12:02:04 am »
simple [textspeak!] yan sis..kumuha ka ng mag aalaga sa baby mo..ganyan din ako nung una..pero nung meron ng nag aalaga like inlaws mo or yaya mismo may time na kayo mag solo ni mister..Kung nawawalan ka ng gana isipin mo [textspeak!] lahat ng masasarap na alala nung mag bf gf palang kayo at kung paano kayo mag sex noon na sobrang sarap tingnan natin kung di ka mag init..At pag may nagaalaga na ng anak nyo try nyo ulit mag sex sa ibang place like motel or hotel para wala kayo iisipin kundi ang mag sex [textspeak!] babalik yang gana mo. Kami nga ni hubby nung nag motel ulit eh sulit na sulit ang 10hrs. :)

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Re: Help..How to revive yung gana sa sex
« Reply #36 on: December 02, 2015, 06:17:16 am »
@khaleesiCersei - it may be that he sees you as a sex thing/toy na lang? just my 2 cents. You know hiim better than I do. ;)
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Re: Help..How to revive yung gana sa sex
« Reply #37 on: December 03, 2015, 12:22:40 pm »
well pag pareho din talaga kayo busy minsan yung focus nyo talaga di napupunta sa sex kase nga madame kayo iniisip pag ganun, pero siguro kung di kayo pagod at nasa condition kayo pareho e nasa pag uusap naman yan at nasa foreplay din. may time naman kahet quickie kayo e nakaka excite pa minsan yung ganun e..
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Re: Help..How to revive yung gana sa sex
« Reply #38 on: April 10, 2016, 07:32:51 am »
Up ko lang thread na ito.
Kamusta  na mga sis na natin na nag share ng sentiments dito?
May improvement  ba?
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