Not yet pregnant? How to handle pressure.

[avitot]

Kami ni hubs ko TTC for 7 years and both of us nasa early 30s na.  never kami nagcontrol and we had checkup na pero di kami masyadong nagrely sa suggestion ni OB na workout daw. Go with the flow lang kami also nagtry kami to take mga supplements lang.

Walang nakakalam even our families about our issues getting pregnant akala nila ako daw may ayaw. My MIL once asked us to go to their house bisita daw only to find out naghire ng acupuncturist lol for me and hubby so nahiya na kami pumayag na lang kami.

when my session started biglang nagtanong ba naman si MIL sa babae na "ano, pwede pa ba magbuntis?" sobrang nahurt ako non d nalang ako kumibo kunyare tawa nalang ako but I was devastated.

[akesanchez]

We've been married for 1 year and 2 months na pero since LDR kami, TTC for few months pa lang talaga kami. Ang dami talagang makakasalubong na tao lalo na yung mga hindi mo madalas nakakasama at nagtatanong na bakit wala pa? Hindi ba daw namin plano pa? Dapat daw bilisan na namin, talo pa daw kami ni ganito, ganiyan at kung ano-ano pa. I learned to ignore some, smile and say In God's time yan. Pero there are times talaga na nakakalungkot kasi you can't explain to everyone the journey you're going through. Yung kaba kapag feeling mo paparating na si AF at yung lungkot kapag dumating na nga siya. Pero ang mga bagay talaga na nagpapagaan ng pakiramdam ko is having faith na darating siya sa perfect time and having a very supportive and loving husband. Kahit kaming dalawa nalang, masaya naman pero kung ma-bless ng baby mas sasaya pa ng bongga! 

[Scubadoobidoo]

Never let others pressure you talaga. It does not help. We got married late in life. Our first baby was born last year and just found out last weekend na 6w pregnant si wife with our 2nd. She turned 40 and im 47 na. Basta pick an OB that both of you trust. Pointless kahit magaling if you dont trust your doctor. And dapat both mag pa check. And most important healthy living. Im proof that smoking can affect your chances having a baby. The journey is supposed to be shared by the couple hindi lang ang girl. Our OB keeps saying that pag couple ang sabay laki ng chance mabuntis. Pero pag yung girl lang palagi mas hirap.

[yn061515]

Learn the art of dedma and believe in God's perfect timing! 
He will make everything beautiful in His time. 

[rasee16]

I'm so glad I found this thread. I am 29, still single, in a relationship for 7 yrs. My mom is pushing me to get married and have kids na so she can have her apo. Ok, I'm fine with getting married BUT I am not yet ready to have a child. Minsan nakakapikon na nga kasi parang desperate na ang mom ko eh. Magpa buntis nalang daw ako kung hindi pa kami magpapakasal ni bf. And worse, hiwalayan ko nalang daw si bf at magpabuntis sa iba kasi sayang yung time. What the heck was that??

Yesterday, we met a client. This certain client is super machika. We arrived at 2pm and 7pm na natapos. Nakalkal na buong buhay ko pati nga yang mag-anak na raw ako and all. Ang hirap hirap gawin ng sinasabi ng iba na master the art of dedma kasi more than 3 hours na pero yun parin ang topic. Nakahanap ng kakampi ang nanay ko. They were both ganging up on me na mahihirapan nako magkaanak pag naghintay pako ng 30's. Tapos kawawa naman daw mom ko kasi wala syang apo (I'm a single child btw).

Hindi ko alam pero I just find it so selfish. Bakit ganun, gusto lang nila ako mabuntis para may malarong baby ang mom ko? Tapos ako magpapakahirap na mabuntis, gumastos, mag-alaga at kumayod kasi anak ko yun? Eh sa hindi pa nga ako ready emotionally, mentally at financially. I will have kids when I am responsible enough to rear them. If the time comes na ready na ako at di naman ako magkaanak, eh di mag adopt.

Grabe lang ang pressure. Sa flow ng conversation kasi, mas proud pa sila sa mga naanakan out of wedlock kahit hindi nakatapos ng pagaaral. Samantalang sinikap ko nga makapagtapos ng college ng hindi nabubuntis para wala silang masabi sa akin. Di man lang naappreciate yun. Hmp.

Sorry napahaba na post ko. I'm just so glad nalabas ko na sama ng loob ko.

[yannuh]

Learn the art of dedma and believe in God's perfect timing! 
He will make everything beautiful in His time. 

amen to this si hubby na lagi sumasagot pag magkasama kami tapos may magtatanong bakit daw wala pa. sasabihin ni hubby, ginagawa pa po recently, yung bagong landlady namin ang nagtanong, natatawa na lang ako.

[Twinsies33]

Mas mahirap this month... napasobra lang ng kain... tanong  agad if buntis na?! Dba  pwedeng nag buffet Lang? Pero ang Hirap lang sagutin ng Ganon dahil bitter [textspeak!] dating, so Tama lang ang LAHAt na dedmahin or smile na  lang ;-)