Am I just overreacting?

[crayondrops]

The day after new year, my bf casually told me that he let 2 girls (one he knows from his previous gym back in New zealnd and a friend of that girl whom he never met) stay in his bedroom in Sydney since dec31st. He's currently in melbourne with his fam for the holidays. Apperntly, the girls flew to sydney from nz without booking for hotels and now theyre stuck coz all the hotels are fully booked (dumb move, imo). They [textspeak!] him if they could crash in his couch for a few days til they hire a van

Sabi nya, since he wasnt there, then he didnt see any trouble with the situation and he said he'd mention it to me now just incase the girls posted somthing on facebook.

Im in new zealand and he's moved to sydney last month lang so we facetim on most nights.

I dont really feel comfortable with him inviting 2 girls in his bedroom even if ge washt there so i got really annoyed at him. Whats worse is, he's only been on that flat for 4 weeks and i feel sorry for his flatmate who had to accomodate 2 strangers into his flat.

Yesterday, i checked his fb page and saw one of the girl's photos in his room. Nothing wrong with the photo but the thought of other girls sleepingin his bed just doesnt sound right to me.

Would it be an issue for you if your boyfriend did this or am i just overreacting??

[zarazan]

Sakin parang okay lang naman. It's not like kasama niya yung girls sa room or anything. Siguro medyo "masyadong mabait" lang yung action kaya nakakaworry, but if you think about it, nothing's really wrong. 

[chicafabulosa]

Well as long as he doesnt sleep with them who cares if they sleep on his bed. He is not with them naman eh so realx ka lang. But it's gonna be different story if he is there and he sleeps with them in one room, dun ka na mag react. So as of now, just relax but tell him how you really feel about it. At least he knows you are not comfortable with that. but dont nag him or sound like you don't trust him.

[aquacharly]

You're overreacting. No issue.

He is just being a helpful friend --  things like this happen, kung natapatan ng favor & it doesn't require much from you to help out -- pwes, help out. Goodwill to all mankind ika nga.

Photo on his bed? As long as she doesn't put it in the wrong context.  Basta case facts lang:  gratitude for letting them use his empty room, ok yan kahit ilang FB accounts pa post. 

[mooncake and leaves]

if the source of your annoyance is jealousy, then yes, you are overreacting. but i actually don't think you're completely wrong. i don't think i would want my bf to rent out his place to people he didn't really know either. especially since, like you mentioned, it's an imposition on the flatmate.

and yeah, seriously, who books airfare without booking a hotel? dahell. baka naman intention talaga nila to crash at your bf's para makatipid. in this day and age, napakadali to book a room practically anywhere and it's typically more expensive if you don't have a reservation, i find it to believe na they'd leave their accommodation to chance.

oh well. andiyan na yan and it it's his place so you can't really tell him what to do. just be grateful you have a nice bf. nice to a fault nga lang. he will need you forever

[Ladee_16]

you know your bf better than any of us. im not igniting fire here but the mere thought of someone sleeping in your bf's bed is something to think about. and, konting delicadeza for the girls sana. are they and your bf that close, na parang magkakapatid sila or barkada? if it's the latter, medyo nakakaparanoid nga kasi anything can happen. but benefit of the doubt ka na lang din sis, "baka" wala lang yun.

for me, in this case, trust your instincts kasi most of the time, it never fail

[baliwsayo]

Tapos na naman at nagreact ka na.. ang mas dapat itanong ngayon eh, ano na mangyayari pagkatapos?