How not to worry about being nbsb and finding the one

[sprinkledust]

How do you not worry about finding the one if you or someone you know is still an nbsb at in their 20's and 30's?

How do you take away the fear of ever finding the one?

Thanks in advance.

[iwannabeasupermodel]

i think the technique, is to not look for love.

[pret_ty68]

Acceptance. Do not depend on others for your happiness. Find happiness in yourself and in whatever you do. Accept the possibility that he may not come but nonetheless you will still be a great and fabulous person. We have unique circumstances since each of us has unique blessings and burdens. There is no need to conform to society's expectation.

[j.adore]

Quoting my friend:
pag meron, meron
pag wala, eh di wala
life goes on

[mindiegirl]

^sis sprinkledust, someone told me before na if the desire to have a partner is in you, it will come at the right time and place. I think what helped me before was to trust God that he will give me the deaire of my heart. And yes no matter how gasgas na the advice na wag mong hanapin, its really true eh. (Atleast for me)

[three8one]

hayaan mong sila ang mag alala sa paghanap sayo... nakakalosyang kung yan na lang ang parati mo ipag aalala.

 

[sweet.hann]

do not worry dear.. baka sa kaka-worry mo, you miss out things around you.. missing out the right person, those people who never cease loving you, yung precious time na nawawala sayo kasi yung attention mo ay naka focus sa isang bagay..

i too, is still single.. pero what i like for still being single is that, i still have more time to spend with my friends.. syempre marami tayong set of friends and aminin natin na hindi lahat sila nakakamusta natin diba?

DO NOT WORRY. darating yung tamang time..

DO NOT FEAR. kasi may nakalaan para sayo..

[mindiegirl]

full of wisdpm sis sweet.hann spread the love. Love life does not apply to opposite sex only.

[hidinginseoul]

By giving yourself more love. Makakatulong din if we'd stop overthinking and overanalysing about it. Our mindset does affect our way of living a lot.

[pinkpassion]

Ask yourself first, before you think on  finding the one. Are you ready physically, emotionally, mentally, etc, ? you need to make yourself the right one first, before finding the one. Do not worry, enjoy your singlehood, e ano naman kung NBSB ka? Its not the end of the world dear. 

[simang]

Don't stress about finding the one. Be the one instead and let them find you.

[hidinginseoul]

Don't stress about finding the one. Be the one instead and let them find you.

I like this one! Winner!

I was re-reading Alex Gonzaga's book then I stumbled upon her quote from Beyonce: "You need to have your own life before you could become somebody's wife."