The one who loves you or The one you love

[adrianne0530]

the one i love. i tried choosing before the one who loves me, but i never became happy.

[LoSiNGGRiP]

the one i love..

[iseenessie]

After I broke up with my ex, akala ko ang gusto ko na would be a guy who loves me. Pero I dated this guy and narealize ko, di ko pala kaya yung ganun. I can't do half-love. I can't do love in short orders and half servings. After that, pag alam kong yung tao ang gustong gusto ako pero di ko sya ganun kagusto, I let the person go. Di ko na pinag-aantay. Unfair sa kanya kasi ako mismo alam ko sa sarili ko na di ko sya gusto eh. Ngayon, ang gusto ko pa rin is the one I love, who loves me just as much. Haha

[von121713]

I guess it's just striking a complete balance between loving yourself and loving that person, whether he's the one who loves you more or the one you love. We should love ourselves more than anything/ anybody else and everything follows.

Sa experience ko kasi, loving someone more than he loves me equates to my insecurities. Inayawan ko na yung ganung pakiramdam.

A yr and 3mos ago, I was given a choice to choose between guy A and guy b. Guy A mas mahal ko and guy B mas mahal ako. Naisip ko that if I choose guy A then my insecurities will perpetuate and it's going to be hell for me, so I chose guy B.. And di ako nagkamali, i am a lot happier now. In fact, we're already getting married this December..