GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?

[abuanddiego]

i think nasa culture din ng mga pinoy na mas prefer nila ang slim than chubby/fat ones. Pansin ko kasi pag hindi pinoy, hindi sila ganun kapuna when it comes to body structure. Pag maganda face mo, tapos majubis ka, maganda ka pa rin sa paningin nila and they are willing to date you/get to know you better. Hindi ganun kauso sa kanila yung "maganda sana kaso mataba" factor

[jaymejorrol]

^ agree ako dito.. sometimes nga mas ok pa yung girl na tipong hipon eh.. you know.. tapon yung ulo, yung katawan lang gusto.. kahit panget basta sexy.. yun lang ata habol.. 

[jp_jameop]

^hahahah natawa naman ako sa HIPOn. hehe

yah true - kahit na majuba tyo dapt tlaga witty parin tyo. wag lang tlaga yung obese na. pangit na sa health yun.

[jaymejorrol]

^ haha.. totoo po yung hipon.. palagi ko naririnig sa amin yun eh.. kaya ayun, wala sila matinong gf kasi puro katawan habol!

ok lang po talaga fat or chubby basta maalaga sa sarili.. may mga friend nga ako na fat/chubby.. pero always malinis and mabango.. minsan hinu-hug ko, tapos kurot, tapos pag close ko talaga sinusuntok ko sa braso ng mild.. nyahaha! pero walang malisya naman yung hug.. friends naman eh..

[heaven_charm]

super agree ako kay jaymejorrol. sabi nga ni bf i shouldnt feel bad kasi medyo chubby ako kasi   di naman niya ako kinakahiya iharap sa mga barkada niya at itapat sa mga gfs ng mga yun. sexy nga sila pero mas may edge padin ako sa face at kutis.

pero still working to win my previous weight para naman sexy na ko paguwi ni bf next year. para naman hindi nakakahiya mag-two piece sa beach.

i think girls should also take care of their body lalo na pag si bf mo maganda ang katawan. nakakainsecure 

[ant0ni0_02]

Sad thing is we're influenced by media. And with women getting thinner all the time, Guys like me have a warped view of how the female figure is supposed to look like. Would I date a fat girl? No. I don't find them attractive.

[jaymejorrol]

super agree ako kay jaymejorrol. sabi nga ni bf i shouldnt feel bad kasi medyo chubby ako kasi   di naman niya ako kinakahiya iharap sa mga barkada niya at itapat sa mga gfs ng mga yun. sexy nga sila pero mas may edge padin ako sa face at kutis.

pero still working to win my previous weight para naman sexy na ko paguwi ni bf next year. para naman hindi nakakahiya mag-two piece sa beach.

i think girls should also take care of their body lalo na pag si bf mo maganda ang katawan. nakakainsecure 

hehe.. ang sarap sa feeling na pinagmamalaki ka ng partner mo di ba? as long as hindi mo pinapabayaan sarili mo, ok yan.. and it's good na gumagawa ka pa ng way para mas maging better ang figure mo..

Sad thing is we're influenced by media. And with women getting thinner all the time, Guys like me have a warped view of how the female figure is supposed to look like. Would I date a fat girl? No. I don't find them attractive.

i respect ant0ni0_02's opinion.. it's true that most of us guys really prefer slim and sexy bodies..

[pinesfly]

I would consider dating a chubby girl(With Curves) not that super fat and heavy weight that will doubled me. I honesty attractive into that.

[bear_touch]

I would still do consider as long as may sense siya kausap at kasama

[PrincessC]

medyo off-topic to but does being a fat guy play a role in going after a fat girl? what i've noticed with my  chubby guy friends is, although they like slimmer girls better, they don't do anything about it and the ones they actually ask out or end up with are chubby girls.

[jaymejorrol]

medyo off-topic to but does being a fat guy play a role in going after a fat girl? what i've noticed with my  chubby guy friends is, although they like slimmer girls better, they don't do anything about it and the ones they actually ask out or end up with are chubby girls.

oo napansin ko rin.. siguro andun yung feeling nila na wala silang laban sa other hunks, kaya parang no choice, nakuha na ang mga sexy kaya si chubby nalang.. or.. mas gusto nila same silang chubby kasi they have same interests (food ) or.. talagang they both understand each others' feelings being chubby or fat.. mga pinagdaraanan nila, mga ganun..

pero kung sakin talaga.. ok sakin chubby.. mas ok sila i-hug

[gylbie]

naalala ko lang un isa kong friend na girl na mataba rin... ang motto nya sa lovelife nya...

"hanggang meron foreigner meron pag-asa" hahaha... kase nga raw laitero ang mga pinoy na lalake... 

ako nga eh chubby... then madalas ako sabihan ng officemate ko na lalake... "maganda ako, mabait PERO magpapayat raw sana ako... para maligawan..." so talagang need maging sexy o payat para magka-lovelife? hehe...

[abuanddiego]

^seems like your friend and I are placed in the wrong country lol! but seriously, that is also the reason why I lost interest in our fellow men. Masyado kasing mapuna sa physical appearance, kahit decent naman itsura ng isang tao, laging may buts, ifs, para bang you can never be good enough for them. As if naman mga Adonis sila I'm wondering kung lacking ba talaga ang mga pinoy sa appreciation values at ganito na lang tayo kachoosy?

I want someone who is matured enough at naiintindihan yung concept na hindi nasusukat yung kagandahang loob sa panlabas na anyo. Pero mahirap ata makahanap ng ganitong lalaki bec. men are very visual and everyone wants to have a trophy gf/wife.

Ako yung tipo na malaking bulas eversince lumabas sa mundong to, my smallest was around US size 12-14, and I can't imagine myself being thinner than that para lang maligawan lol! Sabi nga nila kung ayaw nila sayo, then so be it, wag pahirapan ang sarili, ayawan mo rin sila at dun ka sa may gusto sayo!

[jaymejorrol]

Sabi nga nila kung ayaw nila sayo, then so be it, wag pahirapan ang sarili, ayawan mo rin sila at dun ka sa may gusto sayo!

tama, kung ayaw nila sayo, mas lalong ayaw mo sa kanila hehe.. they must love you for what you are.. dapat tanggap ka kahit ano ka pa.. pero baka gusto lang nila na kahit pano mag-effort ka magpapayat kasi nga baka mas lumabas ang appeal nyo dun ..pero kung wala talagang time, ayaw mo ng ganung challenge.. bumawi na lang sa attitude.. yun ang mahalaga and make sure na malinis palagi sa katawan.. dapat lagi mabango and huggable

[abuanddiego]

^this

they must love you for what you are.. dapat tanggap ka kahit ano ka pa..

is contradicting this

pero baka gusto lang nila na kahit pano mag-effort ka magpapayat kasi nga baka mas lumabas ang appeal nyo dun

eto na naman tayo sa buts and ifs lols I don't even think that it's a challenge, kundi "di lang talaga sila into you" Because if a man is truly into a woman, he will accept all her flaws, weight nor height nor whatever flaw won't be an issue period. It's like saying "maganda/appealing ka lang sa akin pag mas payat ka, pag mataba ka, pass muna ko!" looool! If someone tells me na magpapayat ka para mas gumanda/sumexy/maging appealing ka, red flag na yan and I'm going to cross him out on my list because it only means that he/she is not comfortable with my weight. I will not do things just to please others

[jaymejorrol]

^ well.. ok.. hehe but wala naman siguro mawawala if you try some of their suggestions.. and for sure para din naman sayo yun.. ikaw din ang makikinabang.. and if you don't want to consider it as a challenge, wala po ako magagawa.. and i know naman na mahirap magpapayat.. kaya dinugtungan ko nga na pag wala kayong time sa ganun, bumawi na lang sa attitude and cleanliness sa katawan..

and hindi talaga natin maiiwasan ang ifs and buts.. like.. IF sinunod mo sila na magpapayat ka, mas tataas ang chance mo na magkaroon ng date.. BUT kung ayaw mo talaga, you'll just wait for that someone.. di nga lang natin alam kung kelan.. lalo na sa panahon ngayon, visual ang mga guys..

[abuanddiego]

^lol fyi i'm not even worried kahit wala akong dates, I'm fine being single at walang mga lalaki sa buhay we have to understand that some people are fine being chubby,fat,thin,tall,short, etc. so let them be. I know that men are born to be visual creatures, pero di ko kailangan sumunod sa ikakasaya ng mga mata nila para lang maligawan lol!

bumawi na lang sa attitude and cleanliness sa katawan..

sabi ko nga you can never be good enough for some people. kahit okay ang attitude at malinis sa katawan, pag may isa kang flaw, bye bye na.

Ang nakakainis dito is yung sinasabihan ka ng mga dapat gawin in order to be appealing daw? Huh? Who are you to dictate what is beautiful and what is not, beauty comes in different forms and sizes. Kung di mo trip fine, go away lol and search for your dream girl/boy. pero wag na magdictate ng kung anong dapat gawin just to please your eyes. Stop being selfish and controlling, billions of people are inhabiting the earth, it is not made for your own viewing pleasure.

[sacred cow]

@abuanddiego

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/01/25/fat-kills-marriages-dead/

we're just saying na fat women are really the bottom of the food chain when it comes to a woman's
SMV (sexual market value) and you'd be really hard pressed to find a quality guy that would settle for a fat girl
when he has a lot of options. Pwedeng may magkagusto nga sa'yo for who you are (fat and all) pero I doubt na ok na
sa'yo ang guy basta tanggap ka niya, eh pano naman kung siya naman 'tong ayaw mo

[pinkberries]

my guy told me at first why he disliked fat women in general... but I'm fat (35lbs over my ideal weight) so I didnt know why he wasted so much time with me everyday.  hanggang sa sinabi na lang nya, na dapat in 2 years from now, slim na ako.     hindi ko nga inisip na aabot pa kami ng 2 years... but yes, since i like him a lot, i will make that change. 

[annerocky18]

My husband doesnt like me when im slim weird diba! He likes me when Im malaman, but not chubby. but feeling ko since im not used to my weight now nahihirapan ako. When I go to work pag magbibihis ako I change clothes a lot of times. Kase ayoko may nakikita na kahit ontil bilbil or love handles. tapos pawis na pawis ako after ko magbihis.

Pinapakain niya kase ako like 4 or 5 times a day. Grbeh eh na miss ko na yung dati ko katawan.