7th birthday na hindi awkward

[Senorita fifi]

Mga sis..help me naman..its my liitle girl's 7th birthday this november 29. I want to make it special for her kayalang mejo awkward if nag party,  my ex will be seeing my family and vice versa..ayoko sana ng may ganong eksena..pano kaya ito mga sis???

[stormy]

Napabasa ako kasi akala ko medyo hawig sa concern ko anyway, sis TS ok naman ang magparty. Or rin magkita ang ex mo at family kasi its not about them. Yun party para sa anak mo. Nasa tamang edad naman na siguro at may urbanidad ang ex mo at pamilya para maging civil sila during the party.

Its about your kid's happiness sis, so dun ka na lang magfocus sa pagpaplano mo. Pwede naman d maging glaring ang presence ng ex mo if wala ng parang debut2x style na may father-daughter dance, tapos sabihan mo na on time dumating para pwede makaupo na d yun may grand entrance pa.

Kausapin mo rin family mo para mas malinaw sa kanila na kagustuhan mo na andun ex mo.

May time naman kasi para sa lahat, pati dramarama ng buhay may tamang oras rin.

Simpleng party lang sis pwede naman maging ispesyal. If gusto ng anak mo na andun both parents nya e yun pa lang gawin mo na andun kayo parehas e special na.

Hindi awkward yan sis good luck sa party preps.

[aquacharly]

It is a numbers game. So tell your family to please, for the sake of your kid, not be rude to your ex. 
For sure, your ex will feel the cold front & keep his distance.

Why don't you tell your ex to bring a male friend, or a member of his family (na relatives na din ng kid mo)

SEÑORITA FIFI, if your kid has been all this time aware of who her pop is -- then, all adults should behave at the party  for her sake.  Explain that to your family. 

May iba pa bang issue, aside from the fact your affair did not end in marriage? 

[Senorita fifi]

we were married sis.....and he is very active in her life...every weekend kinukuha nya daughter nya and may midweek dinner rin sila. my daughter knows his family..kayalang awkard [textspeak!] samin na for example ako makita ko family nya and vice versa....haaaaayyyyyy i know parang selfish kasi we should be thinking of our little girl first..

[k_heart]

Yung isa kong friend, she has a daughter but she did't end up marrying the father. For 7 years, uma -attend kami lagi ng  2 birthday celebrations a year nung kid nya which is also my inaanak. Pareho silang nagbibigay ng bonggang parties yearly. And yes, they are not in good terms.  Parang nabored na nga yung inaanak ko sa mga parties nya, at laging nagpapa talbugan sa mga gifts at yes sa parties. Then sa 8th birthday nya, the kid just wants a simple celebration. Napagod na sya sa mga magulang nya.

[Kady_14]

^ nastress naman ako for the kid.

[eilegna]

^oo nga eh.. best party celebration and gift would be a simple family gathering na complete and no conflict.