Lesson learned after the breakup

[arrabels]

Always trust your gut instinct. Pag nararamdaman mo na may mali, most probably meron talaga.
Never, ever ignore or brush off the red flags. You'll save yourself from a whole lot of heartache.

[ohmygorjosh]

Never give him a second chance. He will not change.

[kvandenhaak]

There are lots of guys out there and most of the time better than your last one.

[Ms. Undecided]

- Pag move on, lakad lang, walang lingunan kasi pag lumingon ka may possibility na may makita ka pang mas magpapasakit sayo.

- If someone doesn't appreciate your presence, make them appreciate your absence. Kita mo, magtataka nalang bigla yun kung bakit di ka na nagpaparamdam but always remember yung first lesson.

- What you don't know won't hurt. Mas mabuti pang wag mo na usisain yung mga bagay bagay na alam mong magpapa-trigger sa galit at luha mo. Wag ka na makibalita kung may bago na siya, focused sa sarili.

- Magpaganda ka para sa sarili mo wag para sa ex mo. Kasi kapag inisip mo na magpapaganda ka para maglaway siya sayo baka madisappoint ka lang. Kasi pag true love na yung bago niya, pwedeng mag-drool siya sayo pero hanggang dun lang yun. Magpaganda para sa sarili hindi para sa iba. Ang pagpapaganda ay isang sign ng pagmamahal sa sarili

[SeraphZP]

Don't trust men

[lonely_dad]

pag gusto makipagkita ulit para makipag sex, wag na wag mong papatusin 

[jelai424]

- Any plan that God is not included in it, it won't be successful. Relationships included.
- Only mature individual can handle mature relationships.
- Don't tolerate flirting, bastos na words and two-timing.
- Don't ignore red flags
- Don't marry the person you doubt.
- If you are not growing, leave.
- You also had a fair share of mistakes, just by being passive
- Years of being together does not really count. Mamili ka number of few years or the rest of your life.
- Everyone is imperfect, just find a person with set of imperfections you can tolerate.
- Love does not keep account of injury.
- Successful relationship consists of 2 forgiving individuals.

[AprilGal26]

I broke up or decided to leave my ex-husband cause I felt like I was verbally abused and he made me feel na I wouldn't get everything that I had before if it wasn't for him. 
So I asked him to leave and just separate ways. I learned after the break up na you only live once (YOLO)
If you're not happy anymore, leave! Never ever let people's opinions control your decisions. Ganon kasi ako nung una. I came from a Christian family, so nung nabuntis ako before marriage, my parents insisted na I have to get married with the guy, although I told them na wag muna. Tapos nung nakikipaghiwalay na ko sa ex-husband ko, gusto nila ayusin pa daw or wag daw maghiwalay (again, morality over my own decision).
Pero hindi na talaga ako nagpaawat. Once in my life, I made a major decision na I am sure I will never regret making
I am at my best.
Do not please other people, cause at the end of the day, hindi sila yung magiging affected sa sadness, hurt and all bad things na mararamdaman mo.

[kaya_3]

* Never believe in all the sweet things he is saying.
* Always do further research about the partner's personality. Do background check. 
* Never believe that they don't have Facebook account.

[Ms. Undecided]

I realized na may bagay na MAS mahalaga sa kanya kesa sakin.

Mas mahal niya motor niya, pakasalan niya Repsol niya.

At nung sinabi niya na mahal pa niya ako pero di na siya msaya, nasabi lang niya yun para di siya guilty sakin. hayyy sana makalimutan ko na siya ..

[ms.bumbay]

Patuloy parin ang buhay . May darating pa na mas deserving talaga.

[piatos]

1. Love yourself - don't abuse yourself.. Dont let yourself down
2. If it is meant to happen, it will be
3. You cannot control everything
4. Accept that sometimes hindi lahat ng ginusto natin ay nakukuha
5. If you want something, go for it. Huwag pabebe.
6. Let go huwag ng ipilit ang sarili at isiksik ang sarili sa taong ayaw na sayo. Hindi ka sardinas, tao ka haha

[tey_roch19]

1. Love yourself - don't abuse yourself.. Dont let yourself down
2. If it is meant to happen, it will be
3. You cannot control everything
4. Accept that sometimes hindi lahat ng ginusto natin ay nakukuha
5. If you want something, go for it. Huwag pabebe.
6. Let go huwag ng ipilit ang sarili at isiksik ang sarili sa taong ayaw na sayo. Hindi ka sardinas, tao ka haha

^ super agree ako dito. i stayed in an abusive relationship tapos sobrang doubtful ako sa sarili ko, sa worth ko sa kanya. Only to find out na sobrang walang kwenta yung lalaking ginugusto ko.