Mrs. Kontra

[heavenangels]

Hugs to you sis donya dyosa.. Pray for discernment and may the Lord bless your heart and life. Whenever you need someone to listen to you, we your gt sisters will always be here. God bless!

[Girltalker2]

@donya dyosa, Why hiwalay agad iniisip mo?
Baka mainam to let him know first na punong puno ka na at dapat syang umayos otherwise lalayasan mo na sya. You owe it to him na malaman nya why you're giving up on your marriage. Baka Kasi akala nya he is a great hubby and father, palpak naman. At least magka chance sya to really preserve the marriage kung gusto nya talaga.

[tischarmedlife]

sana naman maayos nyo pa yan sis, sana ma-realize din ni hubby mo yung kulang/ mali sa part nya para di umabot sa hiwalayan. Pero still, good luck sa AU plan mo. Push mo yan, for you and your son

[Chantal89]

donya_dyosa, may I suggest that you remove your signature kasi baka mabasa to ng asawa mo.  This is a personal matter so it would be better to be anonymous

Tama naman sila, hindi habang buhay ang pag abroad.  Some people na nabibigla sa malaking sweldo tend to spend more.  I noticed din during my cruise trips na magastos nga ang mga pinoy and materialistic.  100k to 150k malaki na para sa kanila.  I'm not saying it's small, but it's not that big to splurge on unnecessary things.  Tama naman suggestion mo pero try to be more malambing when you are trying to assert your position as the wife.  Baka iniisip niya pinag aral naman siya ng family niya so nagbabalik lang siguro ng utang na loob.

[imprincessfiona]

^TS ilang years na na kayong kasal?

[freiavida]

Hi Mrs Kontra,

I assume kasal kayo?
I have friends na nagbabarko din asawa nila, and as far as I know dapat mas malaki percentage ng asawa. I think if he respects you as his wife sayo nya padadaanin ang perang bigay niya sa magulang niya, and I think hindi dapat ganun kalaki, na mas malaki pa kesa sayo.
It's not being madamot, every dollar/peso is equivalent to your time away from each other. I think you have a say sa company niya about the allotment. Ganun sa mag asawa diba?
But anyway, give it some time.. Wag ka muna magkokontra masyado, choose your battles dear. Ipunin mo yung perang napupunta sayo, and magtabi ka paunti unti ng para sayo lang without him knowing. For safety net mo yan and it's your right, invest them wisely. Sa tingin ko pag nakababa siya ng barko at nahirapan siyang makasakay ulit makikita niya ang value ng pera na kinikita niya. Madaming nagbabarko na natetengga ng matagal then nagkakautang utang. Then he will know.