Out of my/your league

[annd]

Have you ever dated someone who is out of your league?

Ako kasi.. Well. Since ako naman nagstart ng topic. Meron ako nakadate na guy and i think he's out of my league. The reason why i think na ganun kasi.. Ang gwapo niya, mataas position sa company (to think na mas mababa ako ng level sa kanya, mga 2 ranks, isang department lang hawak ko, siya may isang buong business unit at 3 department), mabait, mayaman, malinis tignan, sobrang humble, magaling sa work and down to earth (again). Lahat lahat na ata na sa kanya. He's really kind, wala ako masabi na masama. Pero ayun, friends lang kami. Haha pagnagdadate kami or dinner na kaming dalawa lang, sobrang saya ko kasi feeling ko ang swerte swerte ko na of all people e ako ang niyaya na magdate. Hahaha pero.. Hindi ko naman iniisip na magiging boyfriend ko siya kasi parang napakaout of my league. Tipong heaven siya, ako malalim pa sa lupa. Pero if there's someone na i really looked up to, its him. He has my respect. Sa trabaho, sa mga payo niya sa akin tungkol sa buhay, hands down ako. So feeling ko, out of my league talaga kung magiging gf ako. (Assuming lang) kasi feeling ko mas bagay sa kanya yung maganda din, sexy, katulad niya, kalevel niya. Ganun.

[simang]

A lot of times I feel like my husband is way out of my league, and the funny thing is he feels naman that I'm out of his league. Haha. Nakakatawa diba? Feeling ko sobrang bait and sweet and good looking and adorable nya for me, sya naman feeling nya i'm ahead of him career/personality-wise. Pero we jive. Nagkakasundo kami on most things, and most especially, parehas kami ng mga trip and goals sa buhay.

As for your situation, don't overthink things. Lalo na he hasn't expressed his intentions pa naman (?). Just enjoy the company, get to know the person first, and of course get to know yourself kung ano ba talagang gusto mo. My ex was wayyy out of my league and he wasn't very humble about it lol he was the type of guy na iaadmire mo talaga from afar but nung naging kami na, he wasn't the very best partner to have. Alam mo yung type of person na perfect on paper. I think that's how you see this guy you're 'dating'. Give yourself time to know him better. Enjoy mo lang muna ngayon. Wag mo munang isipin yung mga problemang wala pa naman and hindi pa naman nangyayari. And if you become his girlfriend eventually, does it matter if he's out of your league? Aren't you the lucky one?

[annd]

^ I actually dont think na magiging kami pero kung sa totoong buhay, hindi naman ako nag ooverthink kasi feeling ko friends lang naman talaga and we enjoy each other's company. Pero natawa lang siya one time sa sinabi ko na "how can you be so kind, so smart and really gwapo at the same time?" Natawa lang siya kasi sabi niya never daw niya narinig yun sa iba kahit sa exgf niya before. Sabi ko totoo naman. Hindi naman ako nagsasalita kasi boss siya ganun ibang iba kami ng department tho we work in one company pero hindi same department and business unit so iba talaga yung work namin. Baka kasi sabihin e may conflict of interest. And yeah, kahit feeling ko out of my league never ako una nagtext or nagayaya lumabas sa kanya. But i think we are good friends. Outside office kasi hindi na namin pinag uusapan masyado yung work. Sometimes inthink he's gay (?) pero impossible e. Wala ako makitang sign unless gagawin kong oa yung kwento. Haha

[junetwentythree]

^ Just curious. So are you dating him or not? Or just hanging out as friends?

[ohcmon]

TS, nabasa ko rin thread mo sa PEx. Hindi ka pa talaga naniwala sa'min dun e 'no?

[mooncake and leaves]

^ hindi daw kayo reliable. Jk. 😅

[annd]

Hindi pa 😬 Need ko pa ng second opinion hahaha

[yannuh]

^haha super kilig mo sa kanya sis pero agree ako kay sis simang, enjoyin nyo muna company ng isa't isa. tas saka na tayo magdecide pag tinatanong ka na nya talaga haha :p

[j.adore]

Sabi that's just personal insecurities getting in the way.. Just enjoy his company and instead of thinking he's out of your league, emulate him like a role model to improve yourself.

[ohcmon]

Hindi pa 😬 Need ko pa ng second opinion hahaha

Sige lang sis. Basta pag nagpost ka dito o sa PEx na na-hurt ka niya, ako talaga unang-unang boboljak sa'yo.

[amethyst028]

hindi ako naniniwala diyan sa out of my league na yan. makukuha mo kung sinong gusto mo basta isipin mo lang na worth it ka. that you deserve the best. bakit ba?

pero @TS kung you are hanging out and friendly date siya don't expect too much nga. unless of course he is being romantic then maybe there is something there. as they say, it's lonely at the top. baka naghahanap siya ng companion and you happen to be available. enjoy mo lang and don't think too much. huwag maging nega. huwag mo i-down sarili mo. isipin mo na lang swerte siya kasi binibgyan mo siya ng time mo.

[im fine!]

Sa love wala na sigurong 'out of my league' na drama ☺.  Enjoy mo lang yan sis. Dont expect too much.
May ex ako, sobrang layo ng agwat. Parang langit at lupa lang ang drama lol.
Kaya just enjoy the moment sis.