DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY

[ForeverDreamer]

hindi!ayoko!
walang akong friend na naging ex ko.
pag tinatanong nila kung pwede ba kahit magkaibigan nalang.....
sagot ko...di na kailangan.madami na akong kaibigan.

[sweet_chic]

No. Because it's awkward.

[amethyst028]

yes we're friends.

sa umpisa mahirap kasi hindi mo alam kung paano maging friend na lang yung taong minahal mo dati. pero eventually nakapag adjust din kame. took a while though.

[chin0608]

yes, i can be friends with them as long as wala na yung spark. kasi may pinagsamahan naman kami so sayang naman din kung pati friendship mawawala. the love is still there pero hindi yung term na "inlove".

[lovely_carrot]

My first two exes, I definitely prefer na hindi, wala naman kwenta.

The last one, I don't have much choice, he's my daughter's daddy and I guess it helped a lot that we're more than civil.

[pretty_in_white]

  I am friends with one of my ex's but that was it, the others I prefer not to be friends with. 

[khrysiesomuch]

Para sa akin ayoko. Pero yung mga ex ko pinatutunguhan ko naman ng maayos pag may mga tanong sila sinasagot ko naman ng maayos. Mga simple questions lang naman lalo na pag ang kinakamusta nila ay ang parents ko. Pero yung isa kong ex, he wants to be friends with me kasi ako lang daw ang naging close sa family niya na naging GF niya. Hello naman after ng bingay mong pain sa akin gusto mo maging friends tayo. You had an affair with other girls and worst nagkababy ka pa sa iba. pwede siguro sa family mo but not you. Noong hindi ko pinansin, aba naman 1 week before my wedding he kept on calling my dad. What for? And now, may asawa na ako, you kept on sending messages on my FB account telling me that you still love me? Nagiging laughing stuff ka tuloy naming mag-asawa, everytime na nababasa namin ang messages mo. At saka naaawa na ako sa current GF mo, kasi para ako lang noon, walang kamalay malay sa ginagawa mo. As much as I wanted to tell your GF ayoko naman na maging kontrabida ako. Kasi alam ko yung concern ko sa kanya iba ang magiging dating kasi ako nga ang Ex mo before her.

[LiL019]

no. i never plan to stay friends with my last ex. we were in an 11 year relationship. and i don't think i have ever forgiven how he cheated on me. i don't want his current girl to experience what i experienced when he hid the fact that he was still in contact with his ex-gf, who he calls as his bestfriend. (bestfriend my a**!)

so, no. i don't want him to know anything about me. i just want to get away from his circle of people. i just did him a favor of "moving on" agad without my presence. magpakasaya siya sa new gf niya na ginawa niyang rebound girl after me.

[iloveshoes88]

I have an ex whom I consider a very good friend of mine, I don't know why, maybe it's because we really don't want to be separated from each other that we decided to stay friends. -_-

[Reynamargallo]

ako okay lang maging friends pag healed na. Totoo yun na time heals all wounds. Pag dumating yun, you can look at your ex straight thru his eyes na di naiiyak or galit.

If you are still in pain, wag muna "mangarap" na maging friends with your ex. Kalokohan yan. Buuin mo muna sarili mo. If time permits at healed ka na, pwede na kayo maging kaibigan.

Pag naging friends kayo, wag mag expect na may "return of the comeback" ang feelings ha. 

[Janelc]

Yes I'm still friends with 2 of my exes pero hindi kami naging friends right after the break up it took years.

[jenger109]

Friends ko sila except for 2.. Bitter kasi mga yon kahit may families na kami pare pareho, pati relatives nila galit sa akin.. Haiz..

Bff ko nag try kami maging kami.. Then bff ulit after.. It took us months bago bumalik friendship.. pero atleast bumalik.. katuwa nga kasi napag uusapan na namin everything! As in open kami sa lahat ng prob etc kahit may family na rin sya.. super love ko bff ko na yon..

[alexsy]

no. may reason kaya sila EX 
at madami na akong friends kaya di ko sila kailangan. move on na lang kahit mahirap.

[whatswithjuly]

i wanted to be friends with my ex - if my bf will allow me to. unfortunately, super selos sya dun kaya no chance. ex has been a good friend to me, wala naman ako masasabi sa kanya as a friend. ewan ko but i see him as a different person nun naging kami.

[simang]

When my ex for 7 years and I broke up, I promised myself to not text/call him or respond to his text/call as long as hindi pa ako okay. I had to forget all about him first. When I felt like he's no longer in my system, dun ako nagsimula kausapin sya ulit, which was nice kase it was very clear to me that there was nothing anymore, as in meh. Since then we were very civil with each other, although I don't think we're 'friends'. I haven't seen him since the breakup but he would text/call me from time to time.

Personally I don't see the point of being friends with your ex. Exes are exes for a reason.

[baliwsayo]

He was my barkada since HS kaya sayang sana ang friendship. After 5 months nagtetext na naman siya. It was okey lang sana cause I've moved on already kaso mukhang masama yata kasi nagtetext na miss niya ako. Told him friends na lang kami maski di naman niya ako ina-ask back. He said sure naman. Kaso nagtetext pa din. My current is badtrip na so I have no more choice but to ignore his texts. I feel bad for him pero iniisip ko na lang he did not take care of me eh so it's really his fault not mine.

[Girltalker2]

I prefer not to be friends. Kaso no choice ako at sya ang ama ng mga anak ko. Kung puede ko nga lang putulin ang relasyon nila, dati ko pa ginawa.

Reason for me kasi sinungaling syang tao.  Ang tatanda na namin, kayang kaya pa nya mambola at magsinungaling without batting an eyelash. Mapa ex man o hindi, acquaintance, officemate or schoolmate or friends, basta ayaw ko maging kaibigan anyone na sinungaling.

[graZiousa]

kami ni X friend kami bago naging bf/gf so nung nagkahiwalay kami back to being friends pa din pero syimpre di na tulad ng dati ang closeness of being friends.  Hindi nga maayos ang break up namin pero we manage pa rin naman to be friends after ng break up..we were not good as lovers but we are good being friends.

[SarSi_Em]

thanks sa mga replies dito, nakaka tulong ma realize mga bagay bagay regarding sa ex.

nasa ganito situation ako right now, after 3 mos of no communication nag usap uli kami pero ang problema sa 3 months na yun wala naman closure, pero nakahanap na sya ng bago, after malaman ko may bago, nag start ako makipag usap una para i win back sya pero nakita ko mahal na nya, so ang ending, kausap ko na sya lagi at most of the time about his new gf na ang topic, un problems nya or pag nag tampuhan sila, ugali ni gf etc, to the point nagbibigay pa ko ng advices,

pero deep inside, ang sakit sakit, di ko malaman ano gagawin ko now, gusto ko pa rin sya nakakausap pero nasasaktan naman ako, sinabi ko sya na ang lumayo tulad dati pero nag pm pa rin sya sakin.

ilan beses ko na rin sinabi sa kanya lalayo ako, pero kapag nag start na sya mag paramdam di na ko maka hindi.

sana matapos na rin ako tulad nyo.

[ieiky]

Si Ex and ayaw makipag friend sa akin, Wahahah!

We used to be friends naman. Tapos ok naman yung break-up namin. Actually mahal ko pa naman siya and akala ko puwede pa kami magbalikan, pero siguro ayaw na niya talaga. Thankful na din ako kase siya na yung nag cut ng communications namin, kase kung hindi forever aasa lang ako na may 'kami' pa. Mas ok na yung clear [textspeak!] message niya na 'THE END' na kami.