Naughty ba talaga ang mga lalaki?

[Dyesabel]

Hello,

I just want to know your opinion, guys' POV are also very welcome.

Is it ok for a guy with a girlfriend to have porn pictures in their phones? And to like fb pages of girls na really pretty, tipong pang model ang ang mga itsura.

Nakakita ako ng ganun sa phone ni bf dati.  Syempre I felt uncomfortable and unsecured after.  Feeling ko, hindi na siguro sya nagagandahan/naseseksihan sa akin or what kaya natingin sya sa iba.  Sinabi ko yun sa kanya, nagsorry naman sya and sabi nya, kapag natingin daw sya sa mga girls na yun, ang naiisip nya ay ako.

Hindi naman sya ganun dati (or hindi ko lang napansin).  Pero feeling ko nagstart yun nung naging friends nya yung mga friends nya ngayon.  Medyo pilyo kasi yung mga friends nyang yun.  Minsan nabanggit sa akin ni bf na pag magkakasama sila, nagtitingin sila ng fb pages ng mga girls.  Nung isang araw, nung hiniram ko yung phone nya, nakakita na naman ako ng pictures ng sexy girls.  Galing dun sa group chat message nila sa viber ng mga kaibigan nya. Yung isa nga nyang friend may girlfriend na din, pero nakwento ni bf sa akin na yung friend nyang yun ay may crush sa office nila.  So nagtanong ako, "ikaw, may crush ka din ba sa office nyo?".  Sabi naman nya wala.

Infairness naman kay boyfriend, hanggang tingin lang naman sya ng pictures at like/follow ng page sa fb.  Wala pa naman akong nakitang nag-pm sya sa sa kahit sinong girl na yun. And he still makes me feel loved.

Ayun, bad influence ba mga friends nya? O normal na yun ng mga boys?

(Di po ako maka-reply kaya dito na lang, bf is 25, i am 24..first bg-gf namin ang isa't isa..since 4th yr hs pa kami)

[Pink_Sugar]

^teenager lang ang peg ni bf sis?

[ohcmon]

^ Lol natawa 'ko. Oo nga, ilang taon na ba BF mo TS? Bakit parang sabik pa rin sa babae? Haha

[ashley_0713]

^remember girls LIFE BEGINS AT 40 hahahaha

[honey.mae]

most oo sis

[TomHansen]

Is it ok for a guy with a girlfriend to have porn pictures in their phones? And to like fb pages of girls na really pretty, tipong pang model ang ang mga itsura.
No, this is a part of respecting your gf kahit personal gamit niya yung phone niya.. You should always be the cutest/most beautiful person for him.. Common sense na dapat sa kanya na hindi mo magugustuhan yung ginagawa niya..

Sinabi ko yun sa kanya, nagsorry naman sya and sabi nya, kapag natingin daw sya sa mga girls na yun, ang naiisip nya ay ako.
Sis I hope hindi ka naniwala sa sinabi niyang yun sobrang hindi totoo yan.. Papaano ka niya maiisip kung ibang tao tinitignan niya.. Why would he even look at other womens' pics kung ikaw din ang maiisip niya - e di pic mo na lang tignan niya..

Infairness naman kay boyfriend, hanggang tingin lang naman sya ng pictures at like/follow ng page sa fb.  Wala pa naman akong nakitang nag-pm sya sa sa kahit sinong girl na yun. And he still makes me feel loved.
This maybe true but then again if you're not comfortable with what he's doing sabihin mo stop na niya, it's your right as a gf and what he's doing is really disrespectful sayo at sa family mo...

Ayun, bad influence ba mga friends nya? O normal na yun ng mga boys?
Yes bad influence yung mga friends niya but it's still your bf's decision kung gagayahin niya mga ginagawa nila,.. Gaya ng sabi ng ibang mga ka-sis natin astang teenager si bf mo - paalala mo sa kanya na matanda na siya..

Again, what he's doing is disrespectful - if hinayaan mo siya ngayon gawin yan ano pa mga kaya niyang gawin in the future dahil hindi niya inaalala ang mararamdaman mo?

[sarsingkit]

I would say I am fine with it.  But that is me and you are you. If you are not comfortable with you bf doing this, then let him know sincerely.

The office crush, I don't know what to say. Hubby never had one as far as I know. Plus his friends think I'm the coolest wife. They went for a boys night out at Hooters, invited ako. 

[cruxito]

sis bakit hindi tayo mag experiment? *idk if your cool with this... or baka makasira ng image mo...

first hanap ka din ng pics ng mga lalaki then save mosa phone mo....

then mag like ka din ng mga hunks FB page...

test natin ano reaction ni BF? then the feeling is mutual

[three8one]

TS, in general mostly ng mga lalake may kanya kanyang fantasies yan but it doesn't mean na yung respeto at love nya sayo eh nawawala/nawala na. likas lang talaga sa mga lalake na may tinatagong may maduming pagiisip. hehe! pero kung iapply nya yun fantasies nyang yun sa ibang babae well yun ang big no dun..cheating na yun.

gaano na ba kayo katagal ng bf mo nga ulit? almost 10 years? maiksi pa yan kung tutuusin. kasi kung kayo magkakatuluyan for life ang pagsasama nyo and yung mga fantasies nyang yun ay malaki ang maitutulong para makapag add ng  spice sa relasyon nyo.

 

[Serena.]

Men are visual. But i dont think that's okay for you to feel that way. I dont think he'd like that too if u do that to him. May girlfriend na sya, wag na syang lumapit sa tukso, period. That's okay pero wag na yung nalalaman mo pa coz we tend to have insecurities from that.

[deiz]

Guys watch porn, its a know fact. Ang hindi nga lang tama ay yung naka save sa cellphone nya ay mga pictures. Pwede pa siguro kung videos na naka-secret folder para hindi naman kita agad nga makikigamit ng phone nya. Medyo lantaran naman yata yan.

Don't feel insecure, its normal for them to like looking at that pero hindi naman ganyan ka-garapal. Pagsabihan mo na lang na itago nya para walang ibang makakita at kung pwede wag yung makikita mo lagi kasi in fairness masakit din sa atin yan.

[jtansanco]

I'll make it swift, the answer is yes.

Men have a "thing" that becomes hard and only guys would understand the feeling of having a hardened "thing". 

[imyourangel]

It's OK for me, GIVEN that bf asks permission from me first.

He has videos in his laptop now, and that's because we downloaded that together.
But for sexy pictures of other women, wala siya nun.

[commish]

i think eto yung mga bagay that doesnt have to be taken in general. its like "all girls like stilettos" which is alam naman nating iba iba preference.

so in regards to that, kanya kanya din ang fetish ng lalaki. most of the time din, tong mga fetish na to comes through phases. in short, maexperience lang nawawala din, kaya rin siguro sinasabi nya na hanggang  tingin lang sya. i said MOST but its BETTER to ask your bf frankly bout his fetish dun mo rin naman kasi malalaman. awkward but its healthy IMO. sa pagtatanong, simplehan mo lang, wag yung vulgar kasi malamang di ka sasagutin nyan. yung mga questions, yung tipong "boob guy ka ba or ass girl?"(kuha ka question sa sex thread dito haha), or pahagingan mo na rin na "sana phase lang yang stage na yan" i guess those questions would start the convo na from him.

Hello,

Ayun, bad influence ba mga friends nya? O normal na yun ng mga boys?

(Di po ako maka-reply kaya dito na lang, bf is 25, i am 24..first bg-gf namin ang isa't isa..since 4th yr hs pa kami)

hmmm.. ikaw ba hindi ka nagfa-fantasize sa mga "eat tons of tuna" abs models, "gluta overinfused" commercial guys and "rock-star badboy but always crying" telenovela/movie leading men? or kung sino sino pang celebrity dyan?

bottomline is, understand that your boyfriends has his own individuality. ang definition naman ng abnormal is anything in excess or in lack that disrupts functioning and disrupts the people around you. kung may mga porn sya pero in moderation, nacocontrol, di nya pinapagawa sayo yung mga ayaw mo. hindi rin sya nagkakalat. may oras sya sayo at nagagawa nya obligasyon nya as a bf to you at maayos sya nakikisama sa mga taong nakapaligid sa kanya. then why be bothered?

reminder lang, you are his girlfriend not his guardian nor parents. dont control or set standards to him na "dont do that", "do only this" nor do an even greater evil of comparing him to others "kasi ganito yung ibang guy" (di ka makukuntento sa ganun, pramis).your role is to be his partner not his moral mentor. excercising that also exercises your temperament. ikaw din malalaman mo in the process kung ano yung ayaw mo, alin yung acceptable para sa iyo etc. also in the process youd learn how to communicate and approach him lalo na pag ang topic is about sex and fetish. important yang matuto kang iopen yan and yung alam din nyang open sya magsabi sa iyo ng mga ganyan, partners kayo di ba? 

[amethyst028]

@TS para sa akin let him be. don't check his phone, computer, fb etc. give him his privacy as you would want to have your own privacy. as long as he is faithful to you and it is not harming your relationship let it be.

not everything is about you and your relationship. sometimes it's just a guy thing. we will not always understand their ways but it is how they are wired. just as they will never understand why we girls do what we do. let's learn to accept our difference. siguro pag bata ka pa madaming bagay ang big deal sayo lalo na sa relationsip. but when you get older you will realize that those things are too petty. don't sweat it. just be confident with yourself.

[red_yesha]

Naughty ba talaga ang mga lalaki?
Oo naman!! haha