HELP: My 13 yr old son has a GF!!

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actually, hindi maganda ang relationship ng hubby at son ko. for 14 years he never really made an effort to be close to him. at the back of my mind, i feel like hindi tatagal ang son ko makasama dad nya for long dito. ewan ko ba, xerox copy niya at walang dapat pagdududa and yet malayo ang loob niya. he says he does not know how to be a father to him since naghiwalay kami for 5 years.

and then this may 2012 for the first time in 5 years my son agreed na pumunta dito for 1 month vacation, para sana makita nya hows life here. then, to make things more complicated, sinaktan ng hubby ko yung son ko over petty things. instead of talking to him, pangaralan at sabihan ng tama eh sinaktan niya so i was so pissed talaga since my hubby and i were on the brink of separating ( which is another story ). and by the way, im separated na to this hubby, he left home 4 days ago - for good. kaya nga now, i really want to get my son para sama sama na talaga kami dito with his baby sister. or i really want to go home nalang sa 'pinas.