masama ba ang loob nyo?

[nixiquita]

sobrang sama ng loob ko, my guy and i since sunday night di pa nagkakausap ng maayos. mukha ding walang balak makipagayos, di man lang mageeffort na kausapin ako at magsorry. siya pa galit. ako na nageffort tumawag at magreachout, siya pa mi gana makipagkalas at bagsakan ako telepono. kawalang gana.

[Miss.Pancake]

Bakit ba sila ganun sating mga girls?

[nixiquita]

^id like to think na may mali nga sakin bilang girlfriend kaya ganun siya sakin.

parang parehas tayo ng pinagdadaanan sis ah haha

[Miss.Pancake]

^naku sis ganyan din feeling ko. Either may mali sakin as a girlfriend or may nahanap siyang mas okay sakin. Nakakaparanoid kaya. hahaha!

Nakakainis lang kasi dati nun nanliligaw palang sila ang bait bait at sweet sweet nila tapos pag lipas ng panahon, waley na! hahaha

[nixiquita]

Common sa lalake yung ganyang attitude at behavior. They focus too much on gettin the girl, but when they finally have her, they forget how to keep her. :p

Goodluck sa atin sis. Kaya natin toh, haha kaya ang mantra ko lagi is "Courage and strength." Courage to let go and Strength to stand alone.

Kaya natin toh, push! Paganda nalang tayo haha

[Miss.Pancake]

^Sis agree! Dapat maging strong tayo as women talaga. Wag masyadong mag focus o umasa sa sweetness ng mga boys. Minsan tuloy pag may guy na sweet sakin ang isip isip ko sa loob ko "Sus pakitang tao mo lang yan" Pero deep inside kilig na kilig naman ako. hahahaha!

Correct! Magpaganda nalang tayo. Para di bumaba self esteem. hehe.

[laarnileerni]

I dont even know what to feel, its hard when you love someone so much and then kaya nyang mag let go with just a snap of a finger

[SarSi_Em]

yes masama pa rin, dahil sa sinabi nya about me sa last na usap namin, pero yun na rin naging reason para mabilis ako nakaka move on now.

[FliPPy_LaDdY]

Yes sobra. Parang asido sa sakit. Ganun pala yun pag gusto mo takasan sana may magic na pwede ka na lang mawala

[simplecathy143]

yes. bigla na lang siyang hindi nagparamdam ng 2 months tapos nagpalit ng no. ng di man lang ako iniinform tapos bigla na lang magtetext at magpapakilalang bf ko.. kapal lang ng mukha..

[nixiquita]

Yep dahil di siya dumaan dito to bring me bananacue. Dumiretso sa barkada.

[jl042655]

I don't even know if this is the right thread. lol

My ex-bf cheated on me with his ex. When I finally found out, he apologized then asked me for some time to fix things with her. When I asked what he meant, he told me na gusto nya tapusin yung mga problema on his side muna so wala na kami problema.

I was happy sa sinabi niya because it looked to me na he wanted to fix things. I know maraming tao dito would say leave agad once a partner cheats, pero I chose to give him another chance because mahal ko pa siya and wanted everything to work out eventually. Then one day, nakita ko na lang sa facebook na magkasama pala sila all along pa din and they looked happy. (May fb account pala si ex-bf kung saan nakablock ako and most of our mutual friends)

Well the thing is, si ex-bf is a serial cheater. He cheated 5-6 times on this same ex na binalikan nya tapos he ends up going back to her din. Si girl naman alam yung mga ginagawa ni guy pero she accepts him without question every single time. But these cheating episodes were either flings or one-night stands. Sakin lang yung nag ka-relationship talaga. Si ex-bf and I lasted a year.

Why did I accept him in the first place? Kasi naive me thought na, or hoped, na magbabago siya. I'm 24 and this was my first relationship ever. It looked like that for a while but I think when the honeymoon stage elapsed, nangyari pa din what I feared.

So anyway, this is the hard part. I've cried and wallowed in self-pity. I'm coping pa din, and may days na struggling talaga lalo na pag namimiss ko sya. Problema lang kasi is si ex-bf and I work together and maraming situation that requires mag interact kami. Sobrang hirap ilet-go talaga yung person na nakikita mo pa constantly, especially since we separated on a bad note.

I still have feelings for him, and the worst part is parang naiintroduce nya uli yung gf nya na ngayon to other people. Si ex-bf kasi is a good basketball player and member sya ng company basketball team. Nung sila pa nung girl na toh dati, she would watch the games and attend the after-parties or inuman. Nung naging kami, ako yung naging ganun.

Ngayon, may championship and he intends to bring her. People at work who knew na kami will see that and ayoko maconfront ng situation where they question kung ano na kami or start gossiping about us. Tsaka masakit din knowing that the same people who saw us together will see him now with her again. Parang pakiramdam ko nadiscard ako. Discard after use lang.

You see, although hindi na kami masyado nagsasama ni ex-bf sa office, many are still under the impression na kami kasi we still speak from time to time or take lunch together, gaya ng kinagawian nung kami pa.

I still agree to eating with him when he asks kasi hindi ko matiis because the feelings are still there. May communication pa din kami because ex told me na gusto nya maging okay pa din daw kami sana. Gusto ko din sana ng ganun kasi ang hirap makatrabaho ang isang tao na may sama ng loob. I know I need to move on, pero paano kung nababalitaan ko pa din mga bagay na ginagawa nila, or see pictures of them together unintentionally.

I tried requesting sa kanya na ilayo na muna gf nya para pasintabi lang sakin kaso he told me na kahit pagbawalan niya pumunta sa game niya, the girl can still choose to show up while he is playing and he cannot very well order her to leave. Alam ko wala na din ako karapatan magdikta ng movement niya kaso ang sakit lang talaga.

My heart and pride were hit when he cheated on me kasi it was all over that secret fb account pala na magkasama sila pala tapos sa office is kami nakikita magkasama. My ego took another beating when he ended us and chose to be with her instead.

Hindi naman namin kaya maiwan trabaho namin pareho because we're on managerial positions na din and it's not easy to let go of the career just like that.

Parang feeling ko lang ngayon na ginamit lang ako o pinaglaruan.

[eleine26]

dati, OO. hirap mag move-on. mahirap yung acceptance. pero ngayon okay na. may closure na din. 

[Frozen Toes]

At first, yes. But as the days pass, nawawala na rin. Almost okay na ko. At this point kasi, I'd rather see the good than the bad. I don't want to hold on to negative feelings. Ayoko magfocus sa mga mali na nagawa namin kaya hindi nagwork. Di makakatulong sa healing eh. Sabi ko dati sana hindi ko na lang siya nakilala. But then, at one point, before things got messy, I loved him with the kind of love I had always hoped to give. I don't regret that.

The happy memories I will carry with me.

[killbill]

Sobra

[kobrakid]

sobrang sama po kasi hindi ko alam kung talagang mahal niya ba ako or pineperahan lang

[SarSi_Em]

half half
 
un half kasi maraming maganda nangyari sakin dahil sa kanya, at marami rin panget nangyari sakin dahil sa kanya.

[simang]

^i feel you sis

Breaking up with my bf for 7 yrs was probably bad but realizing how i am now, and how wonderful my current relationship is, i couldn't be anymore thankful sa 7 yrs at sa lahat ng natutunan ko sa kanya which undeniably made me a better person.

Masama ba loob ko? Hindi naman, medyo nairita lang ako sa kanya ng light kase he acts as if he still gets me. Eh ang totoo wala naman na syang alam tungkol sa akin.

[SarSi_Em]

oo, kasi pataasan ng pride

pero ok na rin mas madali maka ka move on.

[twix01]

i couldn't be anymore thankful sa 7 yrs at sa lahat ng natutunan ko sa kanya which undeniably made me a better person.

likewise!! i know the feeling. ako hindi na masama loob ko new year na so new life dapat!