praying for your partner in life

[Bubblin]

^ desire being the word, siguro wala lang akong real desire to find a partner in life

[lesters_gal]

^^sis rainbow11 ganun ba yun wala ba dapat time frame?kasi ako when I asked sign yung tipong "within this week".LOL.siguro nga dapat be patient nalang.na kay god na yun kung kelan nya ibibigay.

[rainbow11]

^natawa naman ako sa timeframe mo, sis! based on my experience kasi, kahit nag 9-day novena ako, weeks, or months yung answer. depende talaga kung kelan eh. honestly, 1 yr ako nagpray na mag reunite kami ng ex ko. nagkatotoo after 1yr pero less than a week lang kami tumagal. i still feel for him pero ayoko namang masaktan lang na naman ako. i'm still waiting for a sign.. last feb ko pa nga pinagpray eh tapos pina-follow up ko nalang. 

[tough_chic]

hi girls.

you know what, i came back to this thread to check if my post actually went through. :p magulo kasi ang isip ko kanina, actually for the past few days parang unclear ang mga bagay bagay. hindi ko mareconcile eh. last thu i came to this conclusion na i'm still in love with him. but i know na we've gone separate ways already (hindi naging kami, we just dated then biglang nawala but i still get to see him every now and then kasi we're in the same group). I prayed on my way home last thu sabi ko kay God, I know Siya lang ang nakakaalam ng lahat lahat. Kahit ilang beses ko hilingin na sana siya na yun one for me, at sana magkaron ng chance ulit kami but if it's not His will, walang mangyayari that's why I said na kung kami sana just make it happen, but if not, i ask His grace to help me walk away.  Then somebody told me na medyo may pagpsychic naman ang approach (girls dont laugh ha. :p) na if I want something, kelangan ko iclaim na it will happen. parang you have to believe na it will be done. ganun. for a minute eh parang nalokalokahan naman ako sa thought na yun at may I imagine naman ako ng mga kung ano ano (iclaim daw eh lol). tapos naisip ko, parang ang pushy naman. diba parang ang feelingera ko naman na nun. baka lalo lang ako mabaon sa pagkainlove sa kanya kakaimagine ko at kakaclaim ko. so naisip ko why don't I ask God for signs. that's when I visited this thread na. kaso I never had an experience pa with those signs. hindi ako humihingi kasi baka di ko din makita at assumera lang ako.

However, i figured kanina, ang confusing na. lalo ako naguguluhan! I'm used lang to talking to God and letting Him know lahat ng thoughts ko and I leave it up to Him lahat. ang gulo na parang may human intervention pa. baka mamisinterpret ko lang ang mga bagay bagay. so I thought that maybe I should go back to my original plan. to just pray for discernment, to pray na ilead ako ni Lord sa taong nilaan Nya talaga for me. Again, if it's him already, I'm just praying na please make it happen na. If not, help me walk away.

Ayun. what do you think girls?

[lesters_gal]

^sis ganyan din ako.sabi nila don't pray daw for specific person instead pray for the right one.chaka sabi din ng friend ko dapat nga daw talaga kiniclaim na kapag may hinihingi,positive ba.pero the downside is sympre mag eexpect ka nun,tapos kapag hindi naman ibinigay ni god mas disappointing lang.

^^sis rainbow,oo nga feelingera din kasi ako gusto ko mabilisan talaga ang sagot.LOL.ako naman I pray to god kapag binalik nya sa akin yung ex ko meaning he's the one na talaga,yung pang lifetime na.kasi ayoko yung magkakabalikan nga kami tapos in the end maghihiwalay din pala.pero kung hindi nya ibabalik it means hindi talaga sha.and sana he will lead me to find the right one.

Sis anong novena ang dinadasal mo?

[rainbow11]

to sis tough_chic: you're right, confusing talaga kasi mahirap intindihin kung divine intervention ba o human intervention ang mga nangyayari, hehe. pero totoo rin kasi yung idea ng positive thinking. ganyan yung ginawa ko, kaya after a year, bumalik nga siya sa'kin. too bad, i was half-hearted then. yung gusto ko sana pero hesitant pa rin ako nung nangyayari na. pero ngayon, narealize kong mahal ko pa rin pala siya kaya i'll start all over again and try not to doubt it. and just like you, inoffer ko na rin yun kay Lord. feeling ko, di lang talaga time pa.

[lesters_gal]

^well sis,all we have to do is be patient.In his time he will give us the answer that we need.we just hope for the best.

[tough_chic]

please elaborate on the "positive thinking". ayoko naman mastuck up sa kanya na parang malungkot na lang ako araw araw. gusto ko makapagmove forward. gusto ko na magaan lang ang buhay, na open ako sa mga kung ano man ang pwedeng mangyari. pero pano ba maging ganun at the same time, you're praying na its him. yun ang hindi ko mareconcile mga sis. how do you tell God na let His will be done and at the same time praying specifically? or there's no such thing?

pasensya na ha makulit na yata. salamat sa time pagsagot i appreciate ng sobra.

[Bubblin]

^sis,when you told Him "Thy will be done", you shouldn't set a time frame,nor expect your prayer to be answered na it's him nga.just open yourself to possibilities and find new things that will make you happy while waiting for the one for you.kapag sinabing "Thy will be done",si God talaga ang masusunod. kapag sinabi ni God na "no he is not the one for you.move on",at least you can really say to yourself,"yes Lord,Thy will be done".

[tough_chic]

so there's no such thing as praying specifically?

[lesters_gal]

^pwede naman sis.kaya lang we just have to be patient kung kelan nya ibibigay sa atin yung request natin.siguro sis mas maganda wag nalang tayo masyadong mag expect para kung hindi man para sa atin yung request natin,hindi mahirap tanggapin na its really not meant for us and isipin nalang natin that god has better plans for us.

[Bubblin]

you may pray for a specific kind of partner you want, BUT be open that you might meet someone who doesn't have all the qualities you want because God is the only one who knows what is REALLY
good for us.Be open also why God isn't answering your prayers for a partner yet.Siguro gusto Niya na ma-enjoy mo muna ang single life mo,or baka dapat may gawin ka pa para ma-complete ka as an individual

[Joycy]

Nakaka-miss talaga former GT at Gtalkers. Mga sis, please, wag mag text speak at magpost ng mahaba. Masakit sa mata. I-paragraph form para madaling basahin.

But anyways, i remember posting on this same thread i think, almost a year ago. Kakahiwalay ko lang noon and i said to God, "Thy Will Be Done". I didnt actively look for a lovelife. Wala lang. I just went on with my life and enjoy being single.

What do you know? Dumating siya. And as of this moment, i can say na he's perfect. Kaya, i thank God for him. I dont know if he's THE one but it's quickly going there. So mga girls, have faith. =)

[tough_chic]

^wow i'm happy for you sis.

[kikayako]

Sis  lesters_gal, marami akong nababasang posts mo. Parang pareho pala tayo ng pinagdadaanan at mga pinagdadasal. Kaya lang mas okay pa yung nangyari sa inyo ng ex mo kasi nag-cool off muna kayo (nabasa ko sa "Disappearing W/o Any Word" na thread) tapos officially nag-break na. Eh ako bigla na lang iniwan na hindi man lang nagtext o tumawag o nag-message sa FB.

Araw2X kong pinagdadasal na kung hindi babalik sa akin ang ex ko, ibigay na lang yung magiging lifetime partner ko. I'm willing to wait. Dapat lang maging SUPER PATIENT.  I have also completed the 9-day novena to St. Jude. Also, try reading "The Confessions of An Impatient Bride" by Rissa Singson-Kawpeng. 

[kikayako]

Sis rainbow11, ang dami kong natutunan sa'yo. Thanks po! I have also completed the 9-day novena to St. Jude. Dapat nga maging patient lang at wag mag-set ng timeframe. In God's time, mabibigay din ang mga hinihingi ko. 

[lesters_gal]

^talaga sis same tayo?ilang weeks na sha hindi nagpaparamdam?have you tried contacting his friends para tanungin kung kinain na ba ng lupa ang bf mo?LOL

Hay naku sis mag pray nalang tayo darating din yung "the one" para sa atin.ako din yun din ang pinagdadasal ko na ibalik sa akin yung ex ko.pero kung hindi naman nya ibabalik,sana he will lead me to the right one.sis pa post naman ng novena ni st.jude.thanks

[super bratinella]

when I was praying for the partner in life, gabi gabi namin prayer ng anak ko yan, we always prayed for a father for my child and my husband. 

I always pray and now I am married.

[blush_blush]

Ako naman i feel like not so happy with the one i have now, I'm still expecting someone to come, but i just cant leave the person I'm with now.

[kikayako]

Sis lesters_gal, I sent you a PM. Nandun ko na rin na-send yung Novena to St. Jude. I hope you got it.