How I met my boyfriend/husband

[anirtak127]

We met sa training sa work. That was 2006.

Ang buhay ko dati office - bahay - office - bahay. I have very few guy friends. Bored ako sa buhay ko that time so nag attend ako ng photography workshop before at nagkaron ako ng new sets of friends dun. Nagka-crush ako sa isang guy friend ko sa workshop. I would say close knit group kami that time. As in, kaya siguro nagustuhan ko si guy friend. But then he has plans na mag seaman, maging cruise ship photographer. Kahit na crush na crush ko talaga sya, hindi ako gumawa ng way para malaman nya. Hello, babae ako gusto ko pa din yung lalake ang unang lalapit sakin. Lol. And besides, solve na ako sa idea na masyado syang busy para tuparin ang mga pangarap nya para mapansin nya pa ako.

Solve na din ako sa idea na sige lang, mag aantay lang ako. Without me noticing, my officemate pala was starting to like me. Two years after namin magkakilala, same batch kami, he asked me out. Mega kabado ako kasi wala talaga ako idea. I fell for him na din kasi he's super nice at sobrang talino. Hindi ko sya napapansin dati kasi in a relationship pa sya nung nagstart kami magwork. Naging kami after a year, with a few bumps on the road din. I was 26 then, 2 months shy of my 27th birthday. I just turned 31 this February. He proposed to me last December 31 and we're getting married next year. He's my first boyfriend, btw. :-) Never ko na imagine na sa first job ko pa pala matatagpuan ang first and last love ko.

[angeleigh]

We've been friends/classmates since Grade 4.

[wowry]

I met my hubby in a club where he works as a DJ.

[fleur_de_liz]

naku, medyo mahaba to.
i met my bf sa gym.
we're gym mates.. sa una tinginan at ngitian lang since madalas kami ngkakasabay sa gym then one time lumabas ako ng gym para magpahangin dahil super ang init sa loob then sumunod sya sa'kin then he started talking to me asking for my name, age, and something about me. when he talked to em that time sobrang naging cruch ko agad sya kasi super gwapo pala sya sa malapitan (before kasi hindi ko sya masyadong napapansin dahil magkalayo ang area ng girls sa boys). then kinabukasan nung nagkasabay kami sa gym ulit i tried to go out ulit to see kung susundan nya ulit ako sa labas and yes, he did it again. and again ayun nagkakwentuhan nanaman kami. akala ko nga puro kwentuhan na lang kami kasi he asked me a lot about myself na but he never asked for my # so sabi ko baka hindi ako type kaya i disregard my feelings for him na. then one time he asked me kung nagjojogging daw ako and sabi ko yes, sabi nya sabay daw sya sa akin minsan so sabi ko "bukas magjojog ako, wanna join me?" (actually it was just a test if sasama nga sya then i was shocked na pumayag nga sya. then nung nasa the fort na kami to go jogging bigla naman nag-yaya magcoffee na lang daw kami para makapag-kwentuhan daw kami. so we end up to be in a coffee shop then kwentuhan to the max. i found out na may gf sya for 6 years na so deep inside me it hurts talaga pero i set up na after that meeting iiwasan ko na sya with due respect naman sa gf. he talked a lot about his gf, yun pala rocky relationship na sila. he told me na matagal na nya gustong makipag break sa girl kaso the girl always ask him not to. marami daw gimik si girl para hindi sila magkahiwalay so ako naman naisip ko na baka he's just saying that para maka-score sa'kin kaya after that meeting iniwasan ko na talaga sya. if magkikita kami sa gym hindi ko na sya kinakausap. hindi ko na rin sya pinapansin hanggang one day he talked to me he told me na after the gym eh ihahatid nya daw ako sa bahay namin and may gusto daw syang sabihin sa'kin. i dont know what happened kasi umiiwas na ko sa kanya that time pero pumayag naman ako magpahatid sa kanya. then nung nasa house na kami he told me na nakipag break na daw sya sa gf nya. na-realize nya daw na the relationship wont really work na kasi wala na talagang love. and he admitted na gusto nya na daw ako. matagal nya daw pinag-isipan yun. he thought it was just infatuation pero ilang araw na daw nya daw talaga pinag-isipan and inassss yung nararamdaman nya for me. so ako naman i dont want him to jump from a relationship to another relationship dahil masyado pang fresh so i told him na wag na muna sya manligaw kasi parang hindi maganda tignan tsaka gusto ko maka-sure muna na wala na talaga sila nung girl bago ko sya ientertain.

dumating pa sa point na pinaimbestigahan ako ni girl. pumupunta sa gym si girl and talking to me without my knowledge na sya na pala yung girl na yun. nakuha nya rin yung # and fb account ko at ginugulo ako but of course hindi ko naman pinapatulan. i dont feel any guilt naman kasi alam ko na wala akong ginagawang masama. ginawa ko naman lahat para makaiwas dahil alam kong in relationship ap sila nung time na nagkakilala kami ng bf ko. and siguro naaawa din ako sa girl kaya kahit anong amsasakit an salita ang sinabi nya sa'kin still i manage to control my temper. hanggang sa kinausap na ko ng bf ko. sabi nya he's willing daw na ipaglaban ako and gagawin nya daw lahat para hindi ako guluhin ni girl so what we did is nagkita kita kaming 3 (pero hindi pa kami ni bf nun) and the girl is very eskandalosa. she keeps on shouting and saying bad things to me pero ako tahimik lang. im trying to explain na hindi pa kami ni bf at hindi ko pa sinasagot si bf dahil nga nirerespeto ko na kakabreak lang nila. then the girl keeps on insisting na kami na daw at inagaw ko daw si bf sa kanya. then sumabat an si bf saying na wala daw akong kinalaman sya naging decision nya na magbreak sila. at wala daw akong kasalanan. but syempre dahil galit si girl eh hindi naman sya makikinig sa amin so umalis ako telling them na ayusin an lang nila yung problema nila. i dont care kung magkabalikan sila or what basta ayoko lang madamay sa problema nila. after an hour the girl texted me saying "masaya ka na. ayaw na talaga sa akin ni (name ni bf) at inamin nya na sa'kin na nililigawan ka nya. so masaya ka na sa ginawa mo sa amin?" i didnt reply hinayaan ko na lang then bf went to our house.tinaguan ko sya kasi ayoko na sana sya makausap. he went there ng mga 9pm then pinasabi ko sa mom ko na sabihin na tulog na ko pero narinig ko sya sabi nya na hihintayin nya daw ako magising dahil may importante daw syang sasabihin sa'kin. pinaghintay ko sya dun ng til 12am and naawa naman ako kaya lumabas din ako. he told me na nag-usap na sila ni girl at naayos na daw yung mag dapat ayusin dahil tanggap na ni girl na wala na talaga sila at nanliligaw na nga sa akin si bf.

kinausap ko rin si bf na i will let him be single muna mahirap aksi magdecide ng bigla bigla. sabi ko wag na muna sya manligaw pero he's very persistent.pinakita nya talaga sa akin na decided na talaga sya to have me as his girl kaya after 3 weeks sinagot ko an rin sya. ayoko na rin kasi patagalin kasi mahal ko na rin naman. so far ok naman kami, going strong ang relationship. the girl is nangugulo pa rin sa akin but hinahayaan ko na lang.
nakakapag-taka nga kasi si bf hindi na nya ginugulo pero ako ang ginugulo nya. i told my bf about it and bf told me na wag na lang daw pansinin. bf also asked me to change my # na rin kasi eh changed his na para hindi na rin daw sya macontact ni girl and i think i'll eb changing # na nga.

[sugardrop]

^
I remember your story from the Got Questions Regarding Men thread! Katuwa naman na you ended up as a couple. With a little thorn on the side but manageable.

[Reassesiren]

^^nice sis nabasa ko din yung story mo sa isang thread wow naging kayo na pala. 
sana ako din makilala ko na yung the one hehe

[simang]

^^^oh my goood it's you! i remember your post as well! nakakatuwa! you see, if a guy likes you, you will know, you will not be confused. :-) happy for you sis. sana tuloy tuloy na yan.

[fleur_de_liz]

ay yes it's me. dati confuse pa ko kung like ba nya talaga ko. kasi naman he asked me everything na except my # yun pala may gf kasi sya that time. which is tama naman yung ginawa nya na hindi nya kinuha yung # ko. yun pala kami rin ang magkakatuluyan. sana nga tuloy tuloy na to.

@ simang, i remember you were the one who gave me an advice pa nga kung ano gagawin. actually i follwoed some of gt's advice din kaya we end up together.. thanks for this site talaga.

[simang]

^well baka at that time, nag-aalangan pa sya talaga kase nga he's still with another girl. but i'm happy for you. saktong landi lang sa "wanna join me?" hahaha love it. :-)

[fleur_de_liz]

oo sis.. pero i invited him naman withou any knowledge na may gf sya nun.kasi if i only knew na he's in a relationship then i wouldnt invite him talaga. kaya nga kahit ginugulo ako ng girl hindi ako naguguilty kasi alam kong pinilit ko talagang umiwas at pumasok ako sa buhay ni bf na sinigurado ko muna tlaga na wala na syang sabit.

[simang]

^i mean the saktong landi in a good way. it's a wholesome flirt which drives men more interested in women. see, if you're not shy, and just casual of saying hi or asking him to join you for a jog, you'll know what he's after. hindi ka na magatatanong does he like me, or ngingitian ko ba sya, or whatever. basta. i'm happy you reciprocated his interest, and look at you two now. :-)

[fleur_de_liz]

@simang, yes sis.. im happy nga coz i followed your advices. thanks to you guys..

[dropdeaad]

I met my boyfriend through we chat bigla niya akong inadd so medyo nagkausap kami noon tapos ex niya pala kaschoolmate ko and naging classmate nya din classmate ko so medyo may mutual kaming kakilala tapos nagulat ako noong inaadd niya ako sa IG galing siya sa isang mapulitikong family sa place namin kaya feeling ko mataas na uri ng tao to and after noon hindi na kami nagkausap tapos a month after naisipan ko siyang ichat hanggang sa nagtuloy tuloy na usapan namin at naging textmate na kami. Pinipilit ko pa siyang makipagmeet noon kaso ayaw hindi daw kasi siya sanay at takot but finally pumayag na din siya makipagkita sa akin sa serenitea pa kami noon then mas naging close kami at nagdedate until 3rd meet namin naging MU na kami tapos a week after kami na. Yun almost 7 months na kami ngayon parang magasawa na iba naming pinagdaanan but still okay padin kami

[sweet_cherry]

sa bundok..

[palamig]

nakilala ko si bf online  casual lang lagi yung pag uusap di mo iisiping may interes pala sya sakin saka madalang kami magkausap kasi busy sya nag aasikaso mga papeles nya kasi pasampa na sya ng barko. ang huli naman usap nung nsa airport na sya ng hongkong, gulat pa nga ko wala na pala sya sa pinas kasi nga di naman regular yung pag uusap namin. so yun na alam ko na huli paguusap.  after 1 week tumawag sya sakin madaling araw globe pa nga gamit, kaya pala nakatawag gamit local sim dito kasi nasa tapat daw sila mindoro kaya may signal. ang byahe kasi ng barko nila eh china to australia lang lagi. twice sya nagkakasignal sa tapat ng mindoro at tawi tawi. yung unang tawag nya sakin dun na ko nadale ng da moves nya  . instant naging kami.kilig kilig kami pareho  so far happy naman kami pareho kahit ldr kami. kaya siguro kami nagkakasundo dahil pareho kami ng naranasan saming mga ex. pareho kami pinagtaksilan...actually hindi pa kami nag meet personally maski pareho lang kami taga dito bulacan. pero malapit na sya umuwi,excited na kami pareho...yun lang 

[mirah21]

Meron siyang friend na bumili sakin ng Phone. Medyo matagal ng bumili sakin yun eh, siguro 1 year na nakalipas, then tumawag siya di ko naman sinasagot at di ko kilala at syempre di ako mahilig sumagot ng tawag, ayun dun na nagstart. 

[Keiyt]

I met my boyfriend of 3 years and 4 months from another forum na guys and girls are so witty opinionated much. Haha. Meron doon thread solely for exchanging Globe numbers for single people. So I gave it a shot kasi almost done na ako sa college noon so hindi na super busy and felt na kailangan ko maka-meet ng mga tao, expand my network. Nagmaganda ako nagpa-personal message ako. Dami daming nag message pero some were boring, madali mag give up or maybe pre-occupied. So I posted again, then siya lang of all the people na nagme-message, hiningi number ko pero nagpapatext agad at nakalagay din number niya.

Gabi na when I sent him a text message. Akala ko pa nga security guard siya or nurse kasi night shift daw siya. Yun pala IT person. We constantly exchanged texts, and gusto daw niya ako ma-meet kaso hindi talaga nagkakatagpo schedule namin to meet at TriNoma. We're both from the north.

Then one Saturday night mag club kami ng college friends ko, we first decided to get booze from Central Boni. Lakas ng loob, nagtext ako sa mga katextmates ko if anyone wanted to meet. Turns out na tapos na shift niya noon and papunta rin sila sa Madison Square pero sa ibang inuman. We met and grabe!!! My heart skipped a beat. He's handsome for me. Tuloy tuloy na yon. Sinagot ko siya nung pumunta kami Tagaytay on a day trip (hahaha arte lang) just weeks after we met. Wala ng patumpik tumpik pa.

[LeallianFaye]

I met my boyfriend at my aunt's wedding... actually he saw me. He said from the moment that I got out of the car his world stopped and that he's taken away. He said I passed by him kaso di ko naman sya nakita kasi may hinahanap ako. LOL. Sa church since brides maid ako sa second row ako and sya bestman ng groom { his brother } so, ka row ko din sya. Palagi nya daw akong tinitingnan kaso di nya ko makita ng maayos kasi parehas kaming bulag without our second eyes.  So, yung picture taking na sa church with the bride and the groom tinawag yung brides maid and yung bestman tsaka yung isa pa nilang brother, kami yung magkatabi sa isang side, and he said na tama nga daw na sya maganda daw ako.

After that sa reception ko sya first nakita when he gave his speech to the newly weds, paano ba naman hindi ma-caught ang attention mo may nag-ffrench sa stage with a parisian accent I just shrugged it kasi di ko rin naman maintindihan. After that, lumapit sya sakin and asked if we can have a picture taken together, pumayag naman ako kasi kapatid ng new tito ko and after that lumabas lang kami once kasama ang newly weds parang akala ko get-together ng age group ng brides maid at bestman with them or something, yun pala upon his request na makilala nya pa ako ng personal. Pero at that time we can't be since I was still with my ex of 2 years, and sya had to go back to Paris kasi dun talaga sya nakatira at pinanganak. He waited for a year bago kami mag break ng ex ko before.

so long story short, we're together now for two years and counting and getting married hopefully this year.

[angellouise06]

grade school enemy! bully kasi sya noong grade school kami. after grade school di na kami ulit nagkita till college. same school kami pero di nya ako napapansin kasi di nya na ako maalala. nung magkaroon ng reunion may nagsabi sa kanya na same kami ng school so inutusan sya nung former classmate namin na iabot sa akin yung invitation. nakakatawa kasi di nya talaga ako maalala, 2 beses ko syang dinaan to check kung kilala nya ba ako or hindi. naawa naman ako kasi more than 30 mins na sya naghihintay sa labas ng classroom namin kaya nilapitan ko na. after nun panay tawagan na kami.
to make the story short, we are now married for 5 years with 1 kid. by the way, 14 years na kami as a couple and sya lang ang naging bf ko.

[oshiawase]

I met my boyfriend at my aunt's wedding... actually he saw me. He said from the moment that I got out of the car his world stopped and that he's taken away. He said I passed by him kaso di ko naman sya nakita kasi may hinahanap ako. LOL. Sa church since brides maid ako sa second row ako and sya bestman ng groom { his brother } so, ka row ko din sya. Palagi nya daw akong tinitingnan kaso di nya ko makita ng maayos kasi parehas kaming bulag without our second eyes.  So, yung picture taking na sa church with the bride and the groom tinawag yung brides maid and yung bestman tsaka yung isa pa nilang brother, kami yung magkatabi sa isang side, and he said na tama nga daw na sya maganda daw ako.

After that sa reception ko sya first nakita when he gave his speech to the newly weds, paano ba naman hindi ma-caught ang attention mo may nag-ffrench sa stage with a parisian accent I just shrugged it kasi di ko rin naman maintindihan. After that, lumapit sya sakin and asked if we can have a picture taken together, pumayag naman ako kasi kapatid ng new tito ko and after that lumabas lang kami once kasama ang newly weds parang akala ko get-together ng age group ng brides maid at bestman with them or something, yun pala upon his request na makilala nya pa ako ng personal. Pero at that time we can't be since I was still with my ex of 2 years, and sya had to go back to Paris kasi dun talaga sya nakatira at pinanganak. He waited for a year bago kami mag break ng ex ko before.

so long story short, we're together now for two years and counting and getting married hopefully this year.

Sobrang cute nito!! So, he's pure french? I wish you'd get married soon!