Another one of those "Does he like me" thread...

[AnnieC]

Maybe. Maybe not. Basta don't expect. 

[Serena.]

It's too early to tell my dear. But if you like him, i do hope it's mutual! Dont rush things. Nasa "getting to know stage" pa lang kayo. HTH!



xo

[llemija]

take your time sis. just enjoy the moment and get to know him better. it should come from the guy kung ano ba talaga kayo. guys usually like to assure themselves first if they really wanted to pursue you. mga sigurista lang ba hehe

^sis.. help naman. yun nga tama ka it should come from them first. eh sis, yung 5 days na siya di nagpaparamdam? last time we talked eh nung date namin, from then onwards i haven't received any call or text from him. ok naman yung date namin last time. i actually introduced him to my mother (as my mother's request). pero one time i tried to call him and he said that he doesn't have load and i'm not texting him naman daw. eh tinext ko kaya siya 2 consecutive days na "kamusta na? di ka nagpaparamdam, may problem ba?" mga ganung text at missed calls. tapos during the short call i can hear a man's laugh behind his voice (kaibigan niya at yun) after that call, nag back off na muna ako kasi parang ako na ang umeeffort just to get in touch with him.

ano sis gagawin ko? seems i do like him na. thanks!

[heavensent]

^don't text or call him nalang muna, let him initiate na mag communicate..

[llemija]

^ thanks sis. pero until when? ang hirap kasi na nasanay ka na lagi kayo magkausap and stuff then bigla akong i-ha-hang? alam mo yun, push-and-pull technique.

[heavensent]

^until magtext siya, kung hindi na siya mag text then goodbye na siguro yun

[Filipinasadhart]

^until magtext siya, kung hindi na siya mag text then goodbye na siguro yun

Tama sis ...

[llemija]

^ thanks mga sis..

[Girltalker2]

ano sis gagawin ko? seems i do like him na. thanks!

^ thanks sis. pero until when? ang hirap kasi na nasanay ka na lagi kayo magkausap and stuff then bigla akong i-ha-hang? alam mo yun, push-and-pull technique.

ganun naman talaga mga lalaki. kaya the best thing to do is focus on yourself. magpaganda ka at maghanap ka ng ibang diversion.  ibang hobby. tapos makipagdate ka rin sa iba.  kaka turnoff naman, walang pangload pero may pangdate?  he's not worth your time.

[llemija]

^ update lang mga sis:
 wala na po talaga. he didn't call or text. 1 week na nakalipas. ang saddest part pa eh lumagpas ang birthday ko nang hindi niya ko binati. alam niya na b-day ko. pero what he did was he went to our office, just to passed by. i smiled at him and he smiled at me too. ganun lang. i'm waiting for him to make the first move pero walang nangyari eh. ang mahirap lang kasi naka ilang dates na din kami. kumbaga if he doesn't like me sana nung 1st date palang namin eh inayawan niya na ko kaso, sa pag kakaalam ko eh ika-6th date na yon.

during those days na hinihintay ko siya mag move, i asked our messenger kung kilala siya. by the way, he's our boss' grandson. sabi nung messenger, "naku hwag yon, lolokohin ka lang nun. playboy yun. nakita ko kung pano mag trato ng mga babae yon". with those words, i guess. napag laruan nga ako.

[Filipinasadhart]

^ update lang mga sis:
 wala na po talaga. he didn't call or text. 1 week na nakalipas. ang saddest part pa eh lumagpas ang birthday ko nang hindi niya ko binati. alam niya na b-day ko. pero what he did was he went to our office, just to passed by. i smiled at him and he smiled at me too. ganun lang. i'm waiting for him to make the first move pero walang nangyari eh. ang mahirap lang kasi naka ilang dates na din kami. kumbaga if he doesn't like me sana nung 1st date palang namin eh inayawan niya na ko kaso, sa pag kakaalam ko eh ika-6th date na yon.

during those days na hinihintay ko siya mag move, i asked our messenger kung kilala siya. by the way, he's our boss' grandson. sabi nung messenger, "naku hwag yon, lolokohin ka lang nun. playboy yun. nakita ko kung pano mag trato ng mga babae yon". with those words, i guess. napag laruan nga ako.

Hi sis, based sa kwento mo. Well, siguro alam mo na ang sagot. Let go and moved on sis. Deadmahin na lang at kalimutan ang nangyari. Next time be extra careful ha. Move on at magpaganda ka lalo.

[llemija]

^ sis, date lang. oo nga eh. hays.. akala ko love life na.. pero isa lang talaga masasabi ko, basta ako totoo lahat ng pinakita ko.

[Girltalker2]

^ update lang mga sis:
 wala na po talaga. he didn't call or text. 1 week na nakalipas. ang saddest part pa eh lumagpas ang birthday ko nang hindi niya ko binati. alam niya na b-day ko. pero what he did was he went to our office, just to passed by. i smiled at him and he smiled at me too. ganun lang. i'm waiting for him to make the first move pero walang nangyari eh. ang mahirap lang kasi naka ilang dates na din kami. kumbaga if he doesn't like me sana nung 1st date palang namin eh inayawan niya na ko kaso, sa pag kakaalam ko eh ika-6th date na yon.

When a guy asks for a date, I believe there is an initial attraction going on kaya he wants to get to know you more.  Do not misconstrue dating from love.  Most likely wala pa namang "love" na nangyayari.

It is likely na nawala ang feelings nya, or hindi nagbuild up that's why he stopped.  Pero ang mali lang nya, he left you hanging.  He should have been honest from the start, that he is interested in getting to know you.  Maybe you kept him interested until the 6th date.  Baka may nakita syang iba or may nakita syang di nya gusto on the 6th date.  But he should have told you that he thinks that it won't work and he should have at least thanked you for your time - yun ang gentleman. Kaso kung ganyan ganyan lang sya, ay lalong mas ok na wala na sya. Blessing pa nga at least di kayo naging close before you realized na he is a real jerk.

Sis, kakatawa naman, apo pa pala sya ng may ari ng company ninyo tapos wala pangload?  May pangdate pero wala pangload?  It's a lame excuse.

[llemija]

^ thanks sis. grabe, i'm so happy andyan kayo para mag -advice
yun nga sis, kahit nagpaka -gentleman na lang siya sana ok na sa akin or sana man lang eh diniretso na ko kung ayaw na niya kasi mas madali yun kesa ganyan na nangyari.

ayun. it's been a month now. wala na talaga & thankful na din ako kasi mas mahirap siguro kung in love na in love na ako at bigla akong iwan. pero last night, nag text lang siya ng forwarded message. inignore ko nalang.