Boys Who Are Left-brained/Logical Thinkers

[smiles_alwayz]

Hi girls/guys,

im currently with someone who is very intellectual and logical when it comes to decisions and other things.

he is in his late 30's. hindi sya seloso, ayaw nya din ng selosa. according to him, he has never cheated. once nakapag-decide na sya, its final.

me on the other hand, is on the opposite side. logical and practical thinker ako kung single ako.... but once im on a relationship, i get emotional.

how do you deal with a guys like him?

[amethyst028]

^the reality is men are logical and women are emotional in general. that's just the way we are wired as species. i've been reading a lot about the differences between men and women, and about understanding men. the key to getting along is accepting that we are different.

accepting the fact that they are like that and we are like this can do wonders sa relationship. no more trying to change the other person and getting frustrated or fighting about issues na hindi rin ma resolve kahit anong gawin.

just do you and let him be him. then if he does something that you don't like kung kaya mo palagpasin let it go na. pick your battles. sometimes guys do stuff na nakaka affect satin like being insensitive or inconsiderate but they don't mean it. they are not really focused on the details or on the little things. unlike us we scrutinize every tiny detail that they say or does.