my son is already 1 yr and 1 month. aside from the usual baby essentials, i realized this few things which are also very essential when having a baby:
swaddle/swaddling - i bought the one by swaddle me kc madaling gamitin compare to muslins na you have to fold to swaddle. this is very comforting for babies during sleep. i only discovered the wonders of swaddling like more than 2 weeks na anak ko kaya i wish I've known it beforehand.
co-sleeper - i never had this. my baby just slept in the crib. it would really be nice to have your baby sleep beside you without worrying na madaganan mo sya

Dr. brown's feeding bottles (anti colic feature) - the one with funnel like inside. really works and minimizes baby's colic
functional and huge diaper bag - the 1st one i bought was just out of the blue as my hospital bag. but when i searched for other diaper bags online, wow there are so many much fashionable, durable and very functional. a huge one to put a lot of baby things kung pwede lang dalhin lahat ng gamit ni baby hehe.
electric breast pump - i only breastfed for 2 mos. but if i had a chance to breastfed longer i would invest on a nice and easy to use electric breast pump
air humidifier - buy a good one coz your baby really needs this to minimize nasal congestion
nasal suction & nasal drops - my baby always had nose congestion i used the one like a pump w/c is mahirap gamitin kay baby. i think the one like nose frida with small hose to suck works very well.
a very mild liquid soap for bathing - i will recommend mustela or cetaphil and the likes. the very 1st one i used was johnsons and lactacyd which is hindi hiyang ni baby nagdry skin nya. after that i used mustela na. very mild and hiyang ni baby & super bango. I'm using the liquid soap which is very tipid gamitin. as in 1 bottle lasted for like 7-8 mos. so its worth to buy it naman kahit mejo pricey.
a very nice baby carrier - i think finding the right baby carrier is hard especially for new born but I've heard good things about baby wearing. i bought a baby carrier with hipseat when my baby was old enough to use it like at 6 mos. IMO cloth like baby carriers like ergo,ktan,tula etc is not adviseable for pinas weather esp if going out unless nasa mall lang or under air conditioner.
zinc oxide cream for rashes - very useful! we need this moms!
a comfy breastfeeding chair/couch - i really wish i bought one!
nursing pillow
nursing blanket
changing table - the one i had was attached to the crib. i find it very easy to change my baby's diapers/clothes rather than doing it on the bed
socks - i wont recommend booties kasi natatangal lang sa paa. socks are better
lots of extra wash cloths/lampins/bibs - you will need a lot of these! kesa maglaba everytime better stock a lot of this na lang