Should I be worried? Need as much comments/advice/reaction

[ymgsiri]

Thanks ms. cacao.. I'll take note of that... I guess I overreact when I saw it. Dati naman kase nung hindi kame kasal I let him do what he wants. And na cculture shock lang siguro ako kase medyo liberated mga tao dito. Alam mo naman pag galing pilipinas conservative (ng konti) Anyways TY

[cmax]

I agree with Ms.Cacao70%. Nung bagong kasal kami, lahat kinakalkal ko. Snoopy tawag ko sa sarili ko. Mapaparanoid ako pag di ako makalogin sa emails, phone, etc. So imagine the stress I'm putting myself into. I've learned to let go. So far, matahimik ang buhay. And somehow, I don't feel threatened kung kelan ko tinigilan ang pagiging snoop ko sa personal space ng asawa ko. Trust Sis and acceptance na boys will be boys are the keys to your peace.

[berryblitz]

well at least you didn't found him na naglalaway sa larawan ng mga hubad na lalaki 

i am not saying na wala kang karapatang magselos.  pero yung sa husband mo, it's so normal.

kung ako sa kalagayan mo, i won't really mind it.

my husband, i give him the right to go to clubs if he needs or wants to.  una hindi sya pupunta ng mag isa lang sya kasi kuripot yun.  and pumupunta sya ganung lugar pag kasama nya mga pinsan (supplier customer nya), supplier or customer nya.  so part talaga yun ng marketing. manuod sya ng babaeng nakahubad.  i don't care.  isinama pa nga nya ako one time sa may ganun.

ang sinabi ko lang sa kanya, kung may gagawin syang milagro, natural huwag nya papaalam sa akin.  and huwag nyang bubuntisin. and ang pinakapakiusap ko sa kanya is huwag sya magkakaron ng mistress, at huwag syang makikipaglaro sa kapwa nya lalaki.

there's really nothing wrong with your husband.

 
PS.  i saw a picture on his celfone, him with a girl na may numero, kaakbay nya.  they are in a karaoke.  sa china or hongkong ata si hubby with his relatives.  ok lang. pero sabi ko sa kanya, next time huwag syang magtago ng ganung picture hahaha.

[Girltalker2]

What is it with men such that they do this?  Don't they have self respect or even respect for their sisters and mothers?

TS, baka na hurt ka nga lang kasi una una newly married pa kayo.  He is supposed to find you and only you sexy and not have those kinds of thoughts with other women.

Second, why does he have to pass comments like that?  I understand the predicament naman kasi.  Nakikita ko yung mga lalaking naglalaway tuwing may nakikitang ibang babae or nagsasabi ng mga comments that insinuates other things --- parang hindi kasi sila satisfied sa current sex life nya or sa partner/asawa nila kaya sila nagkakaganun.  Opinion ko lang naman ito. Kapag iconfront mo naman if they are satisfied, baka ideny pa.  Pero for me ang babaw, they act like pigs behind your back.  Nakakahiya sila maging asawa.

Anyway, good that you have talked it out with your hubby.  At good medyo natablan rin sya ng kahihiyan. Ang hirap kasi sa society natin, kapag nagc comment ng ganyan ang mga lalaki sa mga kapwa lalaki, feeling nila they are more manly. Parang as if kung tahimik lang sila, they will be accused of being gay. That's BS.

[1choi_ko9]

Of course I will feel annoyed, pissed and disrespected.

He may have his "wild imagination thoughts", pero para sakin and for the sanctity of marriage it is something unforgivable.

Sabi nga nila, its like committing adultery kahit pa hindi nila nahahawakan but the thought na nag ra-run sa mind nila is inexcusable to the eyes of the Lord. Kase they are lusting on a different woman aside from their own wife. Maybe sa mga asawa natin walang mali don and ijajustify nilang wala silang ginagawang masama... kase for them they are not cheating...ni hindi naman nila nahahawakan at nakakausap ng personal...pero yon nga the point na ineentertain nila ang idea dun sumasama.

Baliktarin na tin ang mundo, if ikaw ba kaya ang gumawa non...ikatuwa kaya ng asawa mo???