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Re: saan kayo kumukuha ng yaya?
« Reply #40 on: October 27, 2011, 06:50:19 am »
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Okay ba yaya niya so far? ano feedback mo?
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Re: saan kayo kumukuha ng yaya?
« Reply #41 on: October 27, 2011, 10:46:01 am »
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anneG,

Okay ba yaya niya so far? ano feedback mo?
so far ok ok naman, may minor boboo din like the other day nauntog daw sa edge ng bed namin si baby, kagabi naman sabi sa akin nadapa sa room si baby tumama yung lips sa gulong ng crib..malikot din kasi anak ko..oobserve ko pa rin siya kasi kung everyday may ganun eh anong ginagawa niya?

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Re: saan kayo kumukuha ng yaya?
« Reply #42 on: October 27, 2011, 10:51:17 am »
^ Oo nga. scary yan, baka pinababayaan or siya yung sinasaktan  >:(
wag naman sana
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Re: saan kayo kumukuha ng yaya?
« Reply #43 on: October 28, 2011, 07:02:05 pm »
Both our yayas are from Mt. Province. First yaya left kasi “namatay” daw kapatid niya.This second yaya is a friend of my SIL’s yaya. So far, maayos naman ang trabaho – she wakes up at 5AM, takes a bath, cooks rice, feeds the dog, then takes care of the baby until hubby and I come home at around 9PM. Minsan nagluluto pa ng dinner yan. Since I was without a yaya during my maternity leave and I know how difficult it is to take care of a kid by yourself, I try to make things easier for her - Nagluluto ako ng marami for breakfast para yun na din yung lunch niya. For dinner, may ulam sa ref na pwede niyang initin. And then I prepare baby’s bottles para iinitin niya na lang yung milk ni baby. Kung sakaling kulang yung breastmilk, may bottles na may pre-measured water para lalagyan na lang niya ng formula.

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Re: saan kayo kumukuha ng yaya?
« Reply #44 on: October 28, 2011, 11:35:27 pm »
Mahirap na kumuha ng maid  o yaya dahil parang modus operandi na nila hihingi advance tapos aalis lilipat sa iba mag aadvance aalis.  :-[ kahit maganda pa trato mo sa kanila.

Kamakailan lang may maid kaming kinuha na 19 yrs. old. Inirekomenda ng yaya ng pinsan ko.
nag advance one (1) month salary after  7 days umalis walang paalam, nagnakaw bag, damit at items na paninda ko:( kasi masyado kaming maluwag sa kanya. Hinahayaan lang namin kahit  over kaka text at call dahil may unlimited na load na ninakaw sa cellphone ko. halos pagluto lang ng pagkain ang ginagawa niya di naglalaba di naglilinis. Lagi siyang naka cellphone.  Sinasama namin siya  sa pagkain namin sa labas kung ano pagkain namin yun din sa kanya.

Napag alaman namin na modus operandi nila mag- nananay na pumasok sila na maid ng kapatid niya mag a advance then aalis ng walang paalam, magnanakaw pa. Buti nga daw sa amin 7 days sa iba daw half day lang o 1 day tumatakas na. Tinext ko nga siya ano po problema sa amin, wala naman daw pinauwi na daw siya ng nanay niya.

So ingat po kayo sa pagkuha, maamo mukha nila di mo akalain yun ang hanap buhay nila.


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Re: saan kayo kumukuha ng yaya?
« Reply #45 on: November 06, 2011, 07:27:18 pm »
saan pa kaya makakahanap? im due on the 19th na.  :-[
lahat nagbaback out kapag nalamang sa condo kami nakatira.
andami ring choosy na maid now. haaaay!

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Re: saan kayo kumukuha ng yaya?
« Reply #46 on: November 06, 2011, 09:47:31 pm »
^ sis poshgurl i wonder what they have against people living in condos.ako man ayoko sana na may maid habang nasa condo kami kasi napansin ko yun mga helpers, they tend to gather at this certain area kasama mga alaga nila, ayun parang may malaking reunion ng mga yaya minsan yung mga alaga napapabayaan, minsan naman nakikipag boyfriend sa mga foreigners usually mga Irani. Who knows minsan baka pinag uusapan pa nila mga amo nila..

karamihan ng maids dito sa condo usually from the Visayas. hindi din nagtatagal kasi demanding daw mga amo dito and of course, choosy din sila sa work and they want more salary.

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Re: saan kayo kumukuha ng yaya?
« Reply #47 on: November 07, 2011, 07:52:46 am »
thanks sis red. hay nako, wala ngang nagtatagal sakin ng 6 months. usually sinasabi nila
nahohomesick sila, pinapalabas ko naman sila. mukhang mahihirapan ako maghanap nito.
feeling ko pa naman malapit nako manganak kasi nadadalas na talaga contractions ko.
nakakastress nman  :-[

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Re: saan kayo kumukuha ng yaya?
« Reply #48 on: November 08, 2011, 07:38:34 am »
oo nga mga sis, nakakabaliw ang mga maid ngayon me mga attitude....ako welcome to the club na ng mawawalan ng katulong....pare-pareho na tayong naghahanap ngayon...hayz....

etong maid ko, maraming problema....laging tulala....minsan sinabi sa akin na nami-miss niya daw yung bunso niya, 6 years old, kung pwede daw makasama niya dito sa bahay.....my goodness, ganung edad, katakawan, lalaki pa mandin....ano na mangyayari nun sa budget ko sa food.....sabi ko hindi pwede ayaw pumayag ng husband ko.....eh ok lang daw, tinetesting lang daw niya ako....hayz, kabaliw....so let go na lang ako kahit masipag siya....hanggang dec. 8 na lang siya uwi na lang daw kasi miss na niya mga anak nya.....
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Re: saan kayo kumukuha ng yaya?
« Reply #49 on: November 08, 2011, 08:35:35 am »
mga sis, wag na wag na kayo kumuha from the province na magpapadala ng pera sa kanila  >:(

grabe experience ng tita namin dahil dito. we only did this kasi we trusted the cousin ng maid ng lola ko to bring our maid/yaya

mabaliw-baliw kami sa paikot ikot na excuse nila. 1 month kami pinaikot.

ang ending, kami ba yung nabastos, naloko, nawalan ng pera at walang napala na maid/yaya  :'(

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Re: saan kayo kumukuha ng yaya?
« Reply #50 on: November 09, 2011, 07:27:31 pm »
Ang hirap na talaga kumuha ng maid/yaya now a days.. on the average ang maid ko nagtatagal ng 1 month. either ako ang nakukunsumi or nalulungkot sa house kase yung village namin hindi basta basta lumabas pasok. now im looking for a yaya, gusto ko sana yung experienced na.. kase pag referral bukod sa mahirap kumuha, yung iba kahit hindi experienced go lang ng go. gusto ko sana yung alam talaga mag alaga at mag psychologize ng kids. Would it be an advantage kung sa agency na ko kumuha?
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Re: saan kayo kumukuha ng yaya?
« Reply #51 on: November 24, 2011, 02:47:07 am »
mga sis, mawawalan na rin ako ng yaya at uuwi na daw siya sa probinsiya kasi miss na niya [textspeak!] mga anak nya. if i know, sasama lang siya sa lalake niya dito sa manila. hehe. naiinis na nga ako at puro kadramahan at lagi pang nakatulala. malas lang nya at pinapakita ko sa kanya na kunwari hindi ako affected sa kaek-ekan niya. sana may mairefer kayo sa akin na yaya. wala talagang mag-aalaga sa baby ko pag umalis na [textspeak!] yaya nya. salamat!

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Re: saan kayo kumukuha ng yaya?
« Reply #52 on: November 24, 2011, 07:01:29 pm »
kumukuha kaming yaya sa province.
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Re: saan kayo kumukuha ng yaya?
« Reply #53 on: November 25, 2011, 03:35:01 am »
How about midwife yaya mga sis? Saan ba maganda kumuha? I'm planning to get pregnant soon and gusto ko sana before ako magkababy, medyo alam na ng yaya ugali at gusto ko. stricta kasi ako lalo na sa hygiene.

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Re: saan kayo kumukuha ng yaya?
« Reply #54 on: November 25, 2011, 06:15:50 am »
I just want to share my horrible experience... maybe by sharing this i'll feel better, hindi pa rin ako nakakaganti sa kanila... wag na wag kayo kukuha ng yaya from a certain KALAYAAN agency from makati... this happened almost a year ago already. I found them listed in the newspaper and i called to get a yaya. They came, i paid them 4000 for the service + 500 advance kasi may utang daw yung yaya sa kanila ako na daw magbayad i-minus ko nalang sa salary ng yaya next month. this yaya lasted only 3 days, i remember hndi ko sya nagustuhan immediately dahil masyadong madaldal, hingi ng hingi ng mga gamit, baby clothes for her newborn niece, clothes for her,etc. nagdayoff sya on the 3rd day and hndi na bumalik. Then nagreklamo sakin yung bedspacer ko na nawawala daw yung mga sinampay nya and she believes it was the yaya who took them. Nagpadala naman immediately ng replacement yung agency, and on this new yaya's 2nd day with us, my ex arrived to borrow our baby. i told the yaya to walk them to the car and when she came back she didn't mention anything. 10 mins later my ex texted me to ask if i got the money, in the garage he asked the yaya kung may pera ba si maam mo?and he gave her 3k to give to me. i now believe that if i read that text 30 minutes later it might have been too late, wala na siguro yung yaya, tumakas na. The thoughtful look on her face when i asked for the money told me she was almost up to something. that night i went out with my friends, naiwan yung yaya alone sa bahay, walang alaga since the baby was away. i told her to sleep early and left. i was going to a birthday and i forgot my gift at home. Less than an hour later i was back and caught her using the aircon in our bedroom which is also where she sleeps. FYI there is also a stand fan there. I was so annoyed i asked her, kulang pa ba yang fan sayo? The ac is only for the baby. I also use the fan myself when the baby is not there. Since my taxi was waiting, i told her we'll talk in the morning, and left her again. That was my biggest mistake. When i came back the next day the front door was unlocked and her slippers weren't there anymore. She wasn't in our room and all her things were gone. I rushed to my drawers and my digicam wasn't there anymore. I still searched the whole house for it even though i'm sure it was only in the drawer before. I reported this to the agency and i warned them i was headed to the police to make a report and i needed the address and a clear picture of the thief. Days passed.... walang address, telephone number or news about the crook. Not even a clear picture i can show the police. I wanted a refund, or my camera back, but they said all they an do is give me another yaya. BS! another criminal? i told their contact i needed a break, nakakadala lahat ng nangyari, and i never called again.... I still need a yaya but i'd rather find one somewhere else. Sayang pera ko sa kanila. Again, that was from KALAYAAN AGENCY. Be warned.  >:(

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Re: saan kayo kumukuha ng yaya?
« Reply #55 on: November 25, 2011, 06:31:24 am »
sis cremie

madami kang mistakes na ginawa  :( unfortunately.
Ako, lalo na pag bago yung yaya, kahit naka-3 months pa siya, when I am not at home I lock my cabinets pati sa anak ko, I only bring out clothes, towels that are good for that day. walang nakakalat na kahit anong valuables sa room namin, only unexpensive toys ng anak ko, bottles, diapers and milk - nothing that will interest her to make nakaw. kaya siguro, walang tumatagal na yaya sakin  ;D

When I leave to go to my hubby at their house with my baby, I lock my room. Ganun din si Mama. double lock kami parehas. We lock our cabinets tapos locked pa the room. Pati pantry namin nilolock namin at we don't allow them to hold the key.

Why didn't you lock your room before you left??dapat nadala ka na and should have been more keen after the first mistake sa unang yaya. dapat naging mas cautious ka this time around coz you can never really trust agencies, kaya hindi rin ako kumukuha sa ganun. sis, iniwan mo pa digicam mo?nakita mo na nga that she was in your room and used the a/c, dapat dun palang na warn ka na sa possibility na gagawin niya. you should have made her sleep nalang sa sala, put a bed there or something, if she doesn't have her own room. and you should have also asked your neighbor a favor to keep an eye of the house and maid, na itext ka niya if she/he hears/sees something fishy at kung umaalis yung yaya..

sorry sis if this is too late na..maraming "you should haves" pero hopefully sis nadala ka na this time and be more cautious and responsible next time. do not trust maids/yayas, kahit 3 months pa sila...and tell your ex never to give money to the yayas, dapat sayo directly ibigay.

hugs for you sis  :'(
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Re: saan kayo kumukuha ng yaya?
« Reply #56 on: November 25, 2011, 08:18:46 am »
I really learned so much from that experience, it's been a year and i'm still yaya-less. I also moved to a guarded bldg to protect myself and my baby.. in case we have a yaya in the future, she cannot escape easily.I guess i thought i was invincible, for years i had plenty of house help, never naman ako naka-encounter ng thief, ang madalas na problem lang is tamad or slow or hndi marunong magalaga.. meron pala talagang mga crook... i will be very careful next time, and i would require proper identification, legit address, nbi and clear picture...i will not be nice anymore and share our bedroom too. Pag aalis kami, iwan ko sya sa labas ng bahay. hehe
ang sarap ipa-BITAG ng Kalayaan agency na yun...

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Re: saan kayo kumukuha ng yaya?
« Reply #57 on: November 25, 2011, 09:16:25 am »
^ sis how do you manage to work w/o a yaya? 1 year na pala..
i admire you sis, hindi ka natatakot na kayo lang ng baby mo? ako kasi i've been wanting to move separately na sa mom ko, kaso just thinking na yung yaya lang and my kid lang sa bahay the whole day, maraming pwedeng mangyari na di mo malalaman..unless may money to invest on cctv camera..pero pagdating mo naman dun, huli na ang lahat ...  :'(

sis, you don't consider ba moving back to your parents? para at least if you have a yaya, may mga mata na tumitingin sa kanya kaya di siya makakagawa ng kalokohan..then again, baka kaya hindi tumtagal mga yaya ko  ::) kasi hindi sila makagawa ng kalokohan dahil may mga mata..
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Re: saan kayo kumukuha ng yaya?
« Reply #58 on: November 25, 2011, 09:36:35 am »
may nagdadala sa akin. Pero once pa lang ako kumuha sa kanya. Pero marami na syang nadalan na kakilala ko. Ok naman. You just have to be specific sa "gusto" mong kunin, like ilang taon na, single o may-asawa. me mga anak. pero shempre parang hotel yan. mas madami kang gusto, mas nafifilter. hehe less chances of getting.  ;D

Hi sis, I read your post re: the above said subject. Baka naman may ma-refer ka. Need ko sana all-around at the same time marunong mag-alaga ng bata (4 years old girl). Bale tatlo lang kami (hubby, me and the 4 year old kid). Ok sana kung marunong magluto (prito, simpleng ulam i.e. mga pedeng luto sa gulay lang kasi marunong naman ako ... working lang ako from Mon - Fridays kaya weekends ako na in-charged cooking main dishes). Then malinis maglaba at magaling magplantsa lalo na sa mga uniforms and lastly, malinis at maimis sa bahay.

Hope you can help me on this. We're from Fairview, Quezon City.

Thanks

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Re: saan kayo kumukuha ng yaya?
« Reply #59 on: December 01, 2011, 12:42:32 am »
hi mga sis! ako rin need ko rin po ng yaya for my 4 year old daughter. I'm from Laguna.
Please PM me if my referral po kayo.

 


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