How do you split your time bet. each other’s families during holidays?

[akireyhoj]

ngayon palang pina practice na namin to..
last year we celebrated xmas and new year sa side ni bf. xmas sa side ng mom nya new year sa house nila.

this year dapat sa family ko naman pero since di big deal xmas samin sa xmas kina bf kami sa new year sa side ko naman.

naku naiba ng sched. dapat sa new year sa pampanga kami with my family. kaso ikakasal yung cousin ko ng 30th so we decided na sa xmas eve sa bahay namin with my mom. tapos sa xmas sa mothers side ni bf. sa new year kina bf kami.

next year nalang kami samin pag dumating na daddy ko

[jemster]

this is actually my problem. we got married last October 2012 and so far, wala pa kase kaming bahay since we're saving pa sa panganganak ko next year. Madalas gusto ko dito kami umuuwi sa bahay ng parents ko, though 30 minutes away lang kami sa house naman nila. Hindi kase kami close ng in-laws ko (hindi kami masyado naguusap ng parents nya) kaya gusto ko dito kami sa side ko wherein welcome na welcome sya.

Ang naging set up namin these holidays:

December 24 and 25- sa side ko
Dec 31 (New Year's Eve)- sabi ng parents nya, dun daw kami mag New Year since sa side ko na nag Christmas. Hay, pero sabi ko sa hubby ko dito na lang kami. Pero hindi pa kami nagkakasundo dahil gusto nya don din kami.

Hay mga sis ano kaya pwede ireason out ko sa hubby ko? i'M 8 months preggy din kase kaya tinatamad ako magpalipat lipat.

[cheskacruz]

Kami during Noche Buena and New Year's Eve sa bahay lang kami with the kids. That's our time together as a family because I have work even during holidays and since I can bring my work home, sa bahay ako nagttrabaho while celebrating with my family. On Dec 25 and Jan 1, lunch sa side ko then dinner or afternoon sa side ni hubby. Yun ang set-up namin ever since. We squeeze the 25th and 1st on both sides but buti na lang din yung sa side ng mom ko, palaging Dec. 26 or Jan 2 ang reunion kaya nakakapunta pa rin kami.

[twinnie]

my twins and i spend the christmas week at my parents' house. my husband is on duty during christmas season and he is on break during the new year. so husband could only join us and spend the new year's week with my in-laws naman

[DasmaMama]

Kame ni hubby, since nasa isang condo lang kame at ang family ko dun kame ng christmas and new year. Day After yung time namin sa family nya. Ayaw din naman kasi nilang pumunta sa amin to celebrate.

[twelvth_goddess]

Last Christmas, we spent Christmas eve at our house. I put my foot down na kase on this issue cus the year before that, he promised na we would pass by their house lang for 1-2 hours and go home din. We ended up going home near 12 mn na and I was so pissed. We usually spend Christmas Day with their clan in Binondo naman so I really want na Christmas eve is spent with my family.