how do you feel or is it ok with you if your hubby/bf watch porn?

[ryan22]

porn is okay especially for married couples. it helps at times. i can see more girls are now okay with porn.

[sarah29]

This is a deal breaker for me. My fiance and I are Christians and sobrang hinde talaga kame payag sa porn watching. Lalo't lalo na na ayaw ko masama ang porn sa marriage and marriage bed namen. If you actually study porn, makikita nyo na madaming negative effects to, hinde lang sa relationship pati utak, at reproductive system. Gusto din namen dalawa na pure ang marriage bed namen in a way na yung sexuality namen ay dedicated lang exclusively for each other.

[bluegintonic]

Why do people demonize porn? It's an industry,it's like making regular movies in an ADULT scale.Meaning, if you're an ADULT, dapat malawak na pang-unawa di ba. A healthy sex life benefit A LOT from creativity on bed.Kung sa porn nakaka-pick up ng pointers , walang masama dun.Kaysa naman sa iba pa matutunan-YUN ang mas mali.

I'm Christian too but I watch porn.IN the context of-a) hindi kami palagi magkasama ni hubs,dadating talaga oras mo magkaka-urge ka. Physical need yun eh.Why would I deny myself that? At the same time, kung manonood din siya ng porn if we're apart-method lang din yun para mawala yung init ng katawan.Kaysa magkaron ng ibang partners.This is all in the context na once we're together na ulit,wala naman need for porn.

To each his/her own talaga.SAludo ako sa taong kaya kontrolin ang urges for months (or years on end) but it's not me.No, I don't feel remorse about enjoying a healthy sex life (kahit pa with myself lang mas madalas)

[nicoletta]

Well, my husband is super decent so we don't really talk about it.  If he watches it, I honestly wouldn't know kasi he leaves his laptop in the office so if ever, he would only probably watch it in his phone.  Nonetheless, I really don't mind if he does. 

[iamryuji]

its normal
if it still bothers you
be open minded and talk to him about it.
just be transparent, don't be led by emotions.

[chrlxmyot]

I caught my hubby downloading porn videos on his cp just recently..sa akin okay lang naman manood sya ng porn it's normal..there were times pa nga na kasama nya ako nanonood nun so oaky lang naman hindi naman ako feeling nababastusan BUT nung nakita ko na dinadownload pa nya sa cp nya I thought "what for?" Eh pwede naman nya panoorin! That was the time na parang nabastusan ako sa ginawa nya and medyo na-feel ko ang awkwardness in him...😞

[narz83]

i dont mind as long as he is not doing it secretly, we can even watch it together.

[simang]

It's fine by me, actually mas mahilig pa nga ako manuod kesa sa partner ko.

[sugardrop]

I don't mind. It's a guy thing. Well, as long as it's not between two men that he's watching.

[frappysabz]

hi mga sis, kami ni hubby 5 years na kaming kasal and we have 4 kids na i just gave birth last month. active sex life namin ni hubby even before. dati it does nit bother me kung manood siya ng porn. i would not get jealous. itong ika 5years na namin nagseselos na ako. dati we watched together and i agree sa mga sis natin dito nakakatulong at some point na may mga tips na makukuha. pero nung tumagal dumating sa point na nababastusan na ako na nagdodownload na sia sa phone and everytime magbabanyo siya dala niya phone niya at super tagal lumabas. i knew then that he is watching porn. masakit lang sa akin na feeling ko i am cheated on, he is masturbating and fantasizing other womens body na. mag aabroad pa naman siya next month. i am praying na hindi sana siya magloko. and yes nararamdaman ko mga nararamdaman niyo na ang pinapanood pa ni hubby e mga bata, sexy, mapuputi, malaki boobs. dumating sa point na naiisnecure na ako na dating hindi naman. so kinausap ko siya, sabi ko nasasaktan ako sa ganung style niya. i am his wife and kung may needs siya andito naman ako. and yes may sakit na hubby ko kahit binata pa siya he is addicted to porns na. may anak kaming babae and nakakatakot mang isipin na kapag di pa siya tumigil baka may bad effects na ito. so sa akin lang, masama ang sobra. nakakababa ng sarili at nakakasakit ng damdamin ng kapartner mo. although mas maganda nga ito kesa mambabae, masama pa din. mas maganda pa rin pag kayo pareho na lang mag explore sa sarili niyo  kaya d din maiwasan mapalingon siya agad pag may ganung itsurang babae sa labas. feeling ko sex agad nasa isip niya pag ganun. ngayon, na stage kame na tinutulungan ko siya mag control sa porn

[Jaguar.Paw]

i don't mind naman.. i can't stop him from doing it, it is his bread and butter! lol.
ang tagal na nyang nagtatrabaho sa adult (graphic artist sya e) so from videos, photos, etc.
medyo matagal na din kami together since 2010. bago ko pa sya nakilala, ito na ang work nya.

but he doesn't watch when im around. syempre, mas gusto nya live kesa manood lang sa screen 

minsan he let me watch or see. minsan kasi kelangan i evaluate ang isang website.

we do watch together sometimes pero madalas hindi naman natatapos panoorin, kami na mismo natatapos 

[17glut]

girls, imbes na mainis kayo that your SO watches porn, why don't you try watching one too and use that to your advantage like a way to pick up some new stuff for your sexy time with your SO  ... mas mahirap if he gets off more in porn than doing it with you, that means nananawa na yan syo 

[yannuh]

ako i really don't mind at all. he's a guy so given na un. basta he knows his limitations lang (never go to any girly bar, etc)

[ajang]

It's fine by me, actually mas mahilig pa nga ako manuod kesa sa partner ko.

same tayo sis. mas mahilig ako manood compare sa kanya. minsan sya ang nagugulat bat ako nanonood ano daw ba meron. 

@topic: ok lang manood sya ng manood. he even download porn sa cp which is ok lang din naman kasi nakikinood ako. as long as di m2m yung watch nya. at the same time the good thing is after nya manood nagaaya na sya 

[Girltalker2]

I had a friend naging issue ito sa mag asawa. According to my friend kasi, she didn't know her hubby keeps porn videos and magazines. It offended her somehow kasi di nya alam.

[hypergalactix13]

hehe.. I don't think it's an issue since kung anuman ang nasa porn eh gawain din ng married couples in real life in our case, kung trip lang, we watch together

[LadySansa]

There's nothing wrong with porn. What's wrong is how you think of porn. And it's funny na may articles pala about negative effects of porn which obviously have no merit, just feeding you lies such as: it's bad for the reproduction system (ugghh no!), men raping their daughters because of porn (it's not the porn, yung father ang problema) and it's not normal for guys etc. FYI, there are a lot of things not normal for us human beings, and we've grown accustomed to it.

It's ok not to like porn but to tell people of false information about the negative effects? Come on. Let's be adults here.

This is so funny, me defending porn when I don't watch porn myself.

[Erie]

Hehe..    to be honest I don't have any problem towards my husband every time I saw him watching porn, paano isa pa din akong promotor,..  

In fact ako pa ang minsan nahuhuli ni hubby nanonood ng porn, naalala ko minsan nakita niya akong nanonood ng Porn siya pa sumita saakin.

"Ano iyan, bakit  ka nanonood niyan?" ako naman titingin sa kanya at bubungisngis hehe..  (paano nahuli e!)  Minsan ako pa ang naghihikayat na i-save niya sa netbook ang mga favorite scene ko, pero kapag pangit ang video pinabubura ko na.. wala naman siya sa cellphone nun, sa net book lang

On the other hand ang pinaka gusto ko ay yung sabay kami nanonood ng porn, open naman ako sa ganyan at hindi naman ako nagagalit as long as na maganda at pogi pinapanuod namin, at gusto ko talaga maganda iyong girl (pkiramdam ko na t -tomboy ako haha!) and minsan curious lang din ako sa mga ibat ibang position na ginagawa ng ibang babae,  hanga ako sa kanila dahil ang galing nila.. alam nila kung ano ang nakakakiliti sa kanila..

Plus, nitong last week noong sunday lang.. natawa ako sa husband ko.. mayroon kasi ang uncle ko (yung namatay) na FHM,.. pinabibigay sa tatay ko, mahilig ang uncle ko sa mga sexy girls at kapag sawa na siya ipinapamana na niya sa tatay ko, nagkataon naman na naiabot sakin ng auntie ko para ipabigay sa tatay ko, ako ang nakahawak,.. binuklat ko naman,.. napamulagat ako sabay "Wow!" natawa ako and then pinakita ko sa husband ko ang sabi ko "Ang sexy!!"

 (tamang tama katabi ko siya)  Ang sama ng tingin ng asawa ko saakin. Hahaha!  Anong magagawa ko? mahilig din ako sa sexy girls, kahit na babae ako, katwiran ko "hindi naman sigurong masamang humanga sa kapwa kong babae na malulusog ang boobs at sexy bodies!"

So, siguro depende lang talaga iyan sa mag asawa kung open o naiilang ang isa sa kanila,.. pero sa panahon ngayon sa palagay ko hindi na dapat pagtalunan dahil normal na iyan sa lalaki,.. nagkataon nga lang na mas konserbatibo kahit papaano ang asawa ko kesa saakin 

[lonelymiss28]

I don't mind.

[xandersmom]

Nope.