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shopaholic_in_rehab

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Re: Using the husband's surname, will you or will you not?
« Reply #80 on: May 21, 2008, 01:39:00 am »
im getting married soon, i'll be using his surname but i wont drop mine, with hypen siguro. sayang kasi surname ko, unique eh atsaka wala ng magtutuloy ng surname namin.

reb_woods072683

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« Reply #81 on: May 23, 2008, 04:40:17 am »
I'm going to use his last name. And maybe, hypen din, kasi magiging maiksi kapag name ko lang at last name niya. Brenda Ong, pero kung kasama last name ko, Brenda Verdida-Ong. Mas cute lang. hehe.

diamondgirl

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« Reply #82 on: May 23, 2008, 08:51:41 am »
Kahit na ano pa ang last name niya I will use it. ;D

paige830

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« Reply #83 on: May 24, 2008, 05:10:20 am »
gusto ko surname ng husband ko... lalo na kung love ko talaga sya. may pagka-submissive kasi akong gf. eh di lalo na pag wife na ko.  ;D pero pag napilitan lang ako sa wedding, ay wala nang palit palit noh   >:(

Jhuryss

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« Reply #84 on: May 24, 2008, 08:53:29 am »
i'll denifitely use his last name. i've never thought of using hypernated kc i have a long first name then both of us have a long last name also. over naman kung mag hypernated p ako db? tamad p naman ako mag sulat.   ;D

besides i'll marry him kc love ko cya and i've accepted everything about him. we'll be one family and start our own so mas prefer ko n same kmi ng hubby and kids ko ng last name. senti ako eh.  ;)

fleeting

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Re: Using the husband's surname, will you or will you not?
« Reply #85 on: May 24, 2008, 09:40:50 am »
i will definitely use my h2b's surname once we tie the knot  :) no hyphens  :)

dheive

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Re: Using the husband's surname, will you or will you not?
« Reply #86 on: May 24, 2008, 02:21:58 pm »
I adapted my hubby's surname, pero now, parang sana na lang hinyphenated ko na lang, since gusto ko sana surname ni Dad ang gamit ko pag naging nurse na ako, its like a thank you thing for my father.

--- mattouch sa iyo father mo if ever :D.. may special reason ka naman pala why you want the hypenated format ... im still single.. pero if ever ill use my husbands surname...
« Last Edit: May 26, 2008, 02:37:45 pm by dheive »

twinkle belle

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Re: Using the husband's surname, will you or will you not?
« Reply #87 on: May 26, 2008, 12:15:31 pm »
hyphenated ako. kasi bunso ako sa family and walang lalaki na kapatid, so walang magke-carry ng surname ni tatay. tribute ko sa kanya iyon.

Happyme

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Re: Using the husband's surname, will you or will you not?
« Reply #88 on: May 27, 2008, 12:33:12 am »
i'm getting married this december and i think i'll be using my surname-his surname.

dheive

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« Reply #89 on: May 27, 2008, 04:03:38 pm »
^^ wow best wishes! :)

gulaysk

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Re: Using the husband's surname, will you or will you not?
« Reply #90 on: May 29, 2008, 06:24:12 pm »
I'm married but I'm not using my hubby's surname. Option ko naman 'yun at mas gusto niya rin na i-retain ko ang surname ko. Natatawa nga mga kapatid ko kung bakit hindi ko pinalitan surname ko.

Mas may dating kasi sa academic circle. Hehe. Isa pa, apat kaming magkakapatid na babae at mukhang ako lang yata ang may balak na i-retain ang surname namin.

pink.butterfly

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« Reply #91 on: May 30, 2008, 08:00:57 am »
I would coz i'm proud and happy to be his. :)
« Last Edit: May 30, 2008, 08:04:50 am by pink.butterfly »

feline13

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« Reply #92 on: May 30, 2008, 08:07:06 am »
i'm using my hubby's lastname.

before him, my ex and i were supposed to get married.
i was thinkin of using "mylastname-hislastname" back then kasi matagal na ko industry naming kilala with my maiden name..

kaso..

now that i married him, my bestfriend, i was thinking, SOBRANG DAMI ng hyphenated dito lately kahit yung mga starting off pa lang sa work.. parang... duh?! wala ng originality.. as in lahat na ng nag ne name change eh hyphenated to the point na i told myself -- what the heck?
i was wanting to be original but i dont think that's what's gonna happen if i join the hyphenated bandwagon.

i told myself --> Bayaan mo silang mahirapan sa kakahanap kung sino yung "bagong" name na yun at kung saan na yung "lumang" name which is me in my maiden name!

i just make it a point to introduce myself sa public by, say, not declining the offer of being a candidate sa Charity Contest ng Mr & Mrs dito sa office para some sort of -- "This is the NEW me -- deal with it" hahahaha..
*oh i got 1st runner up dun sa contest, so brownie points sa biyenan*
and winning sports stuffs dito like our 3K run joined by 500 employess.. so shempre, advertise na naman ang NEW LAST NAME ko.. proud na proud..

i told my hubby na i'm doing this not for myself coz they already know me here sa office -- but i'm doing this for him. for his name. o di ba?
:D

just sharing lang po on how i dealt with lastname change recognition...

alpha_ni_08

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Re: Using the husband's surname, will you or will you not?
« Reply #93 on: May 30, 2008, 01:12:50 pm »
i think i'll use my surname. feeling ko kasi magiging ibang tao na ko pag iba na yung surname :)

virgie16

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Re: Using the husband's surname, will you or will you not?
« Reply #94 on: May 31, 2008, 12:49:44 pm »
im not yet married pero gusto ko mag-hyphen,retain ang surname ko then pati sa knya...as of now ha...kaya lang baka naman masyadong mahaba na eh mahirapan akong magpirma  ;D...i'll just cross the bridge when i get there :D

Eugenie

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« Reply #95 on: June 04, 2008, 02:24:28 pm »
i only 'officially' used my husband's surname when i renewed my passport, 4 years after we got married. 

sabi sa kin sa philippine consulate - "are you sure gusto mo gamitin surname ng hubby mo? di mo na mapapalitan yan."  hehe.  i just smiled at him and said yes i'm sure.  apparently dami pa la silang naeencounter na gusto ibalik yung name sa maiden name bec. of divorce.

i use both my maiden and hubby's surname.  but i didn't change my signature to include his.  nasanay na kasi ko.
« Last Edit: June 04, 2008, 02:29:33 pm by Eugenie »

Idealistic

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Re: Using the husband's surname, will you or will you not?
« Reply #96 on: June 04, 2008, 02:31:50 pm »
I hyphened my husband's last name. So I'm still using my lastname but with him.

I have to use my maiden name because no one knows me by my husband's lastname and when you are dealing with business, if they don't know who you are, who's recommending who, they don't pay attention. After I explained that to my husband, he realized and agreed to it.

Angela_Gayle

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Re: Using the husband's surname, will you or will you not?
« Reply #97 on: June 04, 2008, 06:48:16 pm »
sa mga legal documents like sa sss or tin, pwede ba hyphenated?

deadendgurl

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Re: Using the husband's surname, will you or will you not?
« Reply #98 on: June 08, 2008, 12:43:36 am »
id rather use my husband's surname, for a change  ;)
and parang walang saysay ang marriage kundi mo din
aadopt ang surname nya diba... POV ko lang po  :)

esem717

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Re: Using the husband's surname, will you or will you not?
« Reply #99 on: June 08, 2008, 01:23:30 am »
although my name's sounds better with my maiden name.. i use my husband's... i don't mind.. :)

 

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