I'm close with my immediate family - my mom and my sister and her boyfriend. my younger brother not so. (both yan from my mom na siblings) my step father, mas close pa yung son ko sa kanya. my biological father, im so-so with him, i havent seen him for the last 25 years. pero we always email each other for the last 6 years, first time nga namin magkaron ng call ng father's day. my siblings from my father - my kuya we're close but not the point na i run to him when i have problems, im more closer to my niece na a few years younger than me. my 2 other siblings i have no relationship at all as of the moment, aside sa facebook friend ko yung isa. more on like and comment lang, last year lang kami naging facebook friends haha) father's side of the family - sakto lang, we rarely have get togethers, mostly if there's a balikbayan relative, onti lang kami nasa manila, mostly social media kami. my stepfather's side of the family, i love them, mas feel ko ang love nila for me and my son, but hindi ako mashadong close sa cousins because there's only one na ka-age ko, we are not super close na now since she's overseas but when she's here di pwede di magkita, yung sumunod na sa kanya is ka age na ng sis ko 7 years younger and more na, so di ako makarelate sa trip nila (kinda #tita) na ang dating lol my mom's side of the family, well, there's a few that i love the most, but there's some na diyos ko mahabagin, karma na lang ang inaantay ko sayo. especially this old maid cousin of mine, sorry for the description pero kaya ganun anglife niya kasi ang sama ng ugali niya, ultimo batang walang ginagawa papatulan niya. even my family;s helper na nagwork sa family niya for a year, grabe siniraan niya ng bongga at binasag niya yung tablet na bigay ng mom ko dun.
im more on "water is thicker than blood" mas close ako sa friends ko, mas gusto ko sila kasama mas comfortable ako with them - lalo sa mga best friends/best barkada ko.
but you know when i see my friend's families, i always wish na ganun din ang family ko -- my mom's side #familygoals #cousingoals they're so close knit talaga. ewan ko maybe age gap? both my father's and mom's side of the family puro older sakin mga pinsan ko, nasa middle ako actually. gusto ko yung tipong me get together na masaya lumalabas ganun. wala i dont remember the last time my family has that (mom's side) my papa's lumabas kami recently since my aunt came.
maybe int he future when my siblings has children na, ill make sure na super close sila. but i hope not in the near future hahaha!
