Para sa mga SINGLE MOMS

[freelancer_babe]

^ parang mali ata yun na i-decline ka sa ID? you're legally a solo parent pa rin kasi.

so ibig sabihin, the municipal office will just ask me if I have  a boyfriend? and if I have, di ako pwede sa ID? hmm... so really, they did that to you?

it's not even really your BF's responsibility to take care of your child; your BF may help, but it's not really his duty and is not required of him. yung talagang dapat na may sustento is the real father.

[jhenpretty]

^ hi sis freelancer_babe. Thanks sa reply. there is an application form na need ifill-out. May part dun asking for the family composition. I included my BF kasi we're living together na with my son. Nagtataka kasi sila kung bakit ako single. Then I was asked kung may BF na ko. Sabi ko meron na and I included him sa family composition. Kaya yun na decline ako. Sabi ko nga we're not married naman. Tapos sabi nila eh di lahat daw ng may kalive-in pero single mom pinagbigyan na nila. ayun.. Sino kaya makakasagot nito?

[slickchick]

sayang it's only now that i found this thread.. anyway, share ko lang..

to my dear SD (short for sperm donor) - akalain mo! ang gwaping ng kinalabasan ng combination ng isang pinay (ako), at isang half-british/half-bulldog na gaya mo (you look like one daw according to all my friends).. hahaha! 

i just want you to know that nung makita ng son ko ang picture mo... napaiyak sya.. napaiyak sya not because of sadness, but because of the fact na panget ka daw at ayaw nya maging kamukha mo when he grows up. 

i do hope you find your happiness, because my son and I have found ours. my son may not have a biological dad right now, but it is far better than to have you around -- with our frequent fighting and , breathing on each other's necks because of your wrong sense of pride and your being irresponsible. God bless you na lang.. 

[eyorro]

Thanks sa hindi mo pagsustento sa mga anak mo... Kahit wala ka mapapagraduate ko na sa college ang anak ko...At alam ko wala kang mapapala sa kanya. Kaya good luck na lang!!!

[lovely_carrot]

I have no ill feelings anymore about my daughter's dad. If you ask me 3 years ago, I would have pulled out all the cusses and insults and ugly things I can say about him as a partner. But time indeed heals all wounds. And life has a way of getting back at those people who hurt you. I guess move on yung term ko dun. Pero ano nga bang masasabi ko sa kanya?

Thank you for the good genes. I'm sure, baby girl will thank you for her long legs, nice eyes and her fair skin.

Thank you for for the ipad mini, saved me a few thousand pesos.

Thank you for the support you've been extending to her financially. It pays to listen to my mom sometimes. Kung nagmalaki pa ako dati e di ako ang hirap magpaaral ngayon..

Thank you for taking the time to bond with her during your vacation time. I know you're trying you're darndest to be a good dad, might I say, you're doing good. keep it up, she won't be a kid for a long time.

I secretly wish you will end up with an average looking GF but an awesome stepmom material. Syempre no, gusto ko may puntos pa din ako sa looks department. Wala lang, baliw lang

[mariadj]

Thank You for the "care" and even though na I'm still crying every now and then, I still feel the love, i don't know why, but I guess, kahit I am so mad at you, what we have can't be replaced

[chiqmom]

Thank you for the monthly support. It helps a lot. Thank you for reaching out and while we cannot be like before, I really appreciate that we're friends now. Stay safe always, and rest assured that you have a family here to call your own.

[pinkswirls12]

sa araw araw na ginawa ng Diyos ay araw araw din kitang naalala dahil para kayong pinagbiyak na bunga ng anak ko. ang ganda at ang puti ni baby at ang laging napapansin ay ang tangos ng ilong. hindi na sayo yun kasi ang laki ng ilong mo. sa daddy ko yun. kahit inilihim nyo ng mommy mo sa buong maganak nyo ang tungkol sa pagkakaroon mo ng baby ay okay lang sa akin. kala nila ay tatahi tahimik ka lang at binatang binata. walang lihim na hindi mabubunyag. kagaling din ng mommy mo sa pagkunsinte sa kalokohan mo. mukhang nakakatulog pa kayo ng ayos sa ginawa nyo sa akin mula ng buntis pa ako. hindi ako nagaalala o gagawa pa ng way para makaganti sa inyo dahil alam ko may kahihinatnan kayo. natuwa ako ng binyag dahil walang nagtanong kung nasaan ang tatay. ganun kami nirerespeto ng mga tao dahil alam nilang maayos kaming pamilya, maayos akong babae, hindi pakawala sa tabi tabi sadyang nagkamali lang sa lalaking minahal na ubod ng duwag. pinagpepray ko pa rin kayo ng pamilya mo na maging maayos kayo. nasa Paris ang mommy mo para kumayod ng pera dahil wala naman kayong daddy. parang awa mo na, huwag mo ng uulitin pa sa iba. salamat sa Diyos sa katatagan ng loob ko at ng pamilya ko. kung sa iba mo ginawa, baka ipapatay ka pa..

[miss_isla]

I know that whatever you did, you've thought of that many times and that you felt that was the best decision you ever did at that time, it just so happened that it was different from mine.

Thank you for leaving, I wouldn't want my son to see you and grow up to be like you anyway. Thank you for making me stronger.

[Lyranika]

Huwag mo naman kaladkarin ang anak ko sa mga palipad-hangin mo. Parang puro pa-bida ka sa mga kwento mo sa ibang tao tungkol sa mga plano mo para sa anak mo e, pero nakapanganak, nakapag-1st birthday ang anak ko, ni kahit ano e walang dumating, ni hindi mo man lang nagawang silipin. Paiyak-iyak ka pa sa kanila.

Nung gusto mong ipalaglag yung bata, ako na umiwas para hindi ako tuluyang magalit sayo. Katangahan kung iisipin, but I spare you the reason na naguguluhan ka lang. Pero imbes na ako ang kausapin mo, e hindi. Hindi ko naman na inaasahang mag-sorry ka. Pero hindi ko makitang sincere ka sa mga sinasabi mo sa kanila. Dinala ko sya ng syam na buwan, nag-isang taon na sya, naibigay ko lahat ng kelangan nya, alam kong hindi ako nagkulang sa kanya. Kaya huwag mo naman na sanang gamitin ang anak ko.

Kung pinapangunahan man kita ngayon sa mga plano mo, pasensya ka, pero mahabang panahon na din ang binigay kong pagkakataon sayo para magawa mo ang dapat mong gawin, kaso wala. Inaayos ko lang ang buhay ng anak ko, kahit wala ka na.

[Raserei]

I pity you. You will never feel your daughter's arms around you. Her lips on your cheeks. Her hand holding yours. I just wish that when the time comes. When she asks for you, you'll be man enough to at least show yourself.

Don't go on pretending that you miss me and her. You already have a family of your own. Deal with it. I don't have plans of going back to you. I'm already happy. We're already happy without you. Let's keep it that way.

Good luck with your chosen life. I hope you rot in hell.

[pathetica]

Hey MR.****** salamat sa lahat ng ginawa mo sa akin at ng family mo dahil nakita ko na may halaga ako. Thank you for hurting me physically at emotionally (learned from it). Be thankful dahil nagmana sa akin ang baby ko. Pakasaya kayo ng GF mong mukhang bakekang, pareho kayo.