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blood_siren

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« Reply #360 on: October 09, 2011, 07:33:47 pm »
^ I'm happy that I was able share with you God's love for us. Let's have Christ in the center of our relationships, the third strand in our cord. :)

A cord of three strands is not quickly torn apart.
(Ecclesiastes 4:12)

Actually I was enlightened but dont know how to go about it!! How to start to make things better. :( :'(

super bratinella

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« Reply #361 on: October 10, 2011, 04:11:16 am »
Praying for your partner in life is really effective, all prayers are effective..when you found your partner make it a point that the relationship will also be a God centered relationship to lock everything.

Very inspiring ang mga words of God and sharing dito, we all sure can continue to learn even to those who already have found their partner in life.

Thanks sa mga sisses natin continue sharing the words of God.

blood_siren

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« Reply #362 on: October 10, 2011, 11:35:21 pm »
There's no hard and fast rule pag dating dyan. It's a relationship kasi so di natin pwede gawan ng step by step process. Although, I believe that the first thing to do is to get to know God through prayers and bible reading. Once you know Him (how majestic, how powerful, how great He is), it's so much easier to trust in Him completely.

Having a "Christ" perspective breaks down a worldly perspective. When we start looking up to Jesus, we begin to see things in a new light. Our mindset will no longer be boxed by our limited human thinking, which is usually focused on the self.

Christ does not promise us a storm-free life, but He does promise us a storm-proof one. Pag dumating ang hardships and broken hearts brought by failed relationships, we have a clearer picture kung ano ba talaga plans Nya for us and kung bakit kailangan mangyari yung mga yon.

In His perfect time, pag ready na tayo and yung partners na nirereserve Nya for us, bibigay Nya sa'tin yung love story na Siya mismo ang sumulat. I believe that a God-written love story is better and sweeter than anything na kaya natin iimagine.

God is a romantic. Pagdating sa love, expert Siya dyan. I always say nga na Siya ang pinakamasugid nating manliligaw. He pursues us until He wins our heart. Di Siya napagod na kumatok ng kumatok sa pinto natin hanggang pagbuksan natin Siya. Dahil sa sobrang pagmamahal Nya sa'tin, kahit na Siya ang King of kings, He lived a life of a poor carpenter and died for us.

Some may find me weird for saying this, pero kinikilig talaga ako kay Jesus. And I trust na He pinili Nyang mabuti kung sino yung para sa akin. :)

Sis,

I really appreciate the great and inspiring words your giving!! I felt the energy and the love you have for GOD and while im reading this posts of your I can feel the passion and intense of your emotion for GOD!!!

I hope I can be like the way you see things!!

Mind if I ask, what church do you go to?

Thanks!!

Frozen Toes

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« Reply #363 on: October 11, 2011, 09:36:13 am »
^ Victory Christian Fellowship (Fort Bonifacio) :)

stameygirl

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« Reply #364 on: October 11, 2011, 10:59:07 am »
^ Where is this in BGC sis?

buchi

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« Reply #365 on: October 11, 2011, 11:47:06 am »
Hi Mga sis... been a while (not really long time) since i was here.
I had to back read and im here.
Thank you Frozen Toes... I am comforted sa mga sinabi mo... I actually felt i had to really break down and cry(i did) over the weekend and i felt some really bad things, and bad feelings get out of me. Nagpakatotoo na rin ako kay God - that i mean, since may relasyon kaming dalawa siguro nagkaroon ako ng mga moments na inaway ko siya. hehe i know he loves me. Naliliwanagan ako.
meron pa akong worries, but i know in time... I can always come back here to reinforce my faith and my trust in him.

I hope God renews me, and the person i love. sana baguhin siya, sana God works in his heart that we may become the person, right for each other. Through God's blessing and help.

Marami akong mga bagay na neglect, nalimutan... while i thought everything was perfect, i prayed for other things... and tama ka... i should never have let that happen... maybe now that we are given second chance, Not anymore...

thank you Sis! Salamat for your genuine concern for us! God works in wonders and he used you to get to most of us here in GT.

Frozen Toes

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« Reply #366 on: October 11, 2011, 03:00:28 pm »
^ Where is this in BGC sis?

Across Market Market and STI. It's the blue EVERY NATION building with fountain outside. Let me know if bibisita ka, I can accompany you. :)

I hope God renews me, and the person i love. sana baguhin siya, sana God works in his heart that we may become the person, right for each other. Through God's blessing and help.

You're welcome. I'm praying with you regarding the above. :)

PINKISS

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« Reply #367 on: October 12, 2011, 10:09:16 am »
Ako, I'm always praying before na sana si ex-boyfriend ko maging kami na ang magkatuluyan. We go to mass together and attended novenas together. Things change, nawalan na siya ng gana to go to church with me pati  novenas. Ang gulo gulo ng relationship namen until recently, I heard na magpapakasal na daw siya just after a week na nag hiwalay kami.

Maybe nung nawala na si God sa relationship namen, nagulo na talaga kami. I just realized it now. Maybe lesson learned na din un for me. I'm praying now to give me the strength to face this obstacle in my life so I can be ready for God's best.
« Last Edit: October 13, 2011, 09:20:21 am by PINKISS »

lesters_gal

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« Reply #368 on: October 13, 2011, 01:06:58 am »
^ While you were praying to God for a partner, did you also ask for more of Him (like a more intimate relationship with God)? Kasi di ba sabi ni Lord, we should seek Him first and everything else will follow. Also, nung naging kayo na nung ex-boyfriend mo, did you continue to pray to God to bless your relationship and to strengthen your commitment to one another?

Sis, baka kasi you were too focused on meeting "the one" that you somehow reduced God to a genie na ibibigay yung gusto mo, forgetting that God also wants a relationship with us. Share ko lang yung verse below:

"Delight yourself in the LORD and He will give you the desires of your heart." (Psalm 37:4)

Continue to pray, sis. If naging second place nga si God sa priorities mo (since your ex-boyfriend took first place), ask for forgiveness. I pray that God reveals to you that His plans are always perfect and we can trust in Him completely. I also pray that He comforts you and guides you as you decide if you're going to take your ex back. God's Love is better than human love, because God is Love Himself. People will fail us, but God is faithful to His promises. In Jeremiah 31:3, the Lord says, "I have loved you with an everlasting love."

wow sis...thanks for sharing this...one year na rin ako nag dadasal for my partner in life...siguro nga same kami ng isang sis natin dito na masyado akong nag focus sa pagdadasal ko for my partner in life kaya till now hindi nya parin binibigay sa akin yung hinihiling ko.


before i finally decided na magbalik loob sa kanya...i was really2x sad for one week..iyak lang ako ng iyak.feeling ko my life is a mess..i was in and out of relationship for a year..some of them are serious..some of them are fling lang.different guys...date dito,date dun...and eventually i got tired na,,,i realized na wala naman patutunguhan lahat...gusto ko yung pang lifetime na.nakakapagod din kasi yung papalit ng lalake....so i ended everything with my boylets..chaka i realized na the more you do bad things lalo lang matatagalan yung pag aantay mo sa matagal mo ng gusto makuha...

now im starting to build my relationship with god....tapos i still continue to ask him na bigyan niya ako ng right guy for me who will love me truly....sana iprepare nya din ako to be the right girl for my the one.....
« Last Edit: October 13, 2011, 02:05:50 am by lesters_gal »

Frozen Toes

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« Reply #369 on: October 13, 2011, 11:26:33 am »
^ Thanks. :)

Actually, I've been praying na sana hindi mafeel ng mga sis natin dito that I'm being self-righteous or preachy. I just want to share lang kasi that how I struggled in the past and how Jesus pulled me through.

It's an overflow of my love for Him. :)

lesters_gal

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« Reply #370 on: October 13, 2011, 03:03:42 pm »
^hi sis..siguro nga u are right about deeper issues kasi ako when my ex bf dumped me i felt like na im not worth it,am i not good enough para iwan niya ako like a hot potato...so pag may nakikila akong mga guys kahit hindi ko naman gusto nakikipag date ako, para lang maipakita sa kanya at sa mundo na hindi lang sha ang guy na magkaka gusto sa akin.... dumating din yung point na im settling for the second best just to have a guy and will take me out for a date..tapos i have a friend pa na parahimahan kami ng boys..my god so funny ngayon naiisip ko natatawa nalang ako...that friend of mine is still on the game..pero ako ayoko na talaga....im not perfect..i have my fair share of mistakes in my past....nagawa ko yung mga bagay na sa tanang buhay ko hindi ko magagawa like pumatol sa much older guy sken  just because i was broken hearted....

its been two weeks na clean living ako,,,meaning no boys talaga.my cousin told me the more daw na nag sesettle ako sa second best mas lalo ko lang pinatatagal ang pag aantay sa tamang lalake para sa akin.....

sis dont think about it na para kang preacher here..you^re just giving us an advice here...and im sure all of our sisters here including me appreciate lahat ng sinasabi mo.

i hope god will accept me again and sana he will renew me and make me a better person....
« Last Edit: October 13, 2011, 06:16:31 pm by lesters_gal »

Frozen Toes

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Re: praying for your partner in life
« Reply #371 on: October 13, 2011, 08:05:21 pm »
^ This is what God says in the Word -- Never will I leave you nor forsake you. Trust Me to take away your heart of stone and put in you a new spirit and a new heart.

Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.
(Deuteronomy 31:6)

I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.
(Ezekiel 36:26)

Anyway, I am so happy for you. :) Sobrang nakakarelate ako sa mga shinare mo. Ganyang ganyan din ako dati before I made the commitment to stay physically and emotionally pure. Before kasi I was like the girlfriend of the world, committed to no one. And I was even proud of it. But then, narealize ko na pag ganun pala, parang nauubos ako as a person. I thought I was well-guarded, I thought I was strong, I thought I was the only one taking and calling the shots. But no, I was unconsciously giving away small pieces of myself pala to people who do not really care about me or my well-being.

Pero I just wanna know ha, how are you going to keep your commitment to wait faithfully for the man God has reserved for you? It's a daily work of faith and we both know we will still be tempted. Share ka naman ng tips mo. I need all the help I can get regarding this matter. :)

carrieso

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« Reply #372 on: October 13, 2011, 08:57:11 pm »
thanks for your promising msg from God...

lesters_gal

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« Reply #373 on: October 13, 2011, 09:34:12 pm »
^naku sis same tayo.girlfriend of the world,but committed to no one..tapos super proud rin ako nun.feeling ko ang haba2x ng hair ko.yun pala mismong sarili ko lang ang sinisira ko. .siguro sis ang tamang gawin natin is kapag my mga guys na umaaligid sa atin tignan natin talaga kung ano yung real intentions nila for us.kasi mararamdaman naman natin yung kapag serious sila or they just want to have sex with us..kapag ganun sis wag na natin ituloy.kasi mas lalo lang tayo masasaktan at mag uumpisa nanaman yung bagay na hindi maganda.tayo kasi mga girls mahina compare sa mga guys.mas mabilis tayo ma-fall sa kanila.kapag na-fall na tayo sa kanila tapos they dont have intentions pala to catch us...

I read in a book na every relationship ends,its one step closer to the right one..feeling ko im getting closer to HIM na.. :)

Frozen Toes

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« Reply #374 on: October 13, 2011, 10:51:39 pm »
^ Yeah, I agree with you. We have to be discerning of someone's intention. I pray that God guides us through this kasi minsan may mga tao talaga na magaling magtago ng totoong motives nila. I believe God honors our commitment and grants us the grace to say No to temptations.

Let's not settle, sabi mo nga sa previous post mo. Let's keep on believing.

^^ You're welcome. Jesus is the Best News I've heard and experienced kaya I can't help but share Him to others. :)

lesters_gal

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« Reply #375 on: October 14, 2011, 05:12:10 pm »
Yeah sis.know our worth..because we deserve the best.lets pray for each other sis ah...you're my prayer buddies now.. :)

carrieso

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« Reply #376 on: October 17, 2011, 07:49:48 pm »
sana makatagpo ka na ng Diyos,,,,

blood_siren

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« Reply #377 on: October 17, 2011, 11:07:55 pm »
lets pray for each other!!hindi ba mas effective kapag madami ang nagdadasal? sana maging happy na tayo lahat mga sissies!!makita na natin un worthy of our love and our match~!!

_katelicious_

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« Reply #378 on: October 25, 2011, 12:38:20 am »
I strongly believe in the power of prayers.  God has been very good to me.  I met the MAN that I think he truly intends to be my partner for the rest of my life.  For the first time in my life, I feel more secure. 

There are challenges and trials that we are going through together since we just opened a new business, pero with God helping us, I know we are on the right track. 

God is really good, I'm sure He has plans for all of us. 

ennaer

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« Reply #379 on: November 01, 2011, 10:16:34 pm »
Sissies,
 
I just want to share this to everyone

My friend once told me to find a guy who will draw me closer to God because he is the one who truly loves me.

Because a guy who loves you will not bring you to harm or will not cause you to sin. He will teach you how to do good and be a righteous woman.

^_^

Good evening everyone.

God bless!

 

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