Adding your ex in Facebook

[whinx]

Friends ko sa FB ang exes ko... They added me and inaccept ko naman since wala naman na yun sa akin... Si hubby naman d sila friends ni ex nya and in case maging friend nya sa FB baka mahurt ako ng konti 

[maybelleslife]

depende if you had closure, if you ended up as friends or if you want to be bitchy (show him how happy you are now. lolz)

i've accepted a friend request of an ex-bf who's wife became my friend. parang wala lang. i saw this 6-yr ex-fb ko and i didn't bother to add nor entertain his messages. i know kasi that we decided to breakup for our own good and that we loved each other pa din.

now, there's a third kind which i recommend not to add: the bf na love mo but no closure kayo. add him only if you want a second chance. else, don't even bother looking him up and /or be tempted to add him.

[Dhee-Dhee]

kung in good terms naman kayo, ok lang. one of my exes, FB friend ko. nung hindi pa ako kasal, nagsesend siya minsan ng message, bumabati pag birthday. pero nung kasal na ako, nagulat ako kasi nagpost sa wall ko nung birthday ko, mas malakas na ang loob at hindi na padiscreet. siguro dahil wala na rin kasing chance para magkaron ng second chance.  pero yung isa kong ex, hell NO! kahit may closure naman kami, ayoko na talagang magkaron ng communication o makareceive pa ng balita tungkol sa kanya. it came to a point na nilayuan ko na rin yung barkada ko (na binarkada nya nung nagbreak kami) para lang totally makalayo ako sa kanya.

[purpleangel11]

      3 of my exes are added on my fb...pero yung pangatlo kong ex..tinanggal ko..hindi ko kaya...bumabalik lang kc yung nakaraan eh...sia kc yung ex na minahal ko ng totoo...aside from hubby...Sabi ni hubby..yung dalawang ex ko..ok  lang na andun sa fb ko..yung isa..tanggalin ko daw...siguro ramdam nia na what we had before ng ex ko was something special...nung tinangal ko ex ko..at wala na sia makita na info sa akin..ganun din ginawa sa akin ni ex....di din me pwede view sa info nia..feeling ko gumanti hehe..

[kuliglig^^]

Uh. Yung mga fling-flingan lang, they're on my list. Pero yung serious, wala. Yung isa, baka mag-iskandalo yung current gf (long story) and yung isa, wala lang. Di lang namin trip i-add ang isa't isa, pero di naman siya bitter breakup or anything.

Kay hubby, may mga exes siya sa FB. I keep tabs on them. LOL.

[twelvth_goddess]

None of my ex's are in my FB friends list, cus we're not really friends.

[pinkbubbles17]

That's a big NO NO..we're not even friends so why should i add him..

[Periwinkle25]

wala akong ex sa fb at mukhang wala din si hubby..mutual understanding ata sa amin na don't get connected with the past..but I sometimes check on them..I guess, they're doing the same..for curiosity's sake na lang siguro..sa ex ko before hubby, medyo walang matinong closure so I didn't bother adding him up even if we have some common friends..Im happy with my life and I think they are too.Thanks to them being part of my past..just right where they belong 

[jiffy]

No plans of adding them anymore!

[mrs.S.]

i dont add my ex so that hubby will not have any reasons to suspect anything. Although most of my exes are married na, its better to avoid temptation or suspicion  from hubby. This was also mentioned in a marriage seminar I attended. I dont like it when hubby does something that will be suspicious to me too so I will do the same thing.

[mommy_lani]

Would you accept it if your ex sent you a request to add him in Facebook?
I have this ex bf from the same company we used to work with years ago.. i saw him in FB na through our common friends but ignored adding him. We have our own families & both of us are based in a different country. Just recently i got a request from him..yes, i fell in love with him years ago, but niloko niya ko and after i broke up with him he made effort plenty of times to be friends with me. Kayo mga sisses, have you added your ex bf sa Facebook niyo?

NO..hehe i have two exes but none of them is my friend in FB...di ko lang feel na maging friend sila hehe

[blueflame]

most of my ex's are my friends in FB. i'm in good terms naman with them. same din si hubby with his ex's. i met his ex's and he met mine so we really don't have issue with it. we also share our web logins but i don't have any plans of checking his.

[AltaVida]

ako rin naman I have my exes on my FB list.. kasi bago naman naging kami ni hubby eh andun na yun.. saka we're in good terms naman and hubby knows kung sino-sino sila.. isa pa, parang pamparami lang ng friends sa FB, haha! pero never nagkamustahan or chikahan sa chat or messages.

[mishyewarians]

ako, in-add nila ako.i accepted naman, the problem is yung mga wives nila.2 wives na ang nag delete sa akin.i dont know,wala naman akong ginawa or ginagawa.but its ok, no big deal naman, im happy with my hubby and kids.

[aquacharly]

No. 
My hubby knows about them, , though  they never met.  To be more accurate, hubby makes it a point to know ALL my friends/contacts --  que business ka deal or sapatero ko yan.     I am a wife on a  long leash with constant company.     I can hardly ever go off on my own,  even with  my sisters. Basta, ganun.   

Where we are now, is the best place we are in our relationship. I know communicating with any ex will hurt him. Though he has hurt me loads in the past,ewan but -- I do not want to be the one hurting him now.   (Pero, pag sya eh betray me again -- Sabi Ko to myself, he was not my First Love but he sure can be my First Crime Victim. hehe). 

[shayan30]

i've added my ex bf on fb just recently.. maayos naman kasi kami nagkahiwalay, but before adding him i asked for hubby's permission and pumayag naman sya.. Lately lagi kami magkaka chat, just friendly conversations but i make sure na ikwento kay hubby kung ano napag usapan namin to avoid suspicions and avoid having problems because of this..

[maeia]

I only have one ex. He added me 2 years ago. My hubby knew and teased me. But I know how awkward it felt for him. My ex sent me messages, but I just ignored him na lang. Until in-unfriend din ako ni ex. hehe..

[IT_Specialist]

My 2 ex BFs are my friends in FB as well as their wives so not an issue for me and my hubby.

[xadie28]

Adding your ex in Facebook is a bad idea for me

[Msfi]

Di uso sa kin ang FB so no issue, kay hubby 2 ex nya added pero ok lang sa kin. Puro married na naman sila, yung isa nasa SG na, yung isa naman na alam kong sobrang gusto si hubby eh hinahayaan ko lang. Nag me-message din at nagrereply naman si hubby pero never nag initiate at matipid din yun sumagot.  One time I was using his FB account, biglang nag message yung si ex, ayun sinagot ko na im the one using his account. From then on di na sya nag message sa FB.