Lessons you learned from LOVE

[momentum]

1. you can never impose how much love you are going to get in return.
2. friendship is the best foundation of a romantic relationship
3. infidelity will forever ruin a relationship.
4. relationship is  a gamble, know when to stop.

i agree 100% with this. gotta learn this from now on. ang t@nga t@2nga ko kasi

[KrabbyPatty!]

natutunan ko na dapat ang girls, pinipili nila ang lalaking MAS nagmamahal sa kanila. then everything else follows.

[Ishasophia]

^ agree sis KrabbyPatty!

[brandi]

1. you can never impose how much love you are going to get in return.
2. friendship is the best foundation of a romantic relationship
3. infidelity will forever ruin a relationship.
4. relationship is  a gamble, know when to stop.

parang agree ako dito.

[kawen]

This is soo true:

Don't lose yourself in an attempt to hold on to
someone who doesn't care about losing you.

[trfg888]

sacrifice
accept
move on
give and take
be the sweetest
forgive
dont blame
trust
respect
love yourself
pray!


EASY as it may sound but these are the hardest lessons to learn...

[pinkberries]

Love yourself more than anyone.

[keenphoenix]

I learned na "mahirap magmahal ng syota ng iba" and that patience really is a virtue... 

[soLaris]

learn to love first yourself and that's the time you can love another.
most of the succesful relationships is if they started out as friends.
there's no such thing as perfect relationship, it requires a lot of hardwork and patience.

[hedonista]

Wag hayaang umikot sa kanya ang mundo mo.

[skyrimgal]

hindi lahat ng relationships have to be stressful.  pwede ka palang magmahal ng isang tao na walang halong stress/drama. with the right person, a relationship can be stress-free!

sources of stress can be:
-hindi ka sure na mahal ka niya
-may babae/nagtitingin pa sya sa ibang girls/nambababae
-hindi ka gusto ng family niya/hindi siya gusto ng family mo
-etc

kapag nahanap mo na ang lalaki/babae na hindi ka ii-stress in at papaiyakin.. yun ang piliin mong makasama habang-buhay!

[jazzmheen]

Na huwag kalimutan ang sarile or baguhin ang ugali para lang ma-please ang partner mo. Yung tipong kahit may mali sya or may nagawa syang di mo nagustuhan, hindi mo sasabihin para di na lang kayo mag-away. Yung tipong pag nasa gitna ng argument, tatahimik ka na lang para lang matapos na ang usapan. Kasi dadating ang araw na mapupuno ka din, sasabog, at marerealize na maraming mali sa relationship pero hindi nyo naayos kasi pinili mong wag i-confront or harapin ang mga problema.

[lonelymiss28]

an eye opener for all single ladies...PLEASE watch!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mHPM-vxorY4&feature=relmfu

[polymath2012]

Vice ganda quotes:

-- "Ang tunay na nagmamahal marunong maghintay. Hindi yung habang may hinihintay, suma-sideline."
-- "Mainlove ka sa taong mayabang, maramot at palaban. I mean, yung kaya kang ipagyabang, ipagdamot at ipaglaban."
-- "Walang taong busy para sa taong mahal niya. Pwera na lang kung mas mahal niya ang dahilan ng pagiging busy niya."
-- "Kung hindi niya pinapahalagahan ang effort mo, panahon na siguro para ipakita mo na hindi siya kawalan sa buhay mo."
-- "It's impossible to find someone who will never hurt you. So go after the one who makes all the pain worth it."

at higit sa lahat, wag magpapadala sa mabulaklak na mga salita

[jtansanco]

Love? I don't understand it so I just tattooed it. 

[Maldita AKO]

wag mo masyadong mahalin ang bf mo.matuto magtira para sa sarili

[Chinito]

For me:

wag mapagod mag mahal kahit masakit na, ilaban mo pa rin.
In the end kusang mapapagod ang puso mo, kusang mag sa subside yang kabaliwan mo.
after this you'll set yourself free in a natural way with no regret and full of understanding.
At least masasabi mo sa sarili mo "that you've did your part".  no "if's" thinking sa huli.

[jobelle1984]

i learned that you can't impose and dictate the person to love you and take care of you

you can't hold on to someone who doesn't want to stay.

 love and don't ask in return

don't expect/demand too much

just LOVE!

[pinkberries]

you know whats good for you, so never settle for something less.   

if such relationship drains too much of your energy, most likely he's NOT really for you.

and if he loves you truly, he will do all things to make you happy, just as much as you made him happy.

[chichi143]

> You can never force a relationship.
> You need to love yourself first in order to give love...