ito din ba ang kinakatakutan mo?

[louiesmom]

I am confident. I gain weight during my pregnancy. Mukha pa din akong pregnant till now.  But hubby never made me felt unattractive. He always compliments me on how I look. Parang inuuto niya na ko minsan.  But I am now trying to loose weight. Not for my husband or for anybody but for myself, alone! 

[cinderella_322]

Hi sis TS, physical attributes and appearance is just a part of our husband's attraction to us.
It's not actually how do you look like but it's how you carry yourself with confidence and self respect. Men are more attractive into women who have these qualities where nobody can stamped all over her.
I'm sure the physical attraction part for you and your husband has come to pass na, the reason why you are together now is for your character and attitude. Just keep it up and maintain the fire burning and he will be yours forever!

 

[gracita13]

ang kinatatakutan ko is yung una syang mamatay saken *knock on wood* isipin ko pa lang na yung taong araw-araw kong kasama,katabi sa kama,kasabay kumain,kasama sa lahat ng lakad haaay nadudurog ang puso ko 
this year lang may pinuntahan kameng lamay ng fam friend matanda na silang mag asawa,yung lalake ang namatay dahil sa katandaan at may sakit, sa 2hrs namen na pag stay dun mga 3-4 na beses humahagulgol ang asawa na kapag nakikita ko naiiyak din ako,.,napanood ko pa yung slideshow parang katatapos lang ata ng golden anniv nila 

[sunako16]

  tama ka jan sis cinderella.. Kahit na dumating na yung time na sumagwa o pumangit na hitsura natin ang mahalaga pa din yung attitude natin..

Sis gracita parehas tayo.. Mas natatakot ako pag naiisip ko yan.. Kapag napapagusapan nga namin yung kamatayan nagtatalo kami kung sino dapat ang mauunang mamatay e.. Gusto ko talaga ako mauna kasi di ko talaga kakayanin pag siya ang nauna samin.. Alam ko din kasing mas malakas loob niya kaysa sakin..

Sis louisemom wow I'm happy for you po..

[swtgrl_bee]

Hindi ko ito kinakatakutan 5 years older si Hubby at medyo tumataas na hairline niya  Pero madly inlove padin ako sa kanya. Siya naman, yung belly ko ay hindi na bumalik sa dati after kong manganak eh mahal na mahal padin ako. Lagi lang namin pinag uusapan wag lang mawawala yung mga nagustuhan nung bf/gf pero more on attitude nga.

[ladygaga1013]

Dapat positive lang lagi ang outlook natin in life. Kahit na we've been married for just a year or even 10 years or more, basta wag natin papabayaan ang sarili natin. It does not mean yung physical aspects lang natin pero yung attitude talaga ang mahalaga. If we have high regards for ourselves, it would show how other including our hubbies see us. If ever dumating man ang time na magkanap sya ng iba, remember it's his lost not yours. Dahil wala na syang ibang mahahanap na katulad mo.

[rhomalicious]

My bumblebhie is 11years older than me kaya this is not un issue to me..

After i gave birth at nakikita nya ang saggy tummy ko and puro kamot, uma act sya na parang nasusuka.

Pero pag may binibili akong beauty products o kaya magpaalam akong magtetraining ako sa dati kong School ng Taekwondo para bumalik yung katawan ko. panic mode sya.. bakit ko pa daw kelangan un.

And he never wants me na bumalik sa pagtuturo in college kasi baka may manligaw na naman daw sa aking studyante. he actually wants me to stop working at mag alaga nalang daw ng mga anak namin para malosyang ako..

Sya ang may takot sa isyung ito..

[rhomalicious]

^so sweet of you...

[sunako16]

My bumblebhie is 11years older than me kaya this is not un issue to me..

After i gave birth at nakikita nya ang saggy tummy ko and puro kamot, uma act sya na parang nasusuka.

Pero pag may binibili akong beauty products o kaya magpaalam akong magtetraining ako sa dati kong School ng Taekwondo para bumalik yung katawan ko. panic mode sya.. bakit ko pa daw kelangan un.

And he never wants me na bumalik sa pagtuturo in college kasi baka may manligaw na naman daw sa aking studyante. he actually wants me to stop working at mag alaga nalang daw ng mga anak namin para malosyang ako..

Sya ang may takot sa isyung ito..

 

ganun.. di po ba selfishness yung ginagawa ni hubby sayo? tingin ko mas okay kung gagawin mo din yung part mo para bumalik ulit yung dati mong figure tapos mag work ka ulit.. nasa sayo naman po yun kung papatulan mo po mga didiskarte sayo e.. pero opinion ko lang naman po un hehe 

[rhomalicious]

^thanks for your POV sis and it is certainly true..

actually pag sinasabi nya naman ang mga iyon ay pabiro and i wont let him do that to me..nothing can stop me from what i want..actually sa relationship namin mas dominante ako kaya nga minsan sinasabihan nya kong "magpasakop ka sa asawa mo as the bible said".

Im back to work, but i can't start to do any exercises pa as my OB advised since i gave birth via CS. it takes few months pa daw..

[sunako16]

ok sis mabuti naman kung ganun

[rhomalicious]

Kapag napapagusapan nga namin yung kamatayan nagtatalo kami kung sino dapat ang mauunang mamatay e.. Gusto ko talaga ako mauna kasi di ko talaga kakayanin pag siya ang nauna samin.. Alam ko din kasing mas malakas loob niya kaysa sakin..

Nakakaloka naman girl..never pa naming napagusapang kung anong gagawin sa unang mamamatay..MAPAGUSAPAN nga...hahaha

[sunako16]

  hehe napapagusapan namin yan ni hubby pag nag ddrama kami at nagiging emotional.. Pero di naman namin madalas pagusapan yan.. Hehe kaw talaga sis..

[artegirl]

well pareho naman kami tumatanda kaya I suppose ok lang.  basta make sure to take care of yourself parin kahit married na (wag hayaan maging losyang!).  sabay naman kayo tatanda (unless na lang if your husband is so much younger than you ala Demi M. and Ashton K.). 

[kittypaw]

Nope, basta aalagaan mo sarili mo to always look presentable. Ang pinaka error na nakikita ko eh youre too young to settle down your what like 17 or 18 nung naging kayo kasi you mentioned 4 years.. This is just so wrong, you are meant to experience muna the world and be an adult emotionally before you get into this.

[rhomalicious]

yahh girls all we need to do is to be the most beatiful girl in our hubby's eyes..

dont you ever take your self for granted para iwan ka man at least maganda ka pa rin..

[hisana]

I agree, fading looks is inevitable for everyone, so might as well accept it. Of course, syempre despite this, do what you can to keep yourself presentable at any age. Now, regarding kung kinakatakutan ko ito...as long as I'm not married to a total douchebag who'll leave me at the slightest chance with a younger girl, eh I wouldn't worry about it too much. Yung ibang guys din naman nag-iiba ang gusto sa partners nila as they both mature (again, this is referring to the non-total douchebags), so it's not all necessarily about looks.

[Girltalker2]

^ hahaha hisana, I like the way you have put it, ASSUMING non-total douchebags!

Kaya mga girls, makinig kayo mabuti. Marry right. Marry the non-total doubhebags and you will never be afraid of such things happening to you.