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rianne_mallows

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Re: Moms of the Childbirth and Child Care Threads - Part 7
« Reply #840 on: April 30, 2011, 11:10:49 pm »
^ sensya na.. hindi kolang maitiis. .haayz.. sakit sa dibdib hanggang ngayon.. ewan ko ba kung bakit may mga ganun..

rianne_mallows

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Re: Moms of the Childbirth and Child Care Threads - Part 7
« Reply #841 on: April 30, 2011, 11:12:32 pm »
yun na nga sis.. nabasa ko na din yang thread na yan before.. ok nga eh.. responsible posters yung before.. ngayon kasi hindi na about being childless ang issue.. child haters na karamihan hays...

emeenem

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Re: Moms of the Childbirth and Child Care Threads - Part 7
« Reply #842 on: April 30, 2011, 11:16:00 pm »
Lisa, nabili ko na from amazon yung dollhouse and a camera case na built. Est delivery date is from may 5 to 10.


yapeegurl

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Re: Moms of the Childbirth and Child Care Threads - Part 7
« Reply #843 on: April 30, 2011, 11:18:46 pm »
halu mommies!!! 6 pages pa backread ko kaya mabilisang reply lang muna..

Ate Luz, nabili ko na ang mouthwash mo :)

Grayce, wala ako makita blue tint na Avent pa.. sa target pa lang ako tumingin.. ang RL na rompers is $15 USD plus tax depende sa design.. ang iba $34.. ito yung sa outlet na 1hr away sa amin.. we're going to another outlet store today and hopefully sa Vegas trip next week.. ok na ba ang prize nun? ang spanx, hindi pa ako nakakacheck.. hindi ko napasok ang Saks yesterday sa sobrang daming mapapasukang stores :D

Wala pang 5 items nabibili ko sa sarili ko.. si bong nag hoard.. ang para kay kyle sandamakmak.. sobrang mura ng sperry as in tuwang tuwa ako.. 4 pairs of sperry for $60.. grabe! lol

Weng, go pa ba sa VS bra mo? I need your size ha..

Re: Spanx, hahanapin ko ito.. next week, thurs/fri ang shopping day namin.. update ko kayo pag meron ako nakita to get your sizes..

marose17

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Re: Moms of the Childbirth and Child Care Threads - Part 7
« Reply #844 on: April 30, 2011, 11:22:50 pm »
Mareng Pia, 4 pairs for $60???  Wow, sobrang find talaga ang Sperry!  Nakakaloka mag-shopping sa outlet.  Mapapa-hoard ka talaga.  Ang pogi ni Kyle siguro.

Mare, may nakita kang black at red na polo shirts na 4T?  Puwede ba akong makipabili?  Kahit anong style, basta yung polo shirt.  Puwedeng yung big pony, puwede rin yung classic.  Wala akong talent sa online shopping.

emeenem

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Re: Moms of the Childbirth and Child Care Threads - Part 7
« Reply #845 on: April 30, 2011, 11:42:15 pm »
Marose, i think kaya traffic around ortigas is because of megamall's 3 day sale.

Hi pia, huwag magpatalo kay hubby ng pinamili! Happy trip!

yapeegurl

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Re: Moms of the Childbirth and Child Care Threads - Part 7
« Reply #846 on: April 30, 2011, 11:47:44 pm »
Yes Marose.. 3 pairs na sperry and 1 stride rite yon. Sulit na sulit! RL pabili mo Tama ba? 4T na polo shirt red and black design. Note ko iyan. Got some din for Kyle na 2 polo and 2 shirts for $92 with tax na.

Grayce pala, dr. Browns mabibili ko iyan. Blue avent, hanap ako. Spanx pending.

May 26 ako dadating Sa pinas :) Sa May 27, Friday free kayo?

Marcia, lol! It's his time to shine daw ngayon. Hahahaha

clueless

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Re: Moms of the Childbirth and Child Care Threads - Part 7
« Reply #847 on: May 01, 2011, 12:01:54 am »
OMG! Nabasa ko yung childless by choice. Nag-post ako don dati kasi totoo naman ayaw ko magka-anak. Pero syempre nung binigyan ako ng anak alangan naman di ko tanggapin diba? So natural, mamahalin ko anak ko. Binigay sa akin eh.

Gusto ko sana mag-comment. Kasi yung si ad something, yung mom, i totally get her point. Pero dati para akong si bubblin. Sa totoo lang, hate ko din ang mga batang magulo pero not to that extent! At sa nanay ako naiinis talaga kasi di madisiplina ang anak. Lagi kong sinasabi dati pag may mga batang ganon bakit pa nag-anak yung mga magulang kung di din kayang alagaan ang anak. Kaya ako now, nahihiya talaga ako pag umiiyak si b. As much as possible, gusto ko behaved talaga siya kasi i was once one of those people who didnt understand moms. Syempre now that i do, i know how hard it can be but i would like to remain sensitive. Others may not like it. After all, if it's a public place, we all have the same right to be there. Pero pag alam kong may hindi makakaintindi, i choose to be the better person at aalis ako kesa maka-inconvenience ng iba. Aypko i-assume that people will understand or will be tolerant. Ayaw ko din na mapilitan sila to be tolerant. Sa lahat kasi ng ayaw ko ay yung unnecessarily nangaabala ng iba. Or yung nage-expect na lahat ng tao maiintindihan ka at all times.

But really, isislid sa sako. Kahit nung ayaw ko magkaanak di ko naisip yan. Ang extent lang na naisip ko non eh bakit hndi pagsabihan ng nanay ang anak. What i dont get is why some people can treat their pets right but not treat kids right.

Marcia, email me please the item names, details, quantity so i can update pobox. If you also have the tracking number na, you can send it to me also.

Pia! Kainggit ang shopping! Ako kahit hindi para sa sarili ko ang binibili ko basta nags-shopping ako, heaven na din! :) Di kami maka decide ng final date for the EB so baka mas ok hintayin ka na lang namin. Pero may 27 friday, may work ako til 11pm. :(

Rianne_mallows, would you like to join us here? :) if so, please give your name and age, child's name and age. :)

Jen, sige. Basta let me know. Di naman kailangan now na but it would be nice kung soon. :) di naman aalis ang box unless sabihin ko i-go na nila. Yung CC sa amazon, one time setup lang yan. Madali naman magsetup ng account don.

Bumili ako ng swim diapers kanina. 795 sa rustans yung pampers splashers na size 3-4, 12 pcs. Sa multiply ba naman 799 tapos plus shipping pa. Bumili din ako sunblock. Ok ba yung baby blanket? Yon yung highest spf na nakita ko eh, 50.

Bumili na din ako ng burts bees lip shimmer. Tinry ko na kanina. Happy ako. 395 isa, sa amazon yung tint na gusto ko eh $9 so ok na ok na ang nabili ko.

Nagpunta din ako sa chanel counter sa rustans. 2250 pala ang pressed powder pero disposable compact. Hmmm. Parang i want. Pag naubos shiseido ko. Hee. Akala ko super mahal. 1800 ang shiseido, konti lang diff.

And hubs sold our 2 ipads yesterday sa officemates niya. Mahal niya nabenta, 20k. Di ko alam bakit may pumatol, siguro kai in-offer niya 6 months to pay. So kanina, bumili na kami ng 2 na ipad2. We both got white. 6 months 0 intest din. Plus samrt covers. Gusto ko sana yung orange but i didnt like the shade when i saw it irl so i got the grey one instead. Using it now. Significant difference ang weight, na notice ko agad.
« Last Edit: May 01, 2011, 12:05:00 am by clueless »

marose17

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Re: Moms of the Childbirth and Child Care Threads - Part 7
« Reply #848 on: May 01, 2011, 12:51:30 am »
Pia, just to clarify ha.  Yung isa, black, yung isa red.  Mickey colors hehe. ;)  4T.

Lisa, ang ganda ng Ipad 2.  Nakita ko na!  At gusto ko ang pink na smart cover, pa-girl! ;D  Pero, last December lang nabili ang Ipad namin kaya wait na lang muna hehe.

simplykristine08

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Re: Moms of the Childbirth and Child Care Threads - Part 7
« Reply #849 on: May 01, 2011, 01:14:35 am »
Pia, lapit na pala uwi mo! Sarap naman ng shopping for K :) next time na ko papabili ha. Wala ng moolah! Lol.

Yesterday pala, nag outing kame kasama ang side nila hubby. Sa laguna lang, swimming sa private pool. Hindi ako prepared as in! Walang sando si K at walang swim pants. Pero pinagswimming pa rin namin sya ng sandali. Naku tuwang tuwa sa tubig. Kaaliw! :)

clueless

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Re: Moms of the Childbirth and Child Care Threads - Part 7
« Reply #850 on: May 01, 2011, 01:29:05 am »
Marose, actually tuwa ako sa ipad2 kasi mas magaan talaga. and aliw yung smart cover. out of stock and pink sa accent micro branch na pinuntahan namin.

gusto ko sana black na ipad with red leather smart cover. kaso no stock ng smart cover. my next choice was the camel leather smart cover sana, may stock naman. kaso i found the white ipad nicer eh di ko nagustuhan white with camel. at namahalan ako sa leather smart cover so opted for the polyurethane na lang. orange sana kaso ayaw ko yung shade.

di talaga kami dapat bibili kasi we said ok naman our ipads now. but when both ipads had buyers na for 20k nga, binenta na ni hubby. got a 16gb wifi only. i have an iphone4 naman so no need for 3g. hubby got 64gb wifi only.

huckleberry

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Re: Moms of the Childbirth and Child Care Threads - Part 7
« Reply #851 on: May 01, 2011, 08:35:31 am »
Hello, hello mommies!!!

Kapagod ang araw na ito! Opening ng little league dito at pinanood namin ang parada kanina. Iba pala ang feeling pag kasali ang anak sa mga ganyan, grabe di ko akalain na pwede pala akong maging stage mom. sobrang sarap ng feeling!! bonus pa na nanalo team ni K, sana magtuloy-tuloy.

Nezs - Dette ang itawag mo sa akin. parang title ng bold movie :)

Lisa - ayaw mo ba yung Clorox wipes ipanlinis s rubber mats? meron din disinfecting wipes ang seventh generation.

Marose - kaming magkakapatid lumaki sa palo ni mommy.  hindi naman kami nagalit sa kanya pero ako mas mahal ko ang dad ko...dati yun ha kasi pag bata syempre naiisip natin na mas mahal tayo ng parent na hindi namamalo kaya mas love din natin sila.  kami rin naman namamalo pag sobra na talaga si K, yung tipong di na madaan sa usap at time out. pero never pa sya nagsabi na he doesn't love or he hates mom/dad.  teka, do you allow your kids to say the word "hate"? ako kasi sinasabihan ko si K na wag sabihin yang word na yan. he could say "I'm not happy with..... or I don't like...." but never say the words hate/angry/mad. masaydo kasing mabigat para sa akin yang word na "hate". kung worried ka na maging mas mahal ka nila kesa kay dad, siguro dapat pareho kayo ng way ng pag-discipline sa kids such that if one of you does not spank, the other should do the same. otherwise magkakaroon talaga ng ill feelings toward the parent na namamalo. 

Grayce - naku...pa-hug nga. nag-alsa balutan din ako with a baby in tow dati at wala talaga ako balak bumalik. ang kaso isinoli ako ng nanay ko.  first 2 years of marriage kasi namin buhay binata sya. as in di nagsasabi na makikipag-inuman at kung ano oras uuwi. ganyan yata talaga ang boys, matagal maka-adjust sa married life. ::)

twelvth_goddess

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Re: Moms of the Childbirth and Child Care Threads - Part 7
« Reply #852 on: May 01, 2011, 10:07:00 am »
Hi ladies! Inactive ako for the past couple of days, sinulit ko lang ang leave ko with hubby and Zoe. Too bad back to work na tomorrow, am sure crayola na naman ako nyan bukas :(

Marose, how are you and hubby na? I dont believe in palo din and ayoko din masanay sa sigaw si Zoe. When I was younger, bihirang-bihira kame mapalo. Pero my brother is sobra kung makapalo to his kids pati asawa nya kaya ang ending, mahilig din manakit yung nephews ko, which is what I really dont like. Sometimes, I get so worried if I will have enough patience and enough will to really discipline Zoe. Minsan kase pag fussy sya and I'm pagod or puyat, naffrustrate ako kagad tapos I feel guilty after. I really hope na mapalaki namin sya ng maayos without spanking.

Regarding the childless thread, I think I've posted there before too. Dati kase hinde pa ko ready to have kids pero gusto ko naman talaga. That time lang, hinde pa ko mature enough and yoko na mabuntis bigla na parang na-hostage lang ako kase magiging wawa lang baby saken kung hinde pa ko emotionally prepared. So when I thought I was ready na, I stopped taking pills na. Yan na si Zoe :)

One thing about me is that hinde ako naturally mahilig sa kids, I mean I like cuddling them pero yung nitty gritty ng taking care of a kid, hinde kase ako patient talaga. Pero nagbago naman yon when Zoe came to our lives. Dati I was scared din na baka boring mom ako kase I dont know how to play with kids pero ngayon kahit ako nagugulat with myself kase marunong naman pala ko ehhehe




simplykristine08

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Re: Moms of the Childbirth and Child Care Threads - Part 7
« Reply #853 on: May 01, 2011, 11:08:39 am »
Hello mommies! :)

Hello Van! Namiss kita :) same tayo, hindi din ako mahilig sa kids talaga. Mahina at maikli din kasi ang pasensya ko. Dati nga, sabi ko baka kaya ang tagal ibigay samin kasi wala akong hilig sa bata. Si hubby ang mahilig sa kids. Pero ngayon, nabago na sya. Iba kasi talaga kapag ikaw na ang magulang.

Re. Palo - hindi ako nasanay na pinapalo kasi lumaki ako sa tita ko. Si mama once or twice ko lang makasama sa isang taon. So hindi nya ako napapalo. As in bihira lang. Alangan naman sa short time na magkasama kame eh papagalitan at papaluin nya pa ako. Nakatikim ako kay papa, kasi talagang namamalo sya using his hand or his belt. Yung mga half siblings ko, sanay sa palo kay papa, mapakamay or belt yan. Nakita ko silang ganyan, kahit sampal nagagawa nya sa mga kapatid ko. Never pa sakin kasi magagalit si mama. Once ako nakatikim kay mama when I was in Japan 3yrs ago ata yun. Gusto kong lumayas at umalis that time dahil nagulat ako. Pinagalitn sya ni stepdad dahil sa ginawa nya. But it's my fault kasi grabe ako sumagot. Spoiled kasi ako sakanila kaya ganun ako. Pero mabait naman ako at love ko pa rin sila sobra :)
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marose17

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Re: Moms of the Childbirth and Child Care Threads - Part 7
« Reply #854 on: May 01, 2011, 11:46:23 am »
huckleberry, I do not even know that Marty knows the word "hate" and its connotations but he said it.  I spoke to him na and hubby spoke to him.  As of yesterday, both son and husband are okay.  I talked to hubby to be more patient and not to resort to such discipline strategy.

Van, iyan nga ang ayaw ko sa spanking and corporal punishment eh.  How can you tell kids not to hurt other people if you hurt them physically by spanking?  I prefer punishment through the withdrawal of privileges, such as no tv or no reading for an hour.  Effective sa kids ko when I ignore them if they're being very naughty.  I just tell beforehand, "you are getting uncontrollable, Mommy won't have it!  Mommy will stop talking to you for a while until you are ready to be quiet." or something like that.

rianne_mallows, muted na si Bubblin'.  Paano naman ang dami niya talagang na-offend na tao by her "isilid sa sako" comment.  Mabuti at ayaw niyang magkaanak kasi potential child abuser siya.

twelvth_goddess

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Re: Moms of the Childbirth and Child Care Threads - Part 7
« Reply #855 on: May 01, 2011, 11:54:26 am »
Marose, that's the kind of discipline that I want to instill on Zoe. Gusto ko kase makita nya that actins have consequences. I'm really praying hard for God's guidance on this. I'm blessed to have a very patient husband, sya talaga ang mas mapasensya samin and maalaga sya sa kids talaga, kahit sa mga nephews nya and sa siblings nya nagmamanifest yon. Sa family nila, hinde din sila laki sa palo, his dad disciplined them by means of taking them to a room and talking to them properly.

Tin, my mom naman is hinde namamalo but masakit magsalita. And for me, mas matagal mag-heal ang words kesa wounds. Ayoko din ng ganong way kase as in masakit sya magsalita masyado. Yan ang pinaka-reason kaya ayoko tumira ng matagal dito samin kase ayoko kalakihan ni Zoe yung sumisigaw and nagsasalita ng hinde maganda.

twelvth_goddess

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Re: Moms of the Childbirth and Child Care Threads - Part 7
« Reply #856 on: May 01, 2011, 12:00:19 pm »
By the way, I bought a Mrs. Pixels photoshoot voucher from Deal Grocer just now. 500 lang for 1 hour photoshoot which includes a CD of all pics taken and an 8x10 print out. Not bad na din considering na 1250 yung original price ng photoshoot.

simplykristine08

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Re: Moms of the Childbirth and Child Care Threads - Part 7
« Reply #857 on: May 01, 2011, 12:00:24 pm »
^ aww, agree ako. Mas matagal nga makalimutan ang words. Si mama nasampal ako dahil oa ako sumagot non. As in nabastos ko sya. And nagsorry ako sakanya and sya din dahil nasaktan nya ko. Until now, naalala ko pa yun pero hindi naman ako galit sakanya. Ako ang masakit magsalita :(

twelvth_goddess

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Re: Moms of the Childbirth and Child Care Threads - Part 7
« Reply #858 on: May 01, 2011, 12:03:42 pm »
^Ako din girl, masakit magsalit especially pag galit na galit na ko. I remember nung early years namin ni hubby, pag galit ako sa kanya (due to kababawan reasons most of the time), mga kung ano-ano talaga sasabihin ko sa kanya just to get his attention kase naiinis ako lalo pag hinde ako pinapatulan. After ko mahimasmasan dun ko mare-realize na masakit pala mga sinabe ko kaya now when I'm really upset, I dont talk muna or I ask him not to talk to me kase ayoko na sya mapagsalitaan. I really hope din na wag mamana ni Zoe saken ang pagka-short tempered ko but I guess it's something I need to work on my own kung ayokong makuha nya dahil for sure mapi-pick up nya yan once na nakita nya saken.

emeenem

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Re: Moms of the Childbirth and Child Care Threads - Part 7
« Reply #859 on: May 01, 2011, 12:21:10 pm »
Marose, marami siguro tayong nag RTM sa kanya.

About the ignoring strategy, ganyan ang style ko. Kaso ang hirap pag nasa public place like sa resto, tapos ayaw kumain ng anak ko tapos iiyak siya. Iniignore ko para alam nya na ayoko nun at pag lalo kong pinapacify, mas lumalakas ang iyak niya. Kaso tulad ng ibang tao sa childless topic, naiirita sila. Nahihiya naman ako pero i need to be consistent as well. How do you deal with that? Syempre people would think na ano ba yang parents na yan hindi sinusuway yung anak niya. Eh yun nga ang strategy ko. Alangan namang iexplain ko pa sa kanila yun.

 

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