is it worth a shot?

[_gigles_]

^way to go sis! I am happy that you were able to move forward, tuloy-tuloy mo lang yan sis. out of sight, out of mind and dont look back. Just keep moving forward. 

[meisaia]

^ the nerve of the guy. pakealam ba niya sa ipapalit mo sa kanya di ba? grrr... nakakainis ang mga ganyang ex.

[_gigles_]

^^wow, just wow he is seriously a class a douche! is it not enough for him what he did to you, that he have to keep running his mouth like some fag. seriously mahiya naman siya mga pinagagawa niya sayo at tumigil na siya. if he really cares he would've respect your decision and just wish you happiness, hindi ganyan na ang dami pa niyang sinasabi. that dude really needs to grow up. But on the other hand I am proud of you sis, you were able to handle this situation really well. Kahit na affected ka, just shove it off like you dont care, mas masakit yung makita na parang wala ka ng paki sa kanya.

[_gigles_]

^thats good to hear. be happy, you deserve to be

[_gigles_]

^I know its not easy naman, as I've said getting over someone doesn't happen overnight but its a good thing that you are doing your best to move forward. We can't let ourselves be stranded to where they left us. 

[meisaia]

^ i agree with her. moving on is never an overnight process. but the key is to take take the first step, which is the hardest part. if you took that step, then everything will soon follow...a lot easier than the first one.

[_gigles_]

^what you do in your life now is none of his business, of all the people he is the least person who have the right to judge. But on the other hand look at it this way na lang, he have shown just how narrow minded and immature he is and your just lucky that you dont have such kind of person in your life.  Even until now he still kept proving why your better off without him and how he isnt a loss to you.

[gurlzat03]

hi sisses! im back after a week vacation in SG.. i miss GT! musta naman kayong lahat? sis gigles & sis paloma, hindi ko agad nabasa message nyo dito.. tapos na vacation ko..

just want to share na na-miss ko si ex during my vacation.. it was one of our plans kasi before na mag-vacation outside the country, pero it was all gone.. pero nothing to worry, I know that i'm okay.. just sharin' my sentiments kasi nagpapakatotoo lang ako.. well, that's life! I just always remind myself that this too shall pass.. happy moving on to all of us!

[_gigles_]

^moments like that will come up naman talaga pero hangang dun na lang. but atleast nakapagenjoy ka pa rin kahit wala siya 

[gurlzat03]

oo naman sis, dapat kong gawin un kasi para sa kin din ang vacation na un.. besides, i have no choice naman kundi ang mag-enjoy... besides, matagal-tagal na rin naman na hindi ko sya kasama so nasasanay na rin ako..

[_gigles_]

^I can say I've been there done that, one step forward two steps back. I also felt yung nakakahiya na sa mga kaibigan ko. Just like what the saying goes, "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me" I think we all had said enough to you, you know what you should do you had a choice and yet you still choose to be with him. I am saying that with no judgement or anything cause I once have been there in your shoes and completely understands how it feels. Eto na lang tanong mo sa sarili mo, "are the smiles I'm having from him all worth it?" if your answer is yes, then maybe you can justify being with him, but if its a no then maybe you should find a way to get yourself out of that situation.

But honestly I dont think you can really be happy with him, deep down your scared na baka one day iwan ka nanaman niya. and you dont trust him anymore and the fact that he doesnt love you. Having those kinds of feeling doesn't give you a sense of security and its just not right. One day, if you ever decide to leave him you will feel relieved. Its just hard being with someone you know doesnt really love you, your mind will never stop wandering.

I know how hard this is for you, like I've said I've been in your shoes once. Wish you all the luck sis! I hope things will get better for you, either way.

[hot@pink]

nagbackread ako sa thread and thanks to sis na nagrecommend ng article na Closing cycles.. plus the fact that fan ako ni paulo coelho.. i also love to read his books..

[gurlzat03]

^^ sis gigles, thank you so much for the advice that you gave to sis paloma.. lately, i find myself thinking about him again and I know natural lang naman 'yung feeling ko na ganun.. buti na lang i bumped into this thread again to read advice.. hay... hirap mag-move on.. pero no choice naman eh..

[_gigles_]

^ako rin I still think about him from time to time, I miss having that person who I simply just connect with pero I need to shove it off. I'd be damned if I let him hurt me again. I think I would end up being remorseful and I cant let that happen to myself. I know how hard it is for you sisses to get this through, cause honestly I am still in the process of getting over him. Just keep moving forward sis and one day we will be better than okay.