May "SAY" ba ang tagal ng relationship nyo para hindi magcheat ang partner mo?

[kiz_me1109]

Hindi din. Most of the time, kung kelan nga matagal na kayo, saka pa niya naisipan na maghanap ng iba. My ex bf cheated with me kahit na 3 years kami. My husband also did nung bf/gf palang kami. Few months before our 4th anniversary he told me that he almost cheated on me. Almost kasi nafeel palang niya na parang gusto niya yung co worker niya. It's still cheating for me though.

[heaven_charm]

unfortunately none. meron nga iba 20 years na mag-on pero naghiwalay padin.

[errolavi14]

nakakasad naman ing thread na ito.

Wish ko lang wag masira ang pagsasama namin ng asawa ko. mahal na mahal namin ang isa't isa.

wala akong idea o clue man na gagawin namin sa isa't isa ito, dahil nagmamahalan kame, but then wala namang assurance at lahat naman hinde permanente diba.

hay, pray lang na wag naman sana... kakaloka! 

[sacred cow]

nope, wala sa tagal 'yan...nasa couple yan

[sakinah]

for me wala sa tagal ng relasyon yan kapag nagpadala sa temptation ang isa mabubuwag at mabubuwag din ang relasyon kasi kung sa mag asawa nga my cases na naghihiwalay dahil sa pangangaliwa sa mag bf/gf pa kaya na walang pinanghahawakan. .pero im sure kung matino naman ang  couple at alam ang limitation at they respect each other kahit gano pa katagal ang pagsasama they stand for each other.!!! 

[princeza08]

hindi din. ako nun tumagal kami ng x ko saka sya nagloko. hehe...

i think nasa tao din yan kung natural na syang cheater, or mahina sa temptation.

[budzwhiz]

None, of course! A relationship is a relationship. It doesn't matter how long you've been together. Whether it's for 10 days or 10 years. If you can't commit, then get the hell out. 

[seven82]

wala sa tagal yan. and may nagsabi din sa akin before nung nagcheat yung X ko na nasa lahi naman haha kasi galing siya sa broken family. dad niya nagcheat sa mom niya, brother niya cheater pinsan cheater din. and nung tinanong ko siya bakit siya nagcheat ang sagot niya "lahat daw kasi ginagawa so gusto niya mafeel kung pano magcheat" what a lame excuse! 

[rannastillero]

IMO wala sa tagal yan,
its based on the relationship na na built nyong dalawa.
meron kaseng relasyon na matagal na,
yung tipong nakasanayan na lang na magkasama pero wala yung bond na matatawag natin.
meron ding weeks pa lang or months pero nandun yung bond na hinahanap natin na feeling matagal na kayong magkakilala. alam nyo yun?
its about the bond,its about the relationship,chemistry and ,trust that each of you given to your partner.
kasi kung wala naman na yung nasabi ko above, wala rin, maghahanap rin yung partner natin ng mas deserving at mas masaya kasama kesa sa atin?

pero kung married ibang usapan na yan,,,
hahaha 

[det060403]

I say, none at all. its not about how long youve been together, but how much you value each other.

[kat montecarlo]

Wala sa tagal. Kapag gusto ka lokohin, lolokohin ka nila. kahit itali pa naten sila sa leeg naten..
Remeber CHEATING is not an accident it's a choice.

[IronLady]

Tama! Yung ex ko super bait nun and may takot sa Diyos pero siguro ganun talaga.. Nagawa nya ko lokohin.. Nakakapanghinayang lang talaga sya.. E siguro di nya ko love at mas love nya si other girl.. Oh well..

[xoxohersheys]

I agree, kmi 7 years na kmi ng boyfriend ko and we're living in together but I just found out yesterday na he had sex with someone else. May proof is a SOGO receipt on his wallet. 

[hun_nie08]

can relate 2 years ago - was cheated by my bf of 6 years... well - naconfuse kasi sya... we were off for 3 months okay na din nga yun kasi that was our first break up.  It gave us time din na magkaroon ng space sa isat isa.. Good thing. ngayon kami pa rin... Planning weddings na. Pero minsan di pa rin maalis sa isip ko na abka magawa nya ulit yun e.. Praying na sana wala na... For the first time kasi yun e  and sana yun na din ang last!

[kat montecarlo]

I was with a guy for 6 years.. napaguusapan na rin namin un marriage.. then nung nagstart ako magwork, nag-iba na lahat.. im doing graveyard shift.. tapos sya day shift.. so mahirap yung sched namin.. sabi pa nya sakin one time na nag away kame "Hon, we're ok, hindi lang tayo nagkakaintindihan" ..then after 3 months... HE LEFT ME.... he said he's not happy na.. ilang beses daw nya tinry iconvince yung sarili nya na mahal nya ko pero wala na.. then i found out na meron na pala kasing iba...

For me.. walang kinalaman yung tagal ng realtionship kung magccheat un partner mo o hindi..

sabi nga ni Ann Curtis sa SECRET AFFAIR... Cheating isn't an accident, its a choice.. DECISION...

Kaya hindi dapat sinasabi ng mga CHEATER yung line na "HINDI KO SINASADYA" ... 

[redhead69]

I agree, kmi 7 years na kmi ng boyfriend ko and we're living in together but I just found out yesterday na he had sex with someone else. May proof is a SOGO receipt on his wallet. 

grabe ang sakit naman ng naranasan mo sis. May receipt pa talaga ang hirap pala ng ganito no..

[miss_isla]

I agree, kmi 7 years na kmi ng boyfriend ko and we're living in together but I just found out yesterday na he had sex with someone else. May proof is a SOGO receipt on his wallet. 

I found a toothbrush and other hotel toiletries from Victoria Court galing sa bag ni Ex. And yeah it's not the length of time, we were together for almost 12 years, we were best friends in high school.

[stunning_anne]

may kakilala nga ako 13 years na sila eh yung lalake cheat pa din ng cheat.. I guess minsan wala ng konsensiya yung iba! Ang t**** ni babae, siya pa lang yung babaeng d marunong manghuli at parang walang instinct.

[alice_alice]

Ang ibang lalaki (di ko igegeneralize) basta may chance talagang aariba yan, wala sa tagal ng relasyon yan. If a man wants to cheat di yan mapipigilan kasi kung makakalusot talagang gagawin yun.

[chandey]

^ super agree. minsan yung mga girls din kahit alam nila that her guy is cheating
    hinahayaan na lang kasi baka sobrang mahal nila.