Baby na o wag muna??

[milkchocolate]

^tama yan sis. ako kase hindi nagpapaconsult before. wala din akong ob talaga.  no regular check up. kaya nashock ako na i have 5cm myoma na pala at cyst sa left ovary ko. btw sis, pareho tayo. LDR din kami before. nung dito na si hubby sa pinas nagwork, saka kami nagplan magbaby na.

[ldrwifey]

kami din pag andito n si hubby thats the time n i-aasses ang situation then baby making time na, hehe!!

nakapunta ako dati sa ob-gyn ng wala sa oras kasi napraning ako sa mga sinasabi ng tao n mahihirapan daw kaming magkababy kaya ayun... sabi naman ng dr ko kahit naman matanda or bata walang pinipili kung talagang mahirap magkababy, kasi some couples wala namang problema pero years talaga ang inaantay bago makabuo.

[mrsdee]

ang goal ko as of late is to be healthy, be perfectly fit to bear a child. and yung self-conditioning in terms of the future responsibility. for me it's not like, wag muna or sige let's try making one na and stress my self afterwards bakit wala pa.... if ibigay na ng Panginoon, hopefully by that time, we are sooo ready to rock parenthood already.

preparation is the key, naks.

[ldrwifey]

tama ka naman sis, kasi lagi din naming sinasabi "hindi pa kami ready" tapos dadaldal ang mga tao ng ano kayo nagpapayaman? hindi lang naman pera ang pagpapamilya diba, dapat emotionally prepared din tayo para maging parents 

[mrsdee]

^korek!
correct me if I'm wrong, LDR kayo ni hubby basing from your ID? hehe. kami din! although 3weeks more at magkakasama na kami for good, God-willing. diba nila ma-gets na hindi pwede i-send via MMS or email ang sp*rm? at kung magkita man, hindi all the time fertile? pagod na rin ako kakasagot ng tanong ng madlang people. besides, diba ganun naman palagi. pag hindi pa married, kelan ka mag-aasawa. pag nag-asawa na, bakit wala pa baby. pag may junior na, kelan daw susundan. aba, haler! nakaka-stress na sila ha! hehe.

[ldrwifey]

yes sis LDR kami, and sa case namin, talagang nagpipigil kami magkaaanak. im not prepared to handle pregnancy on my own, sabi nga ni husband akala nya daw matapang ako. i dont care kung anong sabihin ng ibang tao, i just want the best for my child, and i cant give that to him/her if ill be an emotional wreck diba.

a lot of folks are saying din na baka sa kakaantay namin, hindi n kami mabigyan ng anak. i just answered them if thats the case then i believe its God's will... ayun may mga super rude talaga n sisimangutan ako na as if nababaliw ako dahil s mga sinasabi ko.

[samsonknight]

Mga sis, hubby and I just married, but ayaw pa sana namin magka-baby. Gusto naman naming magka anak, siyempre, not now lang. Ok ba mag pills?

[sarsingkit]

^better to visit your OB para she can give recommendations on what preventive measures you can take.

a lot of folks are saying din na baka sa kakaantay namin, hindi n kami mabigyan ng anak. i just answered them if thats the case then i believe its God's will... ayun may mga super rude talaga n sisimangutan ako na as if nababaliw ako dahil s mga sinasabi ko.

ok na yan sis at least titigilan ka nila. kasi ako pag ganyan, sinasabi ko "iniisip ko pa kung gusto ko ng anak" tapos lalayuan nila ako na as if masama akong tao. hehe.

may friend ako na LDR din sila ng bf nya, as in nagpabuntis talaga sya before the bf (hindi pa sila kasal and she is not anywhere near 30 yrs old) left tapos ngayon grabe ang mood swings sya (understandable naman) pero would put the blame na she is kawawa kasi husband is away blah blah. naaasar lang ako ginusto nya yun tapos ganito ngayon yung inaarte nya.

[mrsdee]

^mahirap din talaga magbuntis mag-isa, sana na-anticipate ng friend mo yun hehe. kami, if it comes, it comes. blessing in disguise din na wala pa kasi LDR pa kami at worry si husband na ako nga lang daw mag-isa if ever. actually mas worry sya kesa sa akin haha.

as for me naman, deep inside, nandun na yung "want" to mother a child of our own. pareho kami mahilig sa bata at spoiled sa amin nephews at nieces namin. tapos lately, I saw sa FB yung batchmate ko na nanganak recently at medyo publicized at lagi may photo-op even pag-breastfeed nya, pagtulog nila mag-asawa with the baby in between, puffy eyes because of puyat...and then I talked to myself, "o ayan gustung-gusto mo na, ready ka na ba dyan?"

9months pa lang kami married, LDR pa yan most of the time at wala pa kami masyado bonding so I try my best na nire-replace ko yung "want" to bear a child, with "want" to form a better, more solid bond/foundation with the husband. Ayun, it works naman. Nawawala yung inip.

[hakunamatata]

joining..

plan namin ni hubby after six months kami mag baby, enjoy muna namin ang isa't isa and ipon na rin for the baby. sana if mag tttc kasi madali lang i mean hindi ganun katagal.

[sweetscience]

kami ni hubby we want na sana right after the wedding pero wala pa din..

[m_lim]

super thankful ako kasi we got married last december after 7yrs of being bf/gf. nakapag enjoy kami ng husto. travel 3 to 4x per year, massage whenever we like, bili ng luxury items every now and then but at the same time nakapag ipon kami. now after 6months of being married, i got preggy right after pag uwi namin from our eurotrip! perfect talaga ng timing! thank you Lord!

[m_lim]

sa mga hindi pa makabuo, huwag kayo masyado mainggit or paapekto sa mga friends niyo na may baby na. kasi marami akong kilala diyan ang lakas manggatong sa amin dati bakit wala pang mabuo pero panay ang problema sa pera like kung pano pag aaralin sa good school, etc etc. kaya i always tell my single friends, enjoy niyo lang singlehoos niyo and save! para pag binigay na ni Lord, kaya mong ibigay sa baby mo yung the best. hindi kayo problemado kasi napaghandaan

[izabelle]

^ so true iba kapag may savings talaga and kaya ibigay ang best sa baby. hindi pwedeng tipirin ang baby e.

[super bratinella]

After we got married nabuntis na naman ako now 5years passed, gusto na ni hubby masundan bunso namin, personally ako ok lang muna kahit hindi kaso when I see hubby's face everytime na hindi pa ako nagkakaperiod maluha luha na siya so parang na excite tuloy ako magkababy kaso nagpills ako so hindi ko alam kung magiging mabilis ang pagbubuntis ko..

[miss ira]

4 months palang kaming married  and nung last na uwi namin sa province nina hubby --  they would tell hubby na huwag ako bibigyan ng kahit anong gamot, theyre assuming na buntis na ako agad. Super init kasi nung April so ako madalas sumakit ulo ko and tahimik lang.. We only laugh lang kapag they ask kung wala pa. Sa side lang ni hubby laging may tanong, buti nalang sa side ko wala heheh.. Hirap ng buhay ngyon and as new regstred nurse hirap mghanap ng work as a nurse so heto khit mahirap  financially hubby supported me to go back to college and magaral. Hopefully makaraos kami after 3 years then magbaby na. For nowwe have 11 dogs na super cute, yun ang babies namin ngayon pingkakagastusan din sa food...

[superpam]

My husband and I got married 3 months ago and we don't feel the pressures to have children just yet. Maybe it's because we live abroad and my mum and my husbands parents don't put any pressure on us. Also, my husband and I are working to be in a career we're both happy in, also, we want to spend the first few years as a couple and just 'us'. we want to travel around europe and america and spend for the things we want, when we've got all of that out of our system then we'll have kids.

[whitetulip]

well if you think kaya na sa budget and you have spare time then go for it. mas okay kasi if you grow old with your children. mahirap na pag mas matanda na tayo db?  if not ready yet dami naman OCP para hnd mabuntis.

[vain_kixie]

we'll try next year. got married last month and we'll spend the entire 1st year on travelling

[FrogPrincess]

^ i love that!
kami din ganun gusto kaya lang di kaya sa time kasi parehong busy sa work (based abroad kami both) pero pag uwi namin ng pinas this december sana matupad namin kasi anniversary na namin sa january. 

hopefully the baby will come next year. sana mabuo na sya sa honeymoon namin on our 1st anniv