Falling for a much Older Guy!

[glowing00]

i'm attracted to older guys kasi they are more mature, may stable career na, and most (not all) are not into playing games, they also knows how to treat a lady well

[audrey932]

hindi naman sobrang tanda. pero mas gusto kong ka on is yung mas ahead saken para matured na magisip. para ok din yung flaw ng ralationship.

[mylene628]

nagkaron ako ng boyfriend na 35 years age gap naming
yung isa naman 10 years
yung isa naman 6 years lang
mas gusto ko mas matanda sakin parang pa baby lang ako. hehe

[friendlyneighbor]

My hubby is 6 years older than me. matanda na ba yun? I think ideal lang yun sa akin. So far, wala naman kaming problema sa tinatawag nilang generation gap. He knows my Backstreet boys and I know his Voltes V. So far, so good naman..

[mysterioza_me]

I don't see any problems falling for a much older guy unless he is taken and/or the feeling is not mutual.

[Mimimeister]

5 years gap, pero he doesn't like me kaya I stopped haha! I like older guys kasi mas matured mag-isip, ayoko ng ka-age ko masyado pang isip bata haha.

[candacena]

I also like older guy.. not like before na mas gusto ko younger which hindi talaga nagwowork kasi parehas kami childish

[mysterioza_me]

Boyfie is 3yrs older than me lang naman pero sobrang bilib ako sa kanya pagdating sa haba ng pasensya sa akin. My sister is 16yrs younger than her husband same with my grandma nung magpakasal sila ng lolo ko. Sobra din topak ng sis ko. Biglang nagwa-walkout pagbadtrip pero super haba din ng pasensya ng BIL ko sa kanya. Pagnagsumbong nga sis ko sa amin mas kinakampihan pa namin BIL ko hahaha. Sa case namin ng grandparents ko lola ko na mas younger ang mahaba ang pasensya sa lolo ko, napaka-strict ng lolo ko.

[charvi08]

I prefer 3-5 older than me...

[cosmochick]

I've dated younger guys and older guys before.. pero my ideal man is at least 8-10 years older than me though I always end up with guys my age and just about 2-3 years older than me.

 

[ficklemind]

when i was younger attracted din ako sa older guys but then I end up with someone only a year older than me. but hinde ko naman naranasan yung pagloloko or isip bata pa (except mahilig siya sa toys until now haha) , He's very responsible from the start, may ambition, disciplined, nakikita kong may future talaga at hinde ako gugutumin hahaha,  ako childish samin, he treats me like a baby din lol (minsan lang namn ayoko din kasi ng pabebe ako lagi, I want him to see me as a strong independent woman  ) Ok din kasi we 'grew up together', nagmature together. From college kids worrying about exams to now adults starting our family and working on our future.

My sister's husband is 7 years older than her, wala! puro sakit ng ulo lang ang dulot niya sa sis ko, kawawa mga pamangkin ko sa kanya,

parents ko naman baligtad, mom ko 8 years older sa dad ko.

friend ko,  9 year older  husband niya. Like ko dynamics nila. I don't see na meron nagaddjust like nagpapakatanda si girl or nagpapabata si guy. Para silang magkaedad. they met naman na they are both working adults na eh.

another friend of mine naman, 15 years older hubby niya. college pa kami then executive position na si guy, My friend never worked after college, binawalan siya, super strict si guy,  happy naman friend ko sa buhay niya ngayon.


I guess it depends pa din sa person.

[missyuko]

I used to have a crush on guys older than me, pero my current bf ako mas matanda ng 1 month sakanya. guess, yung unexpected minsan napupunta sayo hehe

[DeathToMondays]

For those who say that much older guys are mature, you must question why these so-called 'mature' guys would rather play with much younger, inexperienced, and easily impressionable girls than ladies on their level. 

[TysLolakins]

^totally agree with you

[kvandenhaak]

^^That's the $1M question.

[badw33d]

For those who say that much older guys are mature, you must question why these so-called 'mature' guys would rather play with much younger, inexperienced, and easily impressionable girls than ladies on their level.

depends on the age. what are we up to here, girl is 25, guy is 50? then yeah thats a Q. but if its all more like Girl is 30, guy is 37-40, that's alright.

[mysterioza_me]

^are you saying na kung 30-ish na si girl and 37-40 si guy ok lang na lokohin at paglaruan niya si girl?

[badw33d]

^bakit kasi paglalaruan? :-) its a two way anyway, pwede rin naman manggagamit si girl (she thought she's falling in love period, but falling in love with money). so this is broad.

[mysterioza_me]

^Sabi kasi ni sis DeathToMondays why don't we asked these so-called ''mature" guys WOULD RATHER PLAY with young and inexperience girls. Sabi mo naman it depends sa age. Kung 30 na si girl and 37-40 guy, ITS ALRIGHT. Kaya tinanong kita kung porque ba 30 si girl ok lang paglaruan? Kasi yan din ang tanong ko sa sarili ko, na bakit ok lang paglaruan kung 30 na si girl? Ikaw kasi nagsabi na, ITS ALRIGHT.

Irregardles of the age, sex/gender hindi tayo dapat nananakit ng feelings ng tao.

Ang maturity wala sa age lalo na sa mga lalake.  Isang napakagandang ehemplo nyan yung bro ko na tumatandang paurong lol.

[mysterioza_me]

^Yan din actually question ko. Sabi kasi ni sis DeathToMondays na bakit yung so-called "mature" guys WOULD RATHER PLAY with younger and inexperience girls. Sabi mo it depends sa age. If 30 si girl and 37-40 si guy ITS ALRIGHT. Kaya tanong ko bakit ok lang na paglaruan kung 30 na si girl?