Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?

[gurlalu]

thanks po sa mga advise. i just had kase my 1st period after 5 weeks 2 days since my d&c.

i have read din kase sa ibang international forums na most of them did try after 1st mens cycle lang and had luck to conceive successfully... pero same din po sa inyo, ganun din sabi ng OB ko to wait to regulate the menses - gave me 2 months to start trying again.

i had d&c April 10, period came May 14. Ob told me to try again June.
i guess better to trust our OBs for our and future baby safety

[rmv12]

i had my share of this sad experience last yr..  OB said, it's safe to try again after 3 menstrual cycle... but i conceived after 2 months... i'm in panicked kc maaga pa, pero my new OB tells me not to worry about it kasi eto [textspeak!] natural process ng katawan naten... but to be safe, she gave me duvidillan for 1 month... now i'm on my 26th weeks and hoping maka full term... 

treat na [textspeak!] po naten na [textspeak!] experience naten as a reminder to be more careful pa about our baby habang nasa tummy pa... 

[joey09]

ako nga din wait ko pa ang period ko.may 1 ako na d&c and mga mahigit 1 week ako nag bleed.kailan kaya ako magkakaroon uli?

[anneG]

ako nga din wait ko pa ang period ko.may 1 ako na d&c and mga mahigit 1 week ako nag bleed.kailan kaya ako magkakaroon uli?

kung regular naman period mo sis after 1 month balik na ulit yung cycle mo.

[joey09]

kung regular naman period mo sis after 1 month balik na ulit yung cycle mo.

ganun ba.kaya pala sabi ng OB ko balik ako after 1 month.si partner kasi gusto na mag try uli.sabi ko tiis muna siya.

[anneG]

ganun ba.kaya pala sabi ng OB ko balik ako after 1 month.si partner kasi gusto na mag try uli.sabi ko tiis muna siya.

yes ganun nga..in my case, pina try kami after 3mos.
pero yung isang friend ko had miscarried last july she didn't underwent d&c kasi sobrang aga nangyari then nag try sila agad aug na preggy siya. hindi ko alam kung pano nangyari yun hehe then last april she gave birth na.

[joey09]

yes ganun nga..in my case, pina try kami after 3mos.
pero yung isang friend ko had miscarried last july she didn't underwent d&c kasi sobrang aga nangyari then nag try sila agad aug na preggy siya. hindi ko alam kung pano nangyari yun hehe then last april she gave birth na.

naguluhan nga ako kasi sabi ni OB hindi naman daw ganun ka critical yung D&C na ginawa.hindi naman daw totally kinyod like yung mga usual na ginagawa.

[wella]

I got miscarriage recently. We've been trying for almost 2 years now. I think kaya rin kme nakabuo that time kase i was excited for our vacation in pinas. Its true na pag di mo iniisip na sana mabuntis ka na every month, nabubuo talaga. So before we left, nagpacheck up na ko around 6 weeks na ata ako non. Walang heartbeat. There's a 50-50 chances kase nga maliit pa daw. When we were in Pinas, one week pa lang kme don, nagkaron na ko ng spotting. It was brown (parang pahabol nten) parang bahid lang sya. Then nawala a day after, tapos ayun na nagtuloy tuloy. At first medyo ok lang kase sabi ng ibang kakilala ko normal lang daw, yun daw yung tinatawag na "tagbawas". Worried nman ang mommy ko kase sa 5 anak nya never naman daw nya naexperience yun. So anyway after ilang days di na ko comfortable kase nasspoil na yung vacation ko. Di ko na naeenjoy so nagpunta na ko sa ospital. Unfortunately my OB was not available that day kaya sa iba ako nagpatingin. Ayun nagpatransvaginal na ko and sabi nga walang development, 9 weeks na ko non pero sa gestational 6 weeks pa lang. Same size pa rin daw (accdg to my medical records from US). That day, kailangan ko na raw D&C. My hubby was so hesitant kase aside from diskompyado sya sa doctor, wala rin naman kme extra money (wer really trying not to use our credit cards on hehe). She prescribed a duphaston kaya lang nung nagtake ako non, heavy bleeding na.. parang period na so I stopped it. Then we asked for a 2nd opinion who happens to be my hubby's friend aunt. But still the same answer. She's concerned na rin na its really necessary kase mauubusan na ko ng dugo and its more risky. We had no choice kaya niraspa na ko.

It so sad kase khet short period of time nafeel ko na there's a life inside me khet di pa ganon kalaki. I feel more complete as a woman. Kaya eto ulit kme ngayon back to square one. Though minsan naiisip ko na dapat this september ang due ko. Pero ganyan ang buhay... weder weder lang...

[joey09]

@wella,ganyan din nangyari sa akin at 7 weeks nawalan din ng heartbeat.may mga brown discharge din pero light lang and sabi naman nila normal nga daw baka nagbabawas.yun pala wala na si baby.Isipin m na lang na may reason kung bakit nangyayari [textspeak!] mga bagay-bagay.mag trust na lang tayo kay GOD.

[wella]

^blighted ovum daw naman yung sken...may narinig din akong strory from a friend naman na, pagkalabas ng baby after ilang seconds wala ng heartbeat.... napakasakit non! Kya nga nagiging positive na lang ako na, khet papano yung sa atin eh maliit pa lang... kesa yung inalagaan mo for 9 months... tapos wala rin pala. And sabi rin ng hubby ko mas gugustuhin na lang daw nya mawala yung baby na yun kesa naman magkaron ng birth defects or magkaron pa kmeng dalawa ng complications.

Yesterday, I was watching this show na yung mother, she's neglecting her 3 year old baby. Di nya nilalabas yung bata... nasa room lang for 20 hours. Then yung window pa naka-covered pa talagang madilim. She didn't change the diapers tapos crackers and soda pa ang pinapakain. Di rin nakakapagsalita kase nga kulang sa human interaction. Ang reason ng nanay, she's lazy daw. Nalungkot ako di lang sa situation ng kid but also ang daming gustong magkaron ng anak na deserving na maging good parent pero di pinalad tapos eto ka may anak pero wala lang.

I know darating ang tamang panahon para saten... kaya lang minsan nakakainip noh... hehe!

[anneG]

naguluhan nga ako kasi sabi ni OB hindi naman daw ganun ka critical yung D&C na ginawa.hindi naman daw totally kinyod like yung mga usual na ginagawa.

siguro its more on physically inside gusto ni OB ready na yung body bago mag try ulit & also emotionally. kaya kami sumunod naman kasi gusto rin namin this time maganda yung maging quality ng egg/sperm para tuloy-tuloy na..had my D&C Oct'08 got preggy again Oct'09 inabot din ng 1yr in the making hehe..pinadala din kasi ako sa abroad for training ng Feb'09 kaya na delay ng na delay yung baby project namin tapos due to depression every other month travel talaga ako ng travel with friends (taga airline kasi ako kaya libre lang hehe) last travel ko Aug'09 but during that time i'm under the care of my OB in MMC close monitoring ang ginawa sa ovulation period ko.

@wella - mukhang critical talaga yung 6-7wks..we also lost our baby on its 7th week.

[wella]

^ oo nga eh, nabasa ko nga na risky ang stage pag 1st and last trimester. And yun din nga na after D&C wait til 3-6 months na magtry ulit kase pag niraraspa numinipis yung uterine lining nten, so kailangan maging normal yung cycle nten para may makapitan. And ang sabi rin sken ng OB ko, mas okay na rin nga daw kung maghintay kme ng mga ganon katagal kase what if kung failed na naman, so another raspa na naman yun... Pero yun nga kung nakabuo, eh di nabuo...

[anneG]

@wella - mas delikado yung 1st trimester..sa last trimester kasi buo na si baby common problem is cord coil other than that puede ng ilabas as premie si baby sa last trimester.
The good this is atleast nabuntis tayo, more chances na mabubuntis ulit kesa sa totally hindi diba. When we least expect it, then i got pregnant again..kaya don't rush but don't take it for granted din during the time na inaantay namin dumating si baby, I can say that i was able to enjoy my life last year..yung pagiging jetsetter hehe! travelling makes me very happy.

[applec16]

my sis-in-law had a miscarriage @ almost 5 mos last May 20.  This is her 2nd time.  The first one was @ 6 mos naman.  Masaklap nito, my brother has to bury his child on the day of my bro's birthday (May 21).  Sobrang sad ako para sa kanya...

[joey09]

mga sis,[textspeak!] wag na lang natin bigyan ng pressure yung sarili natin na maka buo ng baby.kasi nakaka depress pag every month nagkakaroon tayo diba.siguro gawin na lang natin yung mga dapat and wait na lang.I believe bibigay din sa atin at the right time.

[joey09]

^blighted ovum daw naman yung sken...may narinig din akong strory from a friend naman na, pagkalabas ng baby after ilang seconds wala ng heartbeat.... napakasakit non! Kya nga nagiging positive na lang ako na, khet papano yung sa atin eh maliit pa lang... kesa yung inalagaan mo for 9 months... tapos wala rin pala. And sabi rin ng hubby ko mas gugustuhin na lang daw nya mawala yung baby na yun kesa naman magkaron ng birth defects or magkaron pa kmeng dalawa ng complications.

Yesterday, I was watching this show na yung mother, she's neglecting her 3 year old baby. Di nya nilalabas yung bata... nasa room lang for 20 hours. Then yung window pa naka-covered pa talagang madilim. She didn't change the diapers tapos crackers and soda pa ang pinapakain. Di rin nakakapagsalita kase nga kulang sa human interaction. Ang reason ng nanay, she's lazy daw. Nalungkot ako di lang sa situation ng kid but also ang daming gustong magkaron ng anak na deserving na maging good parent pero di pinalad tapos eto ka may anak pero wala lang.

I know darating ang tamang panahon para saten... kaya lang minsan nakakainip noh... hehe!

un din ang sinabi ni BF mas ok na yung ganun kesa lumabas yung baby na may abnormalities kasi magiging kawawa lang daw sya.masyado nga tlaga risky ang first 3 months.kasi dun pa lang sya nabubuo.

[eihnah]

hi mga sis..

is it possible ba na may uterus na hindi kayang lumaki ang baby sa loob ng 5 months pataas?
na miscarriage ako nung october 28 2009 .. 19 weeks ako nun. hindi malaman bat ng ka gnon. sobrang ingat din ako at walang work.. nasa bahay lang ako. si hubby lahat ang gumagawa ng gawaing bahay. na D & C ako nun. halos 2 months ako dinugo . january 15 2010 dumating na first mens ko.. after nun. ng try na kami ulit.. feb. hindi na ako dinatnan.. tapos ayun. happy ako dahil nalaman ko nabuntis na ako ulit. but sad dahil na miscarriage nanaman ako this MAY 21 2010 lang. at 17 weeks.. at na D & C..
sabi ng OB ko baka nga daw may problem sa uterus dahil hindi kaya lumaki ng 5 months pataas.. lahat naman kasi sinunod ko. sobrang ingat din ako. halos hindi ako umaalis ng bahay..
nalulungkot pa rin ako sa nangyare.sana ngkataon lang ang lahat.
ang tagal namin hinintay ng hubby ko na magkaroon ng baby.7 years and a half na kami magkasama ni hubby. and last year lang ako ng preggy at nawala pa..
after 2 months pinapabalik ako ng OB ko para pa ultrasound daw para ma check [textspeak!] uterus ko kung may problem..
siguro kung mabubuntis ako ulit magpapalit na ako ng OB..

thanks..

[applec16]

^sis, you might have incompetent cervix.  My sis-in-law has that.  Na miscarriage din sya twice at 5 and 6 mos.  Para ma-full term ang pregnancy, dapat, tatahiin ng OB ang cervix para hindi sya bumuka when the baby keeps on growing.  Tatanggalin na lang pag pwede na yung baby lumabas..

[purplelicious]

^ sis, nung tinahi yung sa sis-in-law mo, ok naman sya? hindi ba naging lalong uneasy yung feeling nya? May incompetent cervix din kase ako at yun din advise ng OB ko na once i got pregnant again i have to undergo cervical cerclage..

[mae18]

sis, correction ha , in my own opinion kasi depende sa situation mo if ur cervix is incompetent, meaning bumubuka agad cervix mo pag medyo malaki na yun baby, signs nun is puputok yun panubigan mo, or yun nga dilated agad pero buhay pa ang baby pero later on mamatay since maliit pa nga... my friend has this situation kaya when she got preg nagpatahi muna siya ng pepe niya and ioopen na lang until labor comes...

another issue is kung dead na yun baby inside womb pa lang is either, di kaya isupport ng uterus mo yun papalaki mong placenta, kung  baga nalimit lang siya on that size, kaya di na lalake yun panubigan niya na siyang kinakabuhay nun baby-in this case dead mo na ilalabas yun baby... in this case there are a lot of issues to factor, like APAS, blood clotting and [textspeak!] auto immune disease... dont have any idea how to treat this pero you can ask your OB on these situations.

kung lilipat ka ng OB make sure to bring all you past/pertinent medical records including ultrasound reports of your previous pregnancies...

kasi the OB can compare your ultrasound reports and from their can based whether your baby is growing just right or in time in his/her gestational age...

My experience was i was m/c at 23 weeks and based from my previous ultrasound reports mabagal ang paglaki ng baby ko, and it may be the reason why the heart beat of my  baby stopped, plus my blood clotting.

Now, im pregnant on my 2nd and on my 28th week, and on aspirin, and doing monthly laboratories on my blood, urine and ulratsound to monitor everything.. GOd was good kaya i was able to come onto this 28th week.

Hopefully, it will be on full term...