All About Insecurities & Being Confident

[FOURever]

^dump him kung di mo pa nagagawa..

I have insecurities too. Double chin ko saka braso ko, ang laki.. Sa environment ko, nakakainsecure kasi lahat sila super sexy or payat..

[melabshim]

i hate myself for being like this, and even my bf kasi dahil sakaniya mas lalo
ko nafeel na ang pangit pangit ko  :(and i admit na napabayaan ko naman
talaga yun sarili ko not like before bago kami magkakilala n maputi at blooming aura ko
pero imbes na siya ang magpalakas ng loob ko
pero ang nangyari feeling ko pinapamuka niya saken kung gaano ako kapangit 
minsan nga naiisip kong baka ikinakahiya na niya ko sa fam. and friends niya 

kaya ngayon trying hard akong magpakinis  lahat susubukan ko mawala lang tong insecurities
ko sa sarili ko.. ang hirap ng feeling na ang dami kong kinaiinggitan and i know na
hindi yun maganda  and sana bumalik na yung dating confidence sa sarili ko

[japs]

Ako naman mga sis, I feel so insecure. All of my best buds are pretty and guapo [gay man pero they are all good-looking]. Most of the time ayoko sumama sa lakad nila because I felt so maliit kasi unlike them I don't look as good as they are. 2 of my girl friends are so pretty, so perfect. Sometimes I wonder why I didn't become as pretty as them etc. Nakakawala ng confidence sa totoo lang.

[jaemi33]

I know losing a confidence is really a stressful experience, but again I think everyone goes through this once in their life time. Hindi kayo nag iisa.

I think feeling good deep within yourself is as much important as maintaining or improving yourself. How you view yourself will reflect on how people will evetually view you. Sabi dun sa "why men love bicthes" na book, sex appeal is usually "50 % of what you think you have and 50 % of what people think about you" Plus, there are so many beautiful women in this universe no! If you keep comparing yourself to other ladies, walang katapusan na race yan lol

If you start acceptig your flaws, doon mo rin mahahanap kung ano yung attractive sa sarili mo na dati hindi mo napapansin kasi masyado tayo nafocus sa mga cons natin. Kaya niyo yan mga sis! 

[Awesomecakes]

I know losing a confidence is really a stressful experience, but again I think everyone goes through this once in their life time. Hindi kayo nag iisa.

I think feeling good deep within yourself is as much important as maintaining or improving yourself. How you view yourself will reflect on how people will evetually view you. Sabi dun sa "why men love bicthes" na book, sex appeal is usually "50 % of what you think you have and 50 % of what people think about you" Plus, there are so many beautiful women in this universe no! If you keep comparing yourself to other ladies, walang katapusan na race yan lol

If you start acceptig your flaws, doon mo rin mahahanap kung ano yung attractive sa sarili mo na dati hindi mo napapansin kasi masyado tayo nafocus sa mga cons natin. Kaya niyo yan mga sis! 

I agree with you sis. I'm not saying that I don't feel insecure anymore but I'm working on it. I guess tama ang mga sis natin dito, na start to feel beautiful and accept ang flaws natin. And of course, work on it na rin like magpaganda ka, etc etc. The important thing here is, you're doing it for yourself and not for anyone else.

Like me, I started going to the gym to lose weight and to stay fit. At first, iniisip ko to impress everyone but then I realized, I have to do this to feel good about myself. Kasama ko rin si boyfie nagg-gym pero I'd like him to believe na ginagawa ko to for myself. Bonus na lang siya. Haha!

I'm glad na unti-unti ko nababago yun the way I think, kasi before super insecure talaga ako lalo na sa mga nakakasama ni boyfie sa work, like they have braces, maputi, sexy, etc etc. Pero I realized na, why would I feel insecure kung ako naman ang girlfriend niya, sa akin siya nagsspend ng time during his off, ako naman ang kilala ng family niya, graduate naman ako ng Engineering, and now I'm a certified Professional na, and I'm not that panget naman to feel ugly. So yun! Acceptance lang siguro, and move on. Haha! I know in the future, I'd feel insecure again pero everytime na naiisip ko what I have now, I feel better na.

Good luck mga sis! Be confident lang.

[angelzero]

i read somewhere na this former supermodel said that having model features (tall, skinny, pretty, good skin) is like a gene lottery, only few are "lucky" to have them. although she sounded a bit yabang, that's the truth. hindi lahat talaga mabibiyayaan ng modelesque physical features. i guess we just have to deal with that. even models and actresses have insecurities din. maybe it's worse for them cuz they're always under the scrutiny of the public eye. people can be so mean sometimes.

me, all i wanted was to have great legs. i have thunder thighs, dark knees and i have the most sensitive skin on my legs area. it irritates quick kaya kung ano anong rashes or allergies ang nangyayari. tuloy i can't wear dresses, shorts or mini skirts kasi ang panget talaga ng legs ko. wala naman akong pera pang peeling or what-not. i just cover them up all the time and emphasize my better features like my shoulders and waist. nakakainggit talaga yung mga payat ang legs at ang kikinis pa. eto lang siguro yung insecurity ko na hindi ko ma-get over kasi naman bakit hindi sila proportion sa katawan ko?!?

[Awesomecakes]

Hi girls! Let me share Bettinna's blog about insecurities and imperfections. :)http://abettinnacarlos.wordpress.com/2013/05/10/of-insecurities-and-imperfections/

[jaemi33]

^^Awesomecakes - Good for you sis! Yap Bonus lang ang mga ibang tao sa pag iimprove sa sarili natin haha keep up the positivity in your life! 

^angelzero - I know what you mean on that gene lottery thing kaya nga minsan iniisip ko talaga I need to give my future kids the best colleciton of genes talaga lol sa panahon natin ngayon na high standard of beauty, feeling ko mas grabe in the future  Pero seriously, no one is perfect talaga.

I remember my eyes used to be one of my insecurities back then. I have a small chinky eyes and I get it from my dad who is Japanese. My classmates back in highschool used to tell me na natutulog daw ako in the middle of conversation kahit hindi naman dahil sa mata kong singkit lol that bothered me a lot but then as I grew up, I realized that one of my unique charms rin pala yun. Nung nalearn ko na yun, I get to hear a lot of compliment sa eyes ko rin. Ang sexy daw and it looks great with my morena skin. It's definitely not the standard definition of beautiful but it is eye-catching daw. When I ask people to guess what nationality do you think I am? Most of the time, they don't give me the right answers. that mean I have a unique features right?  but trust me, kahit ako meron akong mga childhood pictures back then na nag cricringe yung stomach ko until now! LOL

[melabshim]

ang gaganda ng mga advice niyo mga sissies  tama na nga siguro na pahalagahan ko naman ang sarili ko hindi yung puro na lang insecurities ko pinapairal ko, sa sobrang insecure ko at kakaintindi sa kung anong wala sakin na meron sa iba di ko napapansing napapabayaan ko na pala sarili ko heheh lokaret na ko .. kaya wala ata akong friends thanks mga sissies . now i feel good about myself reading all your post  i wwant to be pretty for myself 

[wanna_be_mom]

ako medyo nawawala self confidence ko kasi napagkakamalan akong bakla. hais

 paano ko kaya i handle to.
im working kasi part time na promo at minsan tinatanong ako kung bading ba ako or girl
nakaka wala ng confidence

[Awesomecakes]

ang gaganda ng mga advice niyo mga sissies  tama na nga siguro na pahalagahan ko naman ang sarili ko hindi yung puro na lang insecurities ko pinapairal ko, sa sobrang insecure ko at kakaintindi sa kung anong wala sakin na meron sa iba di ko napapansing napapabayaan ko na pala sarili ko heheh lokaret na ko .. kaya wala ata akong friends thanks mga sissies . now i feel good about myself reading all your post  i wwant to be pretty for myself 

That's sooo good to hear! Been there, done that. Kaya niyo rin yan mga sis! Basta whenever you're feeling down, think of reasons kung ano ang meron kayo na wala ang iba. You're blessed and beautiful in our own ways:)

[qt_ben17]

I use my insecurities to channel a better me. Biggest insecurity ko ang bald hair, so I become a hairdresser . Pangit ang skin ko so I studied makeup artistry. Super pangit ng katawan ko nun so I workout. And when I hate myself altogether, then comes my alterego, in drag.

[nenmaroon]

dati sobra akong walang confidence yung kahit na sinasabihan akong maganda, todo tanggi at hindi ako naniniwala hanggang sa panonood ko ng youtube like make-up and hair tutorials, nakakainspire kasi yung mga ibang gurus dun tapos sumali-sali ako sa mga forums tulad nito tapos now lagi ko sinasabi sa sarili ko na maganda ako kaya ayun parang nagrereflect naman, haha, Iniba ko lang yung pag-iisip ko, inalis ko yung mga negatives

[heavensent]

my biggest insecurity is my body, flat chested kasi ko and my hips are big..

also I don't know how to wear make-up.

[imyourangel]

I am very insecure when it comes to feeling loved.
Parang gusto ko lagi ng assurance na mahal pa din ako ng bf ko. Parang hindi na healthy. :/ Minsan nagaaway kami kasi minsan hindi naman sya uber sweet.

[melabshim]

same tayo sis ganyan din ako .. minsan nag eemote ako sakanya kaya napupunta kami sa away 

[imyourangel]

^Nakakainis diba? Madalas din kami magaway sa ganyang reason... He tells me he loves me. And I can see he's doing his best naman to please me. But I dunno... parang sakin na ata talaga may problema. Lol.

[bebang235]

i have flat nose,thin eyebrows, oily face, pimples minsan but when i learn how to put make up somehow it increase my self confidence.
flat chested din ako so ang foam ng bra ko ay bongga sa kapal,para paraan na lang minsan pag may time.hehe
gusto ko rin sana gumala ng nakashort or dress minsan kaso may stretchmarks ako sa legs,minsan napapaisip ako bakit yung iba nga hindi maganda ang legs pero kung makashorts parang ang ganda ng legs at taas noo pa silang naglalakad,,pero wala talaga ako guts kahit naisip ko pa yan haha ok na ako sa leggings or skinny jeans.
madami pa ako insecurities pero lahat tinatanggap ko na lang kasi nakakastress lang lalo haha
saka iniiisip ko na lang maswerte pa rin ako kasi may mga mas matitindi pa ang pinagdadaan kesa sakin..and lastly i love my self kahit may mga imperfections ako.

[FOURever]

^sis, try mo skirts na knee level or kahit just above the knees. That'll be fine be confident sis!

[strawberrypep]

Hindi din maiwasan mgkaron ng insecurities from time to time. Ako, whenever i feel insecure or not confident about my hair (for example) i try to do something about it and sinasabe ko sa asawa ko yung mga concerns ko. His words and comfort measures really helped me gain my confidence during those times na i feel stressed sa mga insecurities ko.