flirting = cheating? what do you think?

[vanillamilk]

ngayon na-confuse ako. how would i know if bf is flirting or just being friendly?

May nag sabi sa akin na "flirting" is when nagpapramdam ka na interested ka sa other person.

[Serena.]

For me, cheating is like having a 3rd party. Flirting kasi, di ubra sakin, haha! baka lumipad yung babae. LOL


xo

[FOURever]

Yes. Bakit ba cheater ang isang tao? Di ba, kasi madalas malandi. Eh bakit ka lalandi (flirt)? Di ka makuntento kasi cheater ka! Grrrr! Galit na galit ako! Chos!

^Parehas tayo sis. Di uubra sakin yung babae. Baka mapagpalit ko sila ng pagmumukha. Hahaha!

[hot_chili]

there is no such thing as harmless flirting. you flirt dahil may gusto kang mangyari... kaya mutual flirting = cheating. Kung matino ka kasing babae alam mo kung ano yung pagiging friendly lang or social.
ako meron din ako guy friends pero never ko sila itetext mayat maya ng goodmorning, goodnight, nakauwi ka na ba... Kaya pag may girl na gumaganito ng text kay hubby alam ko na na something smells fishy and pag sinabi ko sa kanya dumidistansya na sya. siguro may mga guys din na manhid sa pagfliflirt ng girls sa kanila, akala nila friendly lang

[ettevyvi]

there is no such thing as harmless flirting. you flirt dahil may gusto kang mangyari... kaya mutual flirting = cheating. Kung matino ka kasing babae alam mo kung ano yung pagiging friendly lang or social.
ako meron din ako guy friends pero never ko sila itetext mayat maya ng goodmorning, goodnight, nakauwi ka na ba... Kaya pag may girl na gumaganito ng text kay hubby alam ko na na something smells fishy and pag sinabi ko sa kanya dumidistansya na sya. siguro may mga guys din na manhid sa pagfliflirt ng girls sa kanila, akala nila friendly lang

hay. kakainis lang ang mga malalanding babae.. may pinaghuhugutan? haha!

[hot_chili]

^ dahil makakati sila, di sila makuntento sa adobo 

[ettevyvi]

^ dahil makakati sila, di sila makuntento sa adobo 

sis,  wala namang shortage ng lalaki di ba?

[JHAZbewithyou]

Big NO! NO! Basta alam mo naman yung limit mo dba?

[jals vins]

May nag sabi sa akin na "flirting" is when nagpapramdam ka na interested ka sa other person.

i agree and that's how i see it. for me, there is no such thing as "harmless" flirting. flirting is like making a connection.. and it is the first step to cheating!

[mishyewarians]

for me, YES! its a form of cheating. 

[xenos54]

for me.. flirting per se is not cheating.. kasi minsan nagfi-flirt tayo kasi nakaka-challenge..

like yung mga taong ayaw kang tantanan.. you find subtle ways to bring the ball back to your court instead of letting them have control of the situation..

yung tipong.. gusto mo lang maging cool.. at ayaw mo lumabas na kj.. so biro-biruan.. sakay ka lang.. ganyan..

pero pag alam mo na you really mean what you say.. yun eh iba na yun.. tsaka pag yung constant flirting with one person..

yun na siguro yung cheating.. thou it is safe to say that flirting is prelude to cheating..

[phoebe1811]

flirt ? i dont think so..depende sa interpretation ng tao yan eh. some see it as cheating others don't.some people wasn't aware na nagflirt na pala sila ..me taong sobrang sweet talaga na namimisinterpret.
when the person na pini Flirt do something about it eh dun na papasok yung 'cheating' part.

[pressany]

I'm actually debating with myself on whether to comment or not. Obviously to comment won. My husband is an unconcious flirt magnet. He's the typical sweet guy who would volunteer to do any favor to any girl. In our 17 years of marriage, I've seen a parade of girls flirting with my husband. But did he cheat with the flirts? No. But did he cheat? Yes, not with the openly flirts, but with a friend I trusted. At hindi ito flirt, suplada pa nga.
So sisterly advice, wag mainsecure sa mga flirt na nakikita nyo or yung mga open flirts, beware of the non-flirt. Yun ang mga dangerous.

Sa question na flirting ba is equal to cheat. In my book, nope!

[xyreldc]

yan din madalas namin pag-awayan ng partner ko..i always say back off lalo na kung obvious naman na type siya, kaso pinapatulan pa niya..at ang reason friendly lang daw siya. halata naman kung friendly ang motibo, halata naman kasi flirty! everything starts sa mga pa sweet moments na ganun at pag pinatulan pa baka kung san na mapunta..so better iwasan..ako pag alam kong may gusto sa akin ako mismo umiiwas kasi im committed na..that's what i want my partner to do also..kaso hindi niya magawa
my principle -- you can never win over temptation, once you're in, your dead..

[ladychris17]

Yes. Why flirt if wala kang ineexpect? Total waste of time lang. Minsan kasi pag insecure kaylangan nila ng assurance ng iba pang tao na maganda o gwapo sila kug pumatol sa landi eh. Pero tbh, that's sort of petty.

Fliritng is okay when there is nothing wrong with the motivations, and walang other commitments. But a guy who's a flirt by nature is a major turn off for me.

[dumpee.o13]

Yes, flirting is indeed considered as cheating IF you're in a relationship. Come on, STAY FAITHFUL or STAY SINGLE! =)

[don em]

Yes! Flirting=cheating