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I also believed in that saying kaya it took me 3.5 years before I realized that enough is enough.
Bottomline BI si guy kasi he expects her accept his less than savory ways and she thinks she can change him with her "love". We know better diba?
Ako almost 6 years bago ako nagising sa katotohanan! So scary hehe. Yes, we know better. But come to think of it, you know better and yet you still pursue her. Tama si FOURever, she knows she's wrong. Obviously. So why do you have to protect her? Because you had the 10 year relationship? You love her and don't want to get hurt? She's already hurting and it is her choice. Gaano mo man sya protektahan, masasaktan at masasaktan sya kasi desisyon nya to stick with the guy.And, even if you do have qualities na meron yung isa at wala ka, hindi enough na dahilan yun para lokohin at saktan ka. We have to stop thinking na tayo ang may kasalanan kung bakit nila ginagawa yun sa atin. Kasi ugali na nila yun eh. They're not contented. Yun lang yun. Ang pagmamahal, acceptance yan ng buong pagkatao ng isang tao. You can never change someone and the changes they seek only comes from within.If you're going to wait,wait for the relationship to work again and she waking up that she has done wrong, you're in it for the long haul. Baka ang dami ng opportunities na makalampas just because you're waiting. There are things in life that can't wait anymore, like taking care of yourself and having a good life.
Bigyan kita ng pag-asa. I used to be in a long distance relationship and most of you know how it works. We see each other every 3 to 4 months. Sa LDR, trust is very important. Text and calls lang communication namin. Nung nakakaramdam ako na parang nanlalamig sya (kahit sa phone lang), I asked him, kasi wala naman talaga kaming pinagaawayan. He admitted he was seeing someone else. Parang gumuho mundo ko noon. For me, it's the end of our relationship. First bf e. Walang pagbabasehan. Nung nagkita kami, sabi nya gusto nya akong balikan pero small things, kinagagalit nya. Parang lagi nya akong hinahanapan ng mali. In the end, napagod na rin ako, sabi ko ayoko na. Sya naman ang bumalik. Bigyan ko pa raw sya ng chance but to tell you honestly, sa sobrang sakit, parang namanhid na ako but I still gave him a chance, ayoko rin kasi magsisi.Sinabi ko na lang na isang pagkakamali lang e goodbye na. You know what? Di rin ako makapaniwala pero ang laki ng pagbabago nya. Unti unti (but it took years kasi nga long distance kami), nahulog ulit loob ko. He's my ex-BF na ngayon kasi he's now my hubby.
Oh my gulay, sis! 6 freakin' years? Maaahn, that's a long time but what's important is you woke up to the reality that it's best to take care of yourself first. Good job! ...I felt stupid because I can never rely on a miracle to change my then bf because he didn't even have the initiative to change for the better!
aww.. nice naman sis... actually, nasa tao din naman talaga e. if you continue to do the wrong things in the past relationship, it wouldn't really work out...kahit ilang chances pa.. dapat both of you should really work it out.. if you really love each other..to think na yung sa inyo nga... LDR pero nakaya naman. sana pwede ding maglike ng post dito sa gt. hehe
