SEX on first meeting

[Pink_Sugar]

^^medyo magkakilala na rin naman pala kau sis. LOL ang naiisip ko ay yung as in first time mo pa lang nakilala.

^paano mo i-check bro? Haha

[mysterioza_me]

^paano mo i-check bro? Haha

Ito din iniisip ko.

[pinkpastels]

Hi! Just want to share, I'm 23 and nbsb, never had ever. Haha. I'm also not used to have guys around me (usually girls lang friends ko), and I think I was born living inside my comfort zone, until this march may nakilala ako online through chat which happened na same city lang din kami. We talked for about 4 months, videocalls and such, and napag-usapan about sex. He knew na I never had any experience before. Napapayag ako sa kanya because I like him. I admit na I also do fall easily, parang I need emotional relationship with someone, pero I'm not finding it naman. It happened na nakilala ko lang sya then yun na. But unfortunately parang hindi naging ganun. When we met on firsthand, we did that. He failed at first kasi nahirapan sya. Then on the second time success na. Haha. One of the reasons din siguro na pumayag ako is I think I was lonely and longing, and he was there. Nung second time we met, I felt na parang hanggang doon lang kami. Ayokong mag-open up pa or magtanong kung ano ba ito kasi obviously parang magegets ko na rin naman ang sagot. Natatakot pa ako na aminin sa kanya yung mga questions and dilemma ko, I'm afraid for what the answers would be. Anyway it was our second time palang so I think it'll take time pa naman for me to be able to figure it out. Any opinion guys?

[shenggai]

Di ko rin maimagine dati na magagawa ko to. Nagabstain pa nga ako ng matagal na panahon dahil ayaw ko kahit andami nito online (active chatter, texter dati) yung iba pa nga nakaclose ko pero hindi talaga ko in sa ganito.

May time pa nga na sobrang hot nung guy, inakit ako. Lol. Nagkakilala kami sa team building (kapatid ng officemate) pero hindi naman kami nagkausap that night. Years after, naging close kami ni gay officemate at nag stay kami ng isa pang gay officemate sa kanila. Ang nagasikaso samin e yung straight kapatid (sa team building). Ayun nagpigil ako dahil ayaw ko ng ganun pag di bf, at years na na walang keme pero bumigay din. At nung nasa banyo na kami sobrang sakit bago ipasok hindi ko tinuloy. Iniwan ko sa banyo. Hehe. Hindi siya counted no?

Anyway, 2 years later, sa galera. Hindi rin planado. Kasi wala namang pakiramdaman na gusto namin isa't isa. Hip hop dancer (ganda ng katawan lol) na nakakwentuhan namin sa bar, yung friend ko at codancer niya ang naglalandian. Ayaw pa nga niya umupo malapit sa amin nung una, ako dedma naseseksihan ako sa kanya pero wala rin akong interes. Nung late na, hinatid nila kami sa room, at pinilit ni codancer na magstay din si hip hop dancer para di siya nagiisa. Nakatulog yung kasama ko at yung codancer ay lumabas magyosi. Etong si hiphop dancer pinatay ilaw, sabay sunggab sa akin. Ilang segundo, wala na ko damit. Una syempre tanggi pa, pero magaling e. Haha. Kaso kahit nageenjoy ako. Ang ginawa ko ni stop ko sa kalagitnaan ng thrusting. Halos nagwrestling pa nga kami (in a sexual way no injuries) kasi sabi ko walang condom! Baka mabuntis ako. Pero ang totoo, takot ako sa sakit. 3mos later nagpacheckup ako for hiv test. Negative. Parang gusto ko tuloy balikan. Ahahaha

Sorry napahaba. Ngayon ko lang nakwento ito hehe

[dismembered]

^ Isa lang masasabi ko. Magaling ka mambitin sis. Lol

[yshmael]

^^ bitin na bitin talaga.. hahaha

[cussler]

pabitin ka shenggai hehe 

[Danicajan26]

Tried SEB. or yung nakameet ko lang online. Well, we chatted for how many days rin and felt comfy later on then decide to meet. Talagang ako pa nauna sa room na pagkikitaan namin ha. At first nakakatakot, but Im so glad I took the risk. (First time ko rin to na experience) And this guy is the soon to be father ng baby ko. I love him and he loved me too. To the extend na we are getting married soon,

[cussler]

i had here on the second meeting... we met online and chatted for almost 3 months before meeting face to face.

[kvandenhaak]

Second date si latest. Still too early but it doesn't seem to affect anything.

[mysterioza_me]

Current bf ko first meeting namin (as bf/gf) sex agad haha. Pero bf ko na siya for 1yr during that time, LDR kasi kami pero kilala namin personally bawat isa kasi magkapitbahay kami.

[Danicajan26]

Tsaka, it depends rin naman sayo kung makikipag sex ka, u should learn to know that person first. Kung sa tingin mo naman eh okay. Edi gora. Its a lot of risk pero at least diba.. 

[wanna_be_mom]

Tried it way back 2012 . we met thru tagged . ayun chat2 text2 at tawagan magdamag .. 1stmeet, kumain tapos inuman at nag roadtrip .after nun we decided na mag motel and pooof it
happened . hehe . and now 5 years na kami .soon to be my husband

[SirChief]

weird nga nung spa. hehe. anyways kung di pa kayo nagmimeet, just give it a try. just a simple meet up. stick to your decision na magdinner then go home after. if something prosper why not spend a couple of hours before going home.

pero weird talaga yung spa. hahaha. di ako makakuha ng logic sa spa on a first meeting. okay pa siguro yung maglakad sa park after ng dinner.

Sorry to drag this topic all the way up from where it belongs.. been catching up on my reading since 2013 ahaha...My advise is...  Its better to date a weird guy whos good looking then a weird guy with no looks at all....

[apocryphos]

I've done it 4 times. Dahil nga sa torpe ako manligaw sa taong nagugustuhan ko, mas active ako sa text, call, and chat. then sa mga textpad clan ko silang lahat nakilala. yung isa seb kmi pero friends with benefits un, mdami sya pinapagawa saking mga dinadaya kong mga files like her grade point average sa school pra makapagwork sya and turns out na naging magbest  friend kmi for 5 years. ngeun may sarili na syang pamilya, 3x may nangyari samin. then yung ex ko last april. mag MU kmi nun then unplanned pero nging first meet first sex nmin then sineryoso ko sya, I gave everything to her, love, care, honestly, loyalty, efforts, and even spent 40k for her dreams then pinagpalit nya ako sa iba last oct., 17x kmi ngsex for 5 months. then after nun nagtextclan ulit ako broken hearted and may nag-approach sakin na single mom, 3 na lalaki plang nakakagalaw sa knya, lht bf nya then inalok nya ako dahil may mga female sex toy vibrators ako, na dual vibrators for gspot and clit and 7 inches vibrator. then may nangyari samin nung unang beses kming nagkita. then nadevelop sya sakin that day yung di ko maibalik yungfeelings nya kc nga broken hearted ako nun, then lagi kmi magkatext for 1 month, hndi ko sya pinapabayaan at iniiwan kpag down nya then inaaway nya rin ako then she cursed me then she decided na itigil na. isang beses yung may nangyari samin. then lastly mga 5x may nangyari samin, single mom din sya, isa lang nakasex nya at yun ay yung tatay ng anak nya and twice lang. 3 years na syang walang sex at napag-usapan nmin na magkita at magsex. unfortunately, nsa ibang lugar na sya ngayon at hndi na babalik pa. Regular na ako ngayon sa work having 30k pesos monthly salary and single. I'm clean ayon sa medical ko hehe. All I want is good company with a girl, have sex frequently, be my gf or wife, spend the time always together, and work. Kung meron man dito na interested sakin, pm nyo lang ako hehe. puwede ring may bayad if u want basta malinis ka. seb, fubu, friends with benefits, gf. 30 years od and below.