stuck up on his past

[nahjo]

my bf and i are 5 months and still counting, no worst fights have been made..... a guy that i think i could consider myself as a lucky one..... one thing, i dont understand, one day i had a chance to browse his cellfone and look up to his photos,,,, he still have the photos of him and his ex gf....and being the present we dont have a any photo together on his fone.... and then i asked him why,,, he answered me in a nice way that he want to prove something else to his ex, and when the day comes he would still remembered the girl that gave him so much pain before... he says he wants revenge..and he's going to delete it in time.. i cant take it anymore so ive deleted the pictures myself... am i too mean?

[engr_neechee]

you are not mean....

and i don't think his explanation is valid.

just a warning:  make sure break na talaga sila.  Maraming ganyan ang nafifind out na sila pala ang "number 2."

[pret_ty68]

^^
Sis, From your post parang ginagawa ka nyang rebound girl it seems that he is using you para maghiganti sa ex nya which is not good. Consider if you want to go on with this kind of  relationship baka kasi masaktan ka lang pag tumagal.

[lovely_carrot]

Sadly panakip butas ka lang sis. A guy who's totally into his new GF will not have pictures of his EX. Remember, pag may hate, may love pa yan.

Mahirap naman talaga makipaghiwalay on the basis of those pictures lang but I'm in my 30s now, and I know better so kung ako nasa sitwasyon mo, I'd break up with him, I believe I deserve someone who will love me for me, yung walang ka-share. Regardless kung gaano ko na sya kamahal sa loob ng 5 months, if he's still hung up on his EX, goodbye na.

[Girltalker2]

TS, parang di pa nya na-get over ang GF nya kasi bitter pa sya.

Di ba dapat masaya sya with you and yun lang. At wala na sya dapat inaatupag about his ex or what?  Parang hindi pa sya over sa ex GF nya at gusto pa nya gumanti.

[Aries Chiq]

Hindi ka mean girl pero mali sa part ni guy kasi siya ang dapat nagbura non sa sarili niya kung nirerespeto ka niya. Maiintindihan ko pa if sa FB eh kasi mas madaming pwedeng maging reason either walang time mag.fb pero to think na sa phone pa niya what d hell? Yung reason din niya hindi valid. Paselosin? eh baka naman nagkikita pa sila nyan ng ex nya tapos pag kinukuha ng ex nya [textspeak!] fone pinapakita niyang wala pa syang iba. tssss

[aquacharly]

Illogical, if  she's the ex, but her photos are in his cell.
More so, since there are no photos of you therein, though it's been 5 months.
Scary:  he wants revenge -- using you?  What happens when she tries to get him back? 

Something's fishy.  Be wary. 

[alice_alice]

It looks like your bf is still not over his ex, just the thought of him wanting revenge it means na may tama pa rin siya sa exgf niya because if he really loves you or is serious about you di na dapat siya nagsasave ng pics sa cp niya and why the need to prove somethingg sa exgf? What for? Their relationship is over.

[romantico]

His reason is not valid and a bit alarming. 1st, he's like saying that he's not over his ex because if he did then he won't be thinking about revenge anymore and the pain she caused him won't matter anymore because you're here. 2nd, he's like saying he is using you only as a weapon to seek revenge on his ex and doesn't see you as someone special. Make sure hindi na sila ng ex niya or cool off but most of all make sure hindi ka panakip butas.

[cavitekrung]

break na yan. wala namang kwenta

[vermich]

TS he isn't over his ex. Ano pa ba dapat i-prove nya sa ex nya? Dahil ba sinabihan syang "Hindi ka na makakatagpo ng babeng katulad ko?" -- which is dapat good kasi may dahilan bakit hindi na sila.

I would agree on most of the people here saying na rebound gf ka, unfortunately ganun rin nakikita ko.

[estelle21]

ano  na kaya nangyari kay sis nahjo?


same nga rin sa kanila. ginagawa ka ata rebound.

2 lang yan sa tingin ko.

1. magbi-break kayo kasi di pa sya over kay EX. (napaka insensitive nya para sabihin sayo yon ha, na mag rerevenge sya etc.)
2. magwo-work yung rebound relationship nyo - if ma pupurge na nya bitter feelings sa ex nya.