Resign para magka baby?

[AbsoluteGirl]

Hi mga Sis,
Di ko alam kung may thread na nito.
Sorry kung na doble ko yung thread anyway.
nag plaplano na kami ng asawa ko magkaroon ng baby.
Last year August 2017 na miscarriage ako 10 weeks first baby sana namin tapos nung miscarriage ako nag focus kami sa career namin dalawa para di namin maalala yung nang yari.
This year pinaplano namin ulit magka baby. parehas kaming managerial position sa company.
Need ko ba mag resign para less stress para makabuo kami?
31 years old na ako at ng asawa ko.
Any tips?

[amethyst028]

^yes sis it might help kung mag resign ka, i have friends na ganyan. pag medyo malaki na si baby pwede ka ulit bumalik sa work. kung financially kaya naman na single income why not and kung ang priority niyo talaga is to have child make a sacrifice para mangyari yun.

[naizlabonita]

I think, try nyo muna  gumawa if makabuo and risky ka magbuntis, better resign para di maulit yung miscarriage.. if hinde pa din makabuo after ilang months or years.. siguru helpful na magresign ka na talaga.. I know someone na years na sila nagtatry 27 sila kinasal umabot na 35 na si misis di pa din sila makabuo pareho din silang nasa well known company and in good position until nagdecide magresign si gurl tapos ayon ilan months lang nakabuo sila hindi nila inexpect.. ayon happy sila..

[sparklingjewel]

It really depends on the reason for the fist miscarriage. In my case it went undiagnosed and because it was only a first loss my doctor said, it's probably bad luck with chromosomal defect and we should just try again. But i also led a very unhealthy lifestyle on that pregnancy (abt 13-16 hr workdays, 4-5 hrs sleep, bad diet) and I resigned voluntarily to focus on our plans. I got pregnant within 2 weeks of getting my period back after D&C, and im now currently 5.5 months pregnant, no complications at all. Im not planning to return to working until my baby reaches at least 6 months old (also so we dont need to bother looking for a yaya who can be trusted with a newborn).

For others, pag multiple losses na and they are diagnosed with disorders such as PCOS, APAS etc then it makes sense to treat those disorders first before trying again. Most carry on working even during treatment kung alam nilang namamanage well yung pregnancy.

For me if super maselan ka magbuntis, you guys have enough savings and bearing a child is really the priority asap, then it may make sense to take a sabbatical. But for most, earning is still a major factor kasi, and baka naman may solution yung difficulty conceiving medically.