nilait si baby?

[iluvmysoldier]

^ sorry sis pero initial reaction ko yun as a mother. hindi ko naman pwedeng pigilan yung nararamdaman ko diba? eh sa naoffend ako eh.
at sabi ko nga, depende kasi sa pagkakasabi at depende kung sino ang nagsabi. and knowing her, hindi compliment ang dating.
sabi nga ng cousin ko ok pa yung unang comment na may tarzan eh, katanggap tanggap pa. kelangan ba paulit ulit?

[hunny_ally]

While I do understand your reaction (I had an officemate who everytime I bring my daughter to work eh pinupuna na Lang the gap on my daughter's front teeth. Eh anong magagawa ko ganun teeth niya. Alangan naman ipa-cosmetic reconstruction ko her baby teeth. Besides even her teeth are like that my daughter is still cute an in fact appeared in numerous tvcs and ads. Something won't happen to her in a million years)

You as a mother should learn how to let go of this. Yes nakakainsulto. But remember your kid take cues from you. Reality is madami pang insulto mare-receive ng kid mo. Yes even my kids too. And unfortunately even rasher insults. Whether it is about their physical or other nature ng pagkatao nila. If makikita ka nya very affected to these insults most likely he'll grow having the same attitude too. Learn to brush away the insults. Alam mo naman ang totoo di ba? Try to learn to pick your battles and reserve the high blood and wrinkles sa serious ones

[iluvmysoldier]

^yun nga sis, initial reaction ko talaga yun. pero ok na ko, di ko na pinatulan ang issue.

[SnowBall]

Nanghihingi ka ng opinyon in a public forum, I gave mine, wala kang dapat i sorry sa akin, at ako din, wala akong dapat i sorry sayo, kasi yun ang opinion ko, hindi naman nilait ang baby mo, just by saying tarzan baby siya, kahit paulit ulit pa yan, eh ano naman, kaya nga tinatanong kita, what's wrong with baby tarzan?

You were asking pa nga sa 1st page kung kamukha talaga ni baby tarzan ang baby mo, so for you, baby tarzan eh negative, na nagtataka lang ako, bakit? 

Emotions mo gumagana, while yung akin, yung talaga perspective ng isang nasa labas ng situation, sabi mo nga, kilala mo yung friend mo, so I guess, ang problem mo eh meron kang plastic na friend na kahit maganda ang sinasabi eh kabaligtaran pala, pero yung nilait ang baby mo Perse, hindi ko nakikita yun, dahil lang sa tinawag siyang baby tarzan.

Yun lang TS, I am just saying walang dapat ika negative nung baby tarzan, kasi pogi si Tarzan, at cute si baby tarzan, so kung plastic ang dating sayo nung comment ng friend mo, nasa sayo na yun.

[SnowBall]

And sasagutin ko pala tanong mo, yes kamukha ng baby mo ang baby tarzan because of the hair and features of the face, pero bago ka magalit sa akin, please read:

PARA SA AKIN, POGI AT MACHO SI TARZAN, AT SI BABY TARZAN EH NAPAKA CUTE.

Hindi po ako namamalastic like your friend..

[iluvmysoldier]

^ok sis, d pala ko dapat nagsorry sayo. thank you pala dapat dahil binigay mo yung honest opinion mo. naappreciate ko yun. thank you rin at sinagot mo ang tanong ko at para sayo nga eh kamukha ng anak ko si tarzan. again, maraming salamat 

[chicafabulosa]

Hey guys relax! Smile...

[iluvmysoldier]

^don't worry sis chic, nakasmile talaga ako. *good vibes* 

[TysLolakins]

not sure kung OT ito...anyway, meron bang baby Tarzan?  para sa akin, ang implied nung friend mo ay si 'Mowgli' from the 'Jungle Book'.
sis TS, if your gut feeling is offensive yung comment ng friend mo, then it probably is.  only you as the mom will know that, kasi kami innocent bystander lang.   
basta tayong mga moms, innate na sa atin ang maging very protective ng ating youngs.  talagang aawayin nating lahat, i assure you, you're not being OA.

[chicafabulosa]

^don't worry sis chic, nakasmile talaga ako. *good vibes* 

good to know..

[izabelle]

sis TS, if your gut feeling is offensive yung comment ng friend mo, then it probably is.  only you as the mom will know that, kasi kami innocent bystander lang.   
basta tayong mga moms, innate na sa atin ang maging very protective ng ating youngs.  talagang aawayin nating lahat, i assure you, you're not being OA.

I so agree with this

again i will say this, iba iba ang tao, iba iba din ang pagtanggap ng comment.. maybe for TS it is really offensive.. maybe for others it is not offensive..

but like what TysLolakins said, trust your instinct sis iluvmysoldier kasi bilang Ina at nakakakilala sa taong nanlait sa anak mo, alam mo kung ano talaga gusto nya palabasin

[iluvmysoldier]

salamat mga sis!  yun nga eh, i know the person kaya alam ko kung anong ibig nyang sabihin dun sa comment nya. sabi ko nga, some people kasi do not know the difference between being taklesa and being bastos. kaya ang lesson talaga dito eh we should all be careful nalang with our words. kasi kahit words lang yan, we can hurt people without us even knowing it.

[VainDoll]

^ sis ang cute kaya! baka naman Tarzan in a good way. Baka lang yun pagkasabi nya medyo offending?

[iluvmysoldier]

^thank you sis! depende nga yan sa pagkakainterpret ng tao. but for me, i find her comments offensive.

[VainDoll]

^ nako sis baka may galit sayo.

[iluvmysoldier]

akala niya sis join ako sa kumpitensyahan ng mga anak. gustong gusto niya yung ganon eh. kasi pansinin yung anak nya, chubby kasi. kaya lagi siyang may comment pag yung ibang mommies sa aming circle eh may pinopost na tungkol sa mga anak.

[iluvmysoldier]

share ko lang pic ng anak ko after nya magupitan nung birthday niya. hindi na siguro siya matatawag na baby tarzan ngayon 

https://fbcdn-sphotos-e-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-snc6/267783_10151191819014334_383161366_n.jpg

[super bratinella]

Nilait na rin ang baby girl ko ng "tabachoy" so ako ang nagreact at super away ko ang bata kasi talagang na hurt ako nung nakita ko reaction ng anak ko kaya sinabihan ko ang dalawang bata:

"gusto niyo ituhog ko kayo sa anak ko dahil mga mukha kayong kawayan, at sumali kayo sa mga feeding program baka sakali magkalaman kayo, malnourish!!"

Di ko napigilan sarili ko sinabi ko sa asawa ko natawa lang kasi totoo naman daw medyo may katabaan talaga ang anak kong babae she is 5yrs old, nahurt lang talaga ako..

[khriseeee]

Reality is, your child will receive many comments that won't be so nice about their looks. You can't please everyone and they have a right to their opinion and freedom of speech (basta not online hehe). What's important is to teach your child how to process negative comments and how they should move forward and not dwell on it.

No use in fighting with people who bear the negative comments, it may only egg them on.

[super bratinella]

My baby girl said to me "that's bad mom right, telling bad things" I said yes, just leave them to Mom, I will handle them..