minumura ba kayo ng gf/bf/wifey/hubby n'yo?

[bellanjelah]

oh yes big time, even infront of so many people. Humiliating and with those scenarios nagkunwari akong di ako yung pinatutungkulan nya, deadma. Mag bf pa lang kami grabe na pagmumura nya s akin as if ive done something bad kahit wala naman, when we're married na he used to say ako daw malas sa buhay nya and that he's not happy, never ko sya inaway and never ako nag mura kasi bata pa ako my aunt used to tell me that if i say something like that mapupunta ako sa hell, yun ang sumiksik sa isip ko though my life has been a lot of hell living with him LOL! but im happy now, after hell laging may heaven naman.Im mura-free na.

[rhamneroj16]

Nope. Never ako minura ng husband ko kahit bf ko palang sya dati. I heard him sometimes when he got mad. but never nya ako minura.

[nicoletta]

My hubby is educated and well mannered, he might say bad words as an expression with other people or mga boy nila sa office.  But never siya nagmura sakin even nung bf/ gf palang kami and now that we are married.

[mameejhy]

Hindi pa naman ako minumura pero sinabihan na ako ng "t****", "walang common sense" at "hindi nag iisip". Last time na sinabihan nya ako ng "t**** ka" eh sumagot ako ng "t**** talaga ako kasi pinakasalan kita".

[aranses]

never. subukan niya murahin ako ibabalik ko sa kanya 

[det060403]

Not at all!
But yeah...sometimes, we do curse (not particularly cursing AT each other though)-- pag nag chuchurva!!! Hahahahahaha :p hehe!

[sugardrop]

^
I consider this an exception, to which he apologizes in advance. Minsan hindi kasi ma-control yung emotions hehe.

Hindi kasi ako palamura na tao (though I grew up with family members saying the PI word like it's part of their daily lives; sabi nila yung mga purong Marikina talaga eh palasabi ng PI) but when I do curse, it only means I am really pissed and upset.

I am also trying to lessen his cursing though it's not directed towards me naman. Medyo nagiging conscious naman sya when I'm around.

[Keiyt]

I'm guilty of this. Especially kapag sobrang pissed ko sa boyfriend ko and nonsense para sa akin yung arguments niya. Pero kailangan ko nang baguhin yon, of course.

[bonita111809]

NEVER, siya sa akin at ako sa kanya, directly or indirectly. kahit nung mag bf/gf pa lang kame never kameng nagmurahan. magandang magsimula ang values ng couples habang mag jowa pa lang kase dadalhin nila yan pag nag-asawa na sila. I had an ex na sobrang palamura at sobrang lutong pa ng mga mura. so yung remorse ko is to fight back so minumura ko rin sya. pero hindi ko dinala yung ugali na yun sa last bf ko, who is my husband now. nagmumura din yung asawa ko pero hindi sa akin o kung mag-aaway kame. we respect each other too much. 

[mineheart]

Never, we respect each other

[janachen]

yeah sa bed..LOL    pero pag regular conversation or 'yong galit sya.. Tahimik lang kami. Hindi nagpapansinan..

[simang]

yeah sa bed..LOL 

so much win!

[nixiquita]

Naku oo, cos nakilala ko siya ng ganun. I actually wanted that kind of guy, palamura. Haha. IDK why. I am din naman, kasi mabarkada ako since bata pa.

But what i hate is when hes really really mad, as in anlutong magmura. Nakakaoffend na. But nagsosorry siya after o pag nahihimasmasan.

Hes aware naman na its not a good trait of his. Nafefeel ko namang hes trying to lessen and control it. Unlike before na wagas magbitaw ng badwords akala mo wala siyang mahuhurt.

Ngayon naguiguilty na siya after, nahihirapan siyang tanggalin totally cos nakasanayan and its who he is. Ako din kasi palamura but in a casual-joking way. Ganon din siya, malala lang pag galit kasi tagos sa buto.

Sa ngayon napapansin kong nababawasan na. Minsan lang kasi i push him to the edge parin sa kakulitan ko so nalolose niya parin temper niya at times. HAHA

Pero okay na sa akin as long as may effort siyang bawasan yun and aware siyang naooffend ako at nagaapologize naman at bumabawi after.

But i doubt if he'll ever get over that habit of his completely, i wouldnt want that as well. Ayaw ko naman magpakasanto siya or plastik at kinikimkim lang lahat sa loob

[bonita111809]

Naku oo, cos nakilala ko siya ng ganun. I actually wanted that kind of guy, palamura. Haha. IDK why. I am din naman, kasi mabarkada ako since bata pa.

But what i hate is when hes really really mad, as in anlutong magmura. Nakakaoffend na. But nagsosorry siya after o pag nahihimasmasan.

Hes aware naman na its not a good trait of his. Nafefeel ko namang hes trying to lessen and control it. Unlike before na wagas magbitaw ng badwords akala mo wala siyang mahuhurt.

Ngayon naguiguilty na siya after, nahihirapan siyang tanggalin totally cos nakasanayan and its who he is. Ako din kasi palamura but in a casual-joking way. Ganon din siya, malala lang pag galit kasi tagos sa buto.

Sa ngayon napapansin kong nababawasan na. Minsan lang kasi i push him to the edge parin sa kakulitan ko so nalolose niya parin temper niya at times. HAHA

Pero okay na sa akin as long as may effort siyang bawasan yun and aware siyang naooffend ako at nagaapologize naman at bumabawi after.

But i doubt if he'll ever get over that habit of his completely, i wouldnt want that as well. Ayaw ko naman magpakasanto siya or plastik at kinikimkim lang lahat sa loob

it's not healthy. pag nawala yang habit na yan, it's not because nagpapaka santo sya o nagiging plastik. it's because he chose not to hurt you. it is true that we shouldn't change our partners but we can bring out the best in him.

nagmumura ako pati ang asawa ko. it's an expression eh. but we never cursed at each other during arguments. it's because we respect each other.

try to change yourself first because while you're still doing it and he is trying to change, babalik at babalik sya sa pagmumura kase naririnig ka din nya. lalo na pag minura mo sya, talagang gaganti sya sayo.

kung may anak kayo, mas lalo kayong magpursige baguhin ang ugali na yan. kaya may mga batang palamura kase naririnig nila sa sariling bahay nila.

[simang]

i rarely hear him curse, and this is mostly a form of expression (lalo na sa trabaho, haha), but he has never directed it to me. well hindi nga kame nag-aaway ng bongga to begin with, haha so wala syang reason na murahin ako, and i don't think it's right to curse or say derogatory words to someone even when you're mad, much more kung partner mo sya. with my ex yan ang lagi ko iniisip, never nya ko minura ever and pag galit na galit ako sa kanya and i'm on the verge of cursing (or even just saying something bad, like wala kang kwenta, you're a mean person, etc) i always remind myself na galit lang ako, and that in reality, he's not that. kaya never ko din sya minura ever. actually, never pa ako nagmura ever.

kung may anak kayo, mas lalo kayong magpursige baguhin ang ugali na yan. kaya may mga batang palamura kase naririnig nila sa sariling bahay nila.

i remember when we were kids everytime na magmumura dad ko, even out of expression lang let's say nanunuod sya ng basketball or something, sasawayin sya ng mom ko. in that environment, we were taught to express our intense feelings without having to say something mean or derogatory especially if directed to another person. kaya hindi din ako naniniwala na because hindi ka nagmumura, is kinikimkim mo yung galit or plastic ka. there are healthier ways to express intense emotions (i wouldn't even call it anger kase i rarely get angry).

[andy126]

pero never ko siya minura. kasi pinalaki ako na hindi palamura. kaya kapag nagmumura na siya, i'll just tell him "watch your mouth..!!

[nicoletta]

In fairness to me, considering I have a violent nature, I don't curse directly at my husband and vice versa. 

[iwannabeasupermodel]

minumura ba kayo ng gf/bf/wifey/hubby n'yo when you fight?

if yes.. ok lang ba sa inyo 'yun?

Nope, di rin kasi siya palamura.

[khaleesiCersei]

never coz i never cus at him as well. kahit nga sabihan ng t**** eh ayoko. for me kasi jan nagsisimula un kawalan ng respeto sa isa't-isa..

[Angelite]

Never. I can't imagine him doing that to me.