Online Dating

[angeljolie]

^So the kid is more or less just a year old? Mukhang mahaba habang usapan pa yan between him and the mom. If it doesn't bother you, then go. Otherwise, sabi mo nga madami pa naman iba dyan.

[kvandenhaak]

That doesn't bother me. But it might bother her... LOL! I have to find out though if he's giving her false hope. That's a different story.

[angeljolie]

^I'm sure it bothers her especially kung wala pa syang new love hehe. At lalo na Pinay ka din. Does she know about you?

That's the tough part--getting the other side of the story (or better, a third person's version? LOL!) kaya good luck! Makulay ang buhay hahaha!

[kvandenhaak]

Who knows, that's the closure she needs to move on. I mean, she can only do that for a certain period of time.. She will get tired afterwards. I doubt she knows about me yet. But it's not hard to find her. I am sure she has a Facebook account. I know her name. But she doesn't bother me so I don't care. But yeah, she won't like it if she finds out lalo na Pinay din ako, parang masakit di ba? Tapos mas matanda pa ako kay Gabriel ng 10 years. Double ouch! Aba, di naman ako lumapit sa love of her life. Ilang beses ko na yung in ignore. Sya yung balik ng balik.

[angeljolie]

^True magsasawa din sya. Yun eh kung hindi sya binibigyan ng false hopes ni Gabriel. At true na double ouch na Pinay ka and older than him. Naku magmamaasim sya for sure pag nalaman hehe. But that's her problem if she sticks her nose into it.

[kvandenhaak]

If she gets mad, I will let him handle it. He's the one who drags me in the situation. I made it clear that he's available naman. He was texting me again like crazy today. I had to reply. Lucas has been texting me too this evening. Kulang na lang si Eric... LOL! This is so much fun... LOL!

[morningdivabeam]

@morningdivabeam Kung tutuusin, may alas sya kasi they have a child together. Eh kaso, instead of giving him reasons to go back, she's giving all the reasons not to. Kinda stupid, if you think about it. In the first place, you have to be at least civil with your ex for the sake of the child. Kasi sila lang naman ang me problema, hindi dapat idamay ang bata. And that's what me and Gabriel can relate to. I am still getting ticked off by my ex's stupidity paminsan-minsan.

Mukhang over naman na according to your story and I love the confidence you have on your relationship. Yon kasi [textspeak!] problema ni friend. Walang assurance. May anak din si guy pero hindi si ex ang mother. Tapos mega-awa effect [textspeak!] ex kasi 6 years. Whew. Minsan din kasi nasa guy un kung inassure ka nya na sa iyo lang siya. May iba kasi na brush under the rug lang ang approach sa mga ganyang problema. Oh well.

[kvandenhaak]

^True, but if wala naman sya nakikitang reason for him to go back to her then she doesn't need to worry. It just takes the fun out of it. Isa pa, what would worrying do? Basta ba they already talked about it it and the guy said she has nothing to worry about, she should be fine.

He gave me the assurance that they aren't a thing anymore but he hasn't fenced me in yet. Eh kung me makita sya bigla? Who knows? But I don't worry about stuff like that. Hindi lang naman sya lalake so, life will go on without him. Hindi ko nga sya kilala dati, di naman ako Miserable. Ganon lang mindset ko at this time.

[morningdivabeam]

^True, but if wala naman sya nakikitang reason for him to go back to her then she doesn't need to worry. It just takes the fun out of it. Isa pa, what would worrying do? Basta ba they already talked about it it and the guy said she has nothing to worry about, she should be fine.

He gave me the assurance that they aren't a thing anymore but he hasn't fenced me in yet. Eh kung me makita sya bigla? Who knows? But I don't worry about stuff like that. Hindi lang naman sya lalake so, life will go on without him. Hindi ko nga sya kilala dati, di naman ako Miserable. Ganon lang mindset ko at this time.

Nako ganyan din sinabi ko kay friend, pero si friend kasi masyadong trapped sa feelings. I salute you na kahit may assurance hindi mo hinahayaan na magsettle ka lang doon. Tama din naman. You cannot be happy with someone if you're miserable alone. At hindi lang lalake ang makakapagpasaya sa'yo.

[angeljolie]

Hindi lang naman sya lalake so, life will go on without him. Hindi ko nga sya kilala dati, di naman ako Miserable. Ganon lang mindset ko at this time.

Yan din mindset ko. Kaya lang nakakapagod minsan mag start all over. Kaya parang ang future mindset ko ay hindi ko na kelangan ng lalake at all. LOL

[sk8rboyswife]

Share ko lang, I've met my British Ex bf from a website called Person.com (wala na si website) we've dated for almost 5 years I may say that I've finally found my soulmate thru him , Our incompatibility and differences makes our relationship more exciting but sad to say I have to let him go kasi hindi ako pwede mag move sa London because eventho I'm separated I'm still legally married for my jerk of a husband ,super sad na I have to let go of him kasi I know in my heart na he is the one, he loves my kids and knows everything about me but hindi talaga pwede so I have to let go and ngayon ko napatunayan na there's always be the one the got away
..Now i'm in a relationship with someone and so far ok naman

This also happened to me 1 year nag run ang relationship namin. He wants to help me out pa nga sa annulment. But then again... wala eh. He blocked me for whatever reason he has, di ko alam. He said I can message just to talk pero no, it's the other way around ata.

[angeljolie]

^Nagkita naman kayo?

[sk8rboyswife]

^Nagkita naman kayo?

Yes, nitong June he just stayed here ng 3 days and we were together ng mga days na yun. Binalak na nga ako bahayin sabi niya, because he was planning to retire here sa PH.

[angeljolie]

^Talagang 3 days lang sya dito? If he came from the US, he probably traveled the same amount of time. Sa tingin mo ba ikaw lang ang mineet nya? I'm not trying to make you feel bad pero madalas kasi bulag tayo if we are in the situation. Kung tingin mo he was sincere, bakit sya biglang nawala? Kung hindi sya sincere, sabi nga ni sis kvandenhaak, leche sya! Hehe. Go sis hanap na ng iba ulit.

[kvandenhaak]

^Unless hinatid nya sa airport mismo and she saw the return flight details, there's 99% chance that he met someone else. He went to see tourists spot in the area and/or nag-side trip sa ibang Asian cities. Three days is just too short for someone coming from the US and tapos di naman mura ang ticket. My ex stayed in the Philippines for three weeks when he was then my BF, kulang pa nga yun. Nangyari kasi yan sa dati kong co-worker. Nakilala nya online yung Australian guy. Buti hindi pa sila married and luckily, kahit GF pa lang sya she can legally stay in Australia. Nagbakasyon lang sila then she discovered he went to Pampanga to meet another girl there. So, she went back to Australia with her then little daughter and took his passport with so, no choice but for the Aussie guy to stay while getting a new passport. When the guy came home, wala na sila. Nakalipat na ng apartment and she never looked back kahit magmakaawa yung guy.

Yan din mindset ko. Kaya lang nakakapagod minsan mag start all over. Kaya parang ang future mindset ko ay hindi ko na kelangan ng lalake at all. LOL

Humans are naturally social creatures so we will always feel that inclination to be with someone. However, it's not like we're gonna be miserable individuals if we don't have someone beside us. Kung saan ka naman masaya, suportahan taka...lol! Hindi naman lahat din ng may karelasyon ay masaya. Marami dyan pilit. Dito ka na lang magbasa sa GT...lol! But I still believe in poreber...lol!

[mysterioza_me]

Ang mahal ng pamasahe for just a few days stay. Sayang or maybe hindi sayang sa part ni guy kung may iba pa siyang ni-meet at yun ang tinuluyan niya kaya ni-blocked ka niya.

[angeljolie]

^^Lol thanks sa suporta! Sige na nga, kelangan ko din maniwala sa forever hehe.

^True. May friends ako who met guys na nag girl-shopping dito sa Pinas or Southeast Asia. Parang nag "ocular" inspection kung san sila magreretire.

[kvandenhaak]

^On a hindsight, risky din pala yung ginawa ko... LOL! But I am glad pinakasalan ako ng ex ko.

Speaking of risky, Gabriel is picking me up in about an hour. Sana walang makakita... Hahaha! Secret muna kung ano yon!

[angeljolie]

^Malalaman mo naman (yata? shucks pati ako tuloy napapaisip) kung ikaw lang and/or seryoso ba sya sayo. If he was with you for 3 weeks, siguro naman ikaw lang pinuntahan. I mean how long could he possibly be away from work diba? Gosh nakakainis pati ako nagdadoubt tuloy! Lol!

Uy may rampa si ate. Have fun!

[sk8rboyswife]

^Talagang 3 days lang sya dito? If he came from the US, he probably traveled the same amount of time. Sa tingin mo ba ikaw lang ang mineet nya? I'm not trying to make you feel bad pero madalas kasi bulag tayo if we are in the situation. Kung tingin mo he was sincere, bakit sya biglang nawala? Kung hindi sya sincere, sabi nga ni sis kvandenhaak, leche sya! Hehe. Go sis hanap na ng iba ulit.

He's a Diplomat, he worked fr Iraq pagka resign niya he went here sa PH then went to the US na, sabi niya or at least that's all I know. Nagsabi rin naman sya babalik sya next month nun pero di na natuloy.

Ang nangyari kasi, nanggulo pa si jerky ex husband. Or he turned tables kasi Im legally married pa. Ayaw siguro ng gulo. Ni let go ko siya.

Iba iba lang kasi tayo opinions and point of views sisters kaya I respect that maraming imposible pero minsan kailangan lang natin maniwala. CHAROT! 

Sabihin ko na lang I respected his privacy and trusted him na lang. Siya lagi kaso nag aamok saken, medyo old fashioned siya eh ayaw niya ng ko nag-bar, seloso. When he found out naka open pa account ko sa dating site nagalit siya tapos siya nag close ng account ko.

Nakakamiss lang. Kasi di nawala comms namin for 1 yr, consistent pa yun. Yun lang, baka pinagtagpo pero di itinadhana.